Virat sir, your statements and expectations badly clash!

We can totally take in Virat's feelings today. But wasn't it he who instructed Sai not to look forward for anything from him. Even when Pakhi left the Chavan house he used this "Pakhi ke liye mere dil mein jo pyaar...." and then suddenly changed it to"dosti". How would Sai understand him when he himself has no clue about what he wants. Now why is he so angry and upset with her!? He should make his intentions clear like he did before the wedding.

Virat sir, Sai is immature, we won't deny, but what happened to your maturity levels? Why can't you see that your previous statements, and expectations now are contradicting??

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

We can totally take in Virat's feelings today. But wasn't it he who instructed Sai not to look forward for anything from him. Even when Pakhi left the Chavan house he used this "Pakhi ke liye mere dil mein jo pyaar...." and then suddenly changed it to"dosti". How would Sai understand him when he himself has no clue about what he wants. Now why is he so angry and upset with her!? He should make his intentions clear like he did before the wedding.

Virat sir, Sai is immature, we won't deny, but what happened to your maturity levels? Why can't you see that your previous statements, and expectations now are contradicting??

Poor guy himself doesn't know that he is in love and want his wife as his wife! And his wife is not going to understand till "shpashta shabda" come out, so we will have to bare the jalebi emotions

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

We can totally take in Virat's feelings today. But wasn't it he who instructed Sai not to look forward for anything from him. Even when Pakhi left the Chavan house he used this "Pakhi ke liye mere dil mein jo pyaar...." and then suddenly changed it to"dosti". How would Sai understand him when he himself has no clue about what he wants. Now why is he so angry and upset with her!? He should make his intentions clear like he did before the wedding.

Virat sir, Sai is immature, we won't deny, but what happened to your maturity levels? Why can't you see that your previous statements, and expectations now are contradicting??

Principal of University of Maturegarh is on the way to revise maturity lessons. Have faith in her. He will find his maturity again🤣

"That's your responsibility as a person, as a human being - to constantly be updating your postitions on as many things as possible" - Gladwell

Im glad that he is giving contradicting statements, it symbolises how he is changing his stance as far as his relationships is concerned.

Of course, not fair to Sai. But, it is what it is.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

"That's your responsibility as a person, as a human being - to constantly be updating your postitions on as many things as possible" - Gladwell

Im glad that he is giving contradicting statements, it symbolises how he is changing his stance as far as his relationships is concerned.

Of course, not fair to Sai. But, it is what it is.

👍🏼I have no problem with his changing stance but he should at least be aware of what he said previously before bursting on others.

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

👍🏼I have no problem with his changing stance but he should at least be aware of what he said previously before bursting on others.

That's why he needs some serious introspection as to why he has changed his stance 😆

At the moment he is angry that Sai cannot understand him. How would she, when he is so confused😆

Originally posted by: Chattering-Lory

👍🏼I have no problem with his changing stance but he should at least be aware of what he said previously before bursting on others.

Exactly. He has very conveniently forgotten all the previous jalebis and is now expecting her to swallow and digest more.

Makes me wonder, he said 'tum mujhse ummeed mat rakhna, main Pati Nahi ban paunga' but the moment she said, 'main bhi patni Nahi ban paungi', it was a bee sting. So essentially, he wanted a 'patni' and Chavan Khandaan ki bahu always. He's only voicing it now but still in jalebi forms. And with an unfair one-sided expectation because he's still bound to his vaada

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

That's why he needs some serious introspection as to why he has changed his stance 😆

At the moment he is angry that Sai cannot understand him. How would she, when he is so confused😆

He has clutched on to all the words she spoke on the phone-- pyaar Nahi karte, baat Nahi karte, meri zarooraton ke baare me Nahi sochte, Ghar wale mujhe taana maarte Hain, Mera pyaar banoge? Meri zarooratein hain, Mera bhi Dil hai, main bhi insaan hoon... Meri murjhayi Zindagi.

So a reply to each of her lines came back today including how much he has done for her, he is also human, she has done nothing in return, he wants to talk to her but she doesn't, he changed her life, he married her, she is the one who doesn't do the 'pyaar' and 'baat' 🚒🚒🚒 Despokhi waitress has no idea what is the fire about 🤣

its not only about sai but also his whole thinking and pov contradicts from time to time

i really hated the fact that virat iss baath ko realise bhi nay kar raha hai ki usne apni mom ke saat kaise baat ki hai. and he expects sai to behave nicely with kaku and gang.🤪

i want sai to ask him the same, 'muje gyaan baante se pehle aap apne gyaan ko kudh follow kare and then talk to be about it'

and also virat kudh ki 'best friend' 24/7 ghar mein uske peeche padi rehti hai, wife and husband ke maamlon mein interfere karti hai, virat usse apni 'pyaari cheez' bolta hai and gave her soo much freedom to enter his room without knocking even in night time etc and usse sai ki 2 mins amey se pyaar se baat karne ki 'naatak' karne se ithna zyaada problem horai hai?

instead of talking about her baba sai should talk about all these things. i want to see virat kya jawaab dega.

In a very human way it was a genuine reaction from him for the moment. HE was not living in the past but living in the present but forgot that people took his words too seriously. Both the ladies have taken him too seriously and are living by his words.

For him to clear things, he needs to clear is brain first which is right now filled with anger and hurt. Somebody needs to show him a mirror, hopefully soon.

Guess he was done being the parent (mature) in the relationship and wanted a little attention and pampering from his wife. She is the only one he is expecting things from. The rest of his family he has no hopes.