Is it too much to expect from Sai? - Page 2

I understand what you are trying to say. I felt that both had different set of expectations- Sai was stuck in the morning mode where he yelled and was looking for appreciation from him and Virat wanted to move on from what happened and strike a conversation to normalize things. Since they were at different points , the argument that sounded like banter to begin with ended up into an intense and hurtful fight where both were equally hurting each other at exactly the point where it hurts most.

Originally posted by: by_stander

If Sai says anything Virat gets angry, if she stays silent he gets angry, if she breathes the CM gets angry, if she minds her own business then PP gets angry...LIKE her own existence makes all the CHAVAN blood and the Cahvan bahus to embroil in rage.

Today, Virat started the argument from what I have seen. He was taking out his frustration from last night to today's argument. For once, I just want Sai to LEAVE the house and live on her own. This way Virat will realize how much he needs Sai, and Sai too will realize how much she needs Virat. At that time they won't be fighting to prove the other wrong. But CVs kaha hamara Baat sunte hay.

She still is awake till he came..and wanted to remain silent. How much could an eighteen year old take? Will she have the patience to find the hidden love from his not so clear rants at that moment? Yes it is wrong for her to say he is nothing before her father but Virat said even worse things to his mother and Ashwini is magnanimous enough to brush it off ..

Sai would never allow herself to get effected by his random expressions in words. She needs clarity regarding his stand on the deal... till then she will ignore everything he says though his words convey his real emotions.

Originally posted by: yyyy

Anyone who saw Virat could sense that he was tired and he was not able to speak or stand properly due to exhaustion. Sai could have shown some concern. I agree he was wrong in the morning and she has every right to be pissed but sometimes you need to forget your anger for time being and care for the man who has stood by you like a rock till now. If not as a wife at least as a roommate she could have shown some concern instead of going on in high pitch tone. We do that for our roommates and here he is her husband whom she has some feelings too.

Virat is confused about his feelings and takes his families name to cover-up. I understand it confuses Sai but at least out of humanity she could shown some care . Even if it's a deal marriage, he has always done things to make her happy so is it unreasonable if he expects her to work as a team and if he expects her to share her plan with him. He did say he was expecting to have a conversation over dinner and his said he was made to feel like she never loved him or wanted to marry me. Is she so naive not to understand his hidden meaning .Last time, she was pre occupied with Shivani’a issue but this time I was disappointed with her.

She remembered Virat’s behavior with his mom but today she did the same thing which Virat did to his mom in anger. How fair it is to say he is not worthy enough to be compared with Kamal Sir.

They need to strengthen their relationship otherwise outsiders will be able to cause a rift in their relationship. Both need to put some effort even if they plan to stay together for a short time.

Totally agree, she needed to chill. Looking at Virat's abnormal behavior she should have stepped back to think why is he behaving the way he is? He doesn't emote much, talk much or get angry much, but today he had all the syndromes. She should have given a listening ear.

Originally posted by: methebest

Totally agree, she needed to chill. Looking at Virat's abnormal behavior she should have stepped back to think why is he behaving the way he is? He doesn't emote much, talk much or get angry much, but today he had all the syndromes. She should have given a listening ear.

I agree to your point if she was someone who is someone old enough to understand all these things. But how do we expect an 18 yr old to understand hidden meaning and jalebi baatein of her husband. I was busy worrying about getting ragged by my seniors and enjoying my new found freedom from hectic classes during that age.

Originally posted by: raji02

I agree to your point if she was someone who is someone old enough to understand all these things. But how do we expect an 18 yr old to understand hidden meaning and jalebi baatein of her husband. I was busy worrying about getting ragged by my seniors and enjoying my new found freedom from hectic classes during that age.

Also, Sai's hot headed personality make it more difficult. But I prefer strong FL over bucket tears FL.

Originally posted by: raji02

I agree to your point if she was someone who is someone old enough to understand all these things. But how do we expect an 18 yr old to understand hidden meaning and jalebi baatein of her husband. I was busy worrying about getting ragged by my seniors and enjoying my new found freedom from hectic classes during that age.

And the fact is she never saw her parents . She saw her Aaba alone ,so she don't know that couples fight also. When a man comes home he need water. She never saw her mother who bring water for his father . She never knew she had to wait for someone to have dinner. She only know one relation that is Father Daughter

She know whatever she will do her father will agree and make it fulfill for her. She never knew in such age she has to take responsibility, she thought she will enjoy her normal COLLEGE life. It will be difficult for her .

In GC no one was there to control her,to keep her quiet ,to tell to differentiate between the situations as to when to stay quiet when yo speak up.

Her small world lies with one and only her father and Usha Mausi.

His father was busy with duty and Usha mausi with household. She needs time, she needs love ,she need to be cared. Making her understand by screaming at her and bringing her father again and again.

I don't support it.

Ok, I understand your post and point.

However, I feel like Sai was trying to be calm for once. Both were still angry, that is clear. Virat was trying to break the silence and make the first step which is, in fact very nice of him. Sai was giving him the silent treatment, which is fine as well.

It all went down to the drain when he couldn't bear her silence and kept on talking. I feel like he could leave it at that, given that she was not cooperating. Plus, Sai had a test as well, so she was trying to avoid confrontation by moving back and forth to the bed and study table.

Im not saying Virat is wrong in trying to clear the differences, but, Sai had reasons to be angry as well.

Moreover, when he told her that "umeed mat rakhna", Sai took that literally, if she shouldn't expect him to be her husband, he shouldn't as well. She is not clear (even we are not🤣) if he was only referring to the physical intimacy. Thing is Chavan saheb umeed rakhne lage hain, aur shayad kuch zyada hi rakh rahe hain😆

Both were not entirely right and both were not entirely wrong.

I think they were still not over the fights from the morning and the day before..so they both needed this time to vent ..alone. Shivani bua was in the room when they fought and then everyone else...they never had a fight closure. so this was one thing in a way ..

Did anyone else feel virat regretting the jao and each word coming out of his mouth?

Originally posted by: prs_725

Did anyone else feel virat regretting the jao and each word coming out of his mouth?

I didn't feel that in that scene, but I am sure he will be nuts if she leaves. We might even get a scene where he would be thinking to himself, "Kya sai chali jayegi meri baat sunake? wo ja bhi sakti hai, per mai use jane nah dunga"🤣