Is it too much to expect from Sai?

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Anyone who saw Virat could sense that he was tired and he was not able to speak or stand properly due to exhaustion. Sai could have shown some concern. I agree he was wrong in the morning and she has every right to be pissed but sometimes you need to forget your anger for time being and care for the man who has stood by you like a rock till now. If not as a wife at least as a roommate she could have shown some concern instead of going on in high pitch tone. We do that for our roommates and here he is her husband whom she has some feelings too.


Virat is confused about his feelings and takes his families name to cover-up. I understand it confuses Sai but at least out of humanity she could shown some care . Even if it's a deal marriage, he has always done things to make her happy so is it unreasonable if he expects her to work as a team and if he expects her to share her plan with him. He did say he was expecting to have a conversation over dinner and his said he was made to feel like she never loved him or wanted to marry me. Is she so naive not to understand his hidden meaning .Last time, she was pre occupied with Shivani’a issue but this time I was disappointed with her.


She remembered Virat’s behavior with his mom but today she did the same thing which Virat did to his mom in anger. How fair it is to say he is not worthy enough to be compared with Kamal Sir.


They need to strengthen their relationship otherwise outsiders will be able to cause a rift in their relationship. Both need to put some effort even if they plan to stay together for a short time.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I totally agree with you.... Even I felt she is to much.... She is hurt we can understand but she she should also understand the person who supported her always, and yes comparing virat with Kamal sir nail is very bad... Even if there is some random person also , he/ she will get hurt... Yes virat too said few things and he is confused....but when we are njoying when he is doing good good things , we should also cut him some slack when he is hurt...I really feel good next day if both realize their mistakes....

PS: virat is not going to apologise aai😭😭😭😭

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Actually today i felt she was trying to be calm. She didn’t want to talk to him because she is still angry on him. But virat couldn’t handle silent treatment from his badbad devi. He does things for her because he has accepted her as his wife. Even though sai is fond of him, she is still at the phase of deal wali shadi.

Yes sai shouldn’t have said that to virat. It was like she was trying to get back at him for saying those nasty things to him.

But in anger even virat said so many nasty things. And tum ne mere liye kya kiya was totally unwarranted. Did he forget that he can actually be himself, laugh and live only with her? Did he forget how she always stood up for his aai and his bua?

Anyways, baath chote se jhagde se shuru hui thi ki tum mujhe attention nahi de rahi ho and kahi aur hi pahuch gai. Typical husband and wife.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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If Sai says anything Virat gets angry, if she stays silent he gets angry, if she breathes the CM gets angry, if she minds her own business then PP gets angry...LIKE her own existence makes all the CHAVAN blood and the Cahvan bahus to embroil in rage.


Today, Virat started the argument from what I have seen. He was taking out his frustration from last night to today's argument. For once, I just want Sai to LEAVE the house and live on her own. This way Virat will realize how much he needs Sai, and Sai too will realize how much she needs Virat. At that time they won't be fighting to prove the other wrong. But CVs kaha hamara Baat sunte hay.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

I totally agree with you.... Even I felt she is to much.... She is hurt we can understand but she she should also understand the person who supported her always, and yes comparing virat with Kamal sir nail is very bad... Even if there is some random person also , he/ she will get hurt... Yes virat too said few things and he is confused....but when we are njoying when he is doing good good things , we should also cut him some slack when he is hurt...I really feel good next day if both realize their mistakes....

PS: virat is not going to apologise aai😭😭😭😭

I understand her confusion and Virat was confusing her more but she did cross her line when she said Virat is not worthy enough to compare with her father. From GC days, we have noticed she cannot apologize easily. I don't think she will but at least I hope she realizes she was rude to him.


Virat owes an apology to his Aai. I hope he does.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: raji02

Actually today i felt she was trying to be calm. She didn’t want to talk to him because she is still angry on him. But virat couldn’t handle silent treatment from his badbad devi. He does things for her because he has accepted her as his wife. Even though sai is fond of him, she is still at the phase of deal wali shadi.

Yes sai shouldn’t have said that to virat. It was like she was trying to get back at him for saying those nasty things to him.

But in anger even virat said so many nasty things. And tum ne mere liye kya kiya was totally unwarranted. Did he forget that he can actually be himself, laugh and live only with her? Did he forget how she always stood up for his aai and his bua?

Anyways, baath chote se jhagde se shuru hui thi ki tum mujhe attention nahi de rahi ho and kahi aur hi pahuch gai. Typical husband and wife.

Agree both said some nasty stuff to each other but still aI expected her to realize the person in front of her was exhausted, she could have checked if he had dinner. The last time they fought, even though Virat was angry he asked her to have her dinner and did not make it a ego issue
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Posted: 5 years ago
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I said in my post that she should apologize for it when they are done. But she said it in her urge to hurt him on purpose. She is not able to understand why her support system has suddenly joined the other team. She reminded him how he fought for her but because he's covering up his anger over her phone call to Amey by bringing up his stress due to family issues, she's feeling he's blaming her. I think she was calm and he was not in control. She said that distasteful comment being very aware that she was saying it.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: by_stander

If Sai says anything Virat gets angry, if she stays silent he gets angry, if she breathes the CM gets angry, if she minds her own business then PP gets angry...LIKE her own existence makes all the CHAVAN blood and the Cahvan bahus to embroil in rage.


Today, Virat started the argument from what I have seen. He was taking out his frustration from last night to today's argument. For once, I just want Sai to LEAVE the house and live on her own. This way Virat will realize how much he needs Sai, and Sai too will realize how much she needs Virat. At that time they won't be fighting to prove the other wrong. But CVs kaha hamara Baat sunte hay.

I agree with you that he was frustrated and was unable to express his feelings correctly. He did confuse her by bringing his family. The real problem is he doesn't feel loved and is insecure. They can realize each other's worth by staying in the same house. They need to cool down and give each other some space
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyyy

Agree both said some nasty stuff to each other but still aI expected her to realize the person in front of her was exhausted, she could have checked if he had dinner. The last time they fought, even though Virat was angry he asked her to have her dinner and did not make it a ego issue

You know what, maybe she would have asked, but aate aate he started yelling at her , got mad at her for reasons unknown to her, he literally counted the things he has done for her.

She cannot go like, Virat sir aapne Khaana Khaya? 🥱
When things tone down, maybe she would have asked him to eat, but unfortunately PP will appear 🤪

And I think, totally my opinion, but Virat expecting to eat dinner with her , to sit and talk pyaar bhari baat will be extremely new for Sai.

She is seedhi baat, no bakwas!
Virat will have to be clear with her.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I said in my post that she should apologize for it when they are done. But she said it in her urge to hurt him on purpose. She is not able to understand why her support system has suddenly joined the other team. She reminded him how he fought for her but because he's covering up his anger over her phone call to Amey by bringing up his stress due to family issues, she's feeling he's blaming her. I think she was calm and he was not in control. She said that distasteful comment being very aware that she was saying it.

It's common between husband and wife where they hurt each other during an argument but they understand their partner never meant. At least she could have checked if he was ok when she was he saw he was exhausted.

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