Pyaar maanga hai tumhi se, na inkaar karo

Good morning sisterhood!!

Please don't skip today's episode lovelies 💞

If Virat could say his dialogues in a song today, it would be:

Kitna madhur safar hai tu mera humsafar hai

Beete hue woh din zara yaad karo

Mujhe pyaar karo

Pyar manga hai tumhi se na inqaar karo❤️❤️❤️

"Pyaar" - a word once stuck in your head, cannot be erased so quickly. The word is stuck in his head because 😆😁 The word has so much heat that Chavan saheb is still burning 🥺🔥 unable to overcome the sting of "Tum Mera pyaar Nahi banoge" mouthed by the "wife" to someone else.

What is the best way to resolve a fight you desperately want to end? Try to start a conversation. Virat tried but ended up backfiring because he forgot he is trying to end an unresolved fight with Sai Joshi "the rebel queen". She decided to give him the silent treatment and he couldn't handle it. 😂

In their first moment alone after the flirting act left him scorched, his palpable anger at not getting the attention he wanted from Sai ended up into another show down (to be continued when official waitress brings hot dinner🤮). But in that fit of rage, Virat totally gave away what he wants of Sai.

He said the golden words: " Tum hamesha mujhe ye ehsaas dilati ho ki tum mujhse pyaar Nahi Karti, tum mujhse Shaadi Karna Nahi chahti thi..."

Lo, yahi toh hum itne time se discuss Kar rahe Hain... How he's always wanted an acknowledgement from her in some ways. He wants to feel 'loved' by her. At any other moment, Sai would have caught it and even tried to cover up her blush, but the moment was far from romantic for her to realise.

There were so many hurtful words they said to each other before and after the golden words he spoke that neither did he realise what he blurted out nor has Sai actually understood yet. I am hoping that when she replays it in her head, she will stop at this admission he has made and think about it 💕

But she was the calmer of the two during the outburst and so she was actually 'hearing' and reacting to his words. Virat was the one speaking in rage and spitting out the fire inside him after the flirting act. He is indeed hurting about the cancelled dinner 😅 I think had Sai not been on the phone with Amey when he walked into the room the previous night, they would have still had the dinner they were looking forward to.

"Maine socha baat karenge, dinner karenge Saath me... Kabhi pyaar se baith Kar poocho din Kaisa Gaya... Tum mujhe batao, tumhara din Kaisa Gaya..." The pain with such he said it made me feel bad for him 😒 but is he not realising that his "umeed" is totally against the conditioning that Sai has gone through regarding the conditions of the deal?! He's expecting her to go with the flow of his emotions which is unfair because Sai still hasn't understood that he's infuriated because he's possessive about her.

And he is actually cloaking his jealousy under the badtameezi pravachan, which is a trigger for her and not a calming conversation to end the fight. He's pushing the wrong buttons because he actually doesn't know how else to vent out his anger if not with the badtameezi rant. He got one moment of consolation when she said the family would have strifled her dreams of becoming a doctor had he not fought for her. He wanted to hear more. He wants to hear all that she spoke in jest over the phone during her act for himself now 😅

He cannot tell her "I couldn't handle that one" after she rejected his 'Pasand' with such a cold heart 😓-- his tears had begun showing after that 😅. But someone must tell him that if he stops serving jalebis and offers her an ice cream instead, she will perhaps willingly add the cherries to the sundae.

Why, otherwise, a man who had come home to enjoy his dinner with his wife suddenly realised that he needs to tell her she's still "bursting like a bomb" on his family all the time 😒 And he's unable to find his grip still? 😑 What happened to all those emotional intelligence sessions from your academy, Chavan saheb? 😓 And he totally rejected her suggestion that he had misbehaved with Aai 😲🙄

At one level he wants to end her constant 'bomb ki tarah fatna' on the family because he actually wants that time and peace only for the two of them but it is a conversation he could have had at any time in a much better tone, not like this with anger still spilling over. He needs to tell her what he actually wants : he wants her to leave the family spats for him to handle in his way by using her tongue judiciously when required. I don't find it completely wrong because she cannot change things in a few days and it ends up causing stress between them when he is pushed to the edge by the family. He is really in an unenviable position.

Her unpleasant comment about "aap mere Aaba ke pair ke nakhoon ke baraabar bhi Nahi Hain" was very hurtful, piercing thorns into an open wound😓 Sai, this one will need an apology 😔 no matter what else happens tomorrow. This one comment was uncalled for not because he has actually done so much for her but because she knows that their relationship is far ahead of the point where they started. It's okay to say hurtful things in anger. It happens. But to me, this one comment she made was not in the slip of anger but on purpose to really, really have that one-upmanship on him.

I also feel that Sai was totally unable to see that he was speaking as this sore, possessive husband because he went on the badtameezi rant. There was so much tension around the physical proximity even -- he was following her, leaning over her, pulling things from her hand to get her to meet his eyes, the strong eye contact, so much urge to just grab her and tell her what her words had done to him and why he no longer wants to waste their moments on fighting family battles that can be avoided --- because the marriage is no longer a five year project.

Virat deeply cares for Sai and while he could have occasional PMSing and I just hope they don't show him crossing over to the side of overprotectiveness leading to this kind of character break. The build up to tomorrow doesn't really make me worry much about Despokhi. She's going to fail miserably because Virat is filled with his realisation of belonging to Sai.

So while I will reserve comments for tomorrow, I feel both Sai and Virat have hurt each other enough without needing Despokhi to make matters worse. In fact, if she arrives with the dinner and makes Sai leave the room at the moment, I would be happier because Virat told her "Jaao"😂😂😂. He will be swept over by the restlessness if she leaves the room.

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The beginning of the episode was such an eyesore 😖😖 it was so unnecessary and so creepy. I actually felt the insects crawling under my skin when Depokhi was trying the midnight mind game with her imaginary husband. I don't know if it was her (non existent) acting or my newfound contempt for the character that made me feel that way but I was uneasy when she offered him that glass of water -- it made me feel like Satan was offering apple to Adam 😖😠🤮Her "main tumhara intezaar Kar rahi thi" was so creepy that even khaki-donned Virat felt alarmed 😂 He was anyway in hurry to go to his Baiko.

What do I say about the Joker Makad Sena. All of them in the living room to hear Virat and Sai fighting 😂😂 Kitne nikkamme log hain. But today toh they were not even screaming like the previous night. I think Sairat needs to shift to a room in the space from where at least the sound of shattering glass doesn't reach the zillat arena 😐😐 and aisa kaunsa bomb blast tha that retired army officer wanted to investigate the source of it 🙄😑

Ashwini's stern warning to Despokhi wouldn't work because she's sold her soul to Mephastophilis Bhavani. So waitress will arrive tomorrow and try to fan the fires she can see. Only, she doesn't know that the fire she can see is not the blaze of fury but the flames of fledging passion between two souls. 💕❤️

The fire of love is burning deep

The fire of love won't let me sleep

Oh my love, hear this my plea

Because of you, it's burning me...

Have a great day all of you. If you are still flying the kites, soar as high as you can. Those who are working (like me), here's your coffee ☕ and also tea 🍵, as usual dher saara pyaar 💞💝 and hugs free 🤗 🤗🤗 This day is yours ✨🌟

Love

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Janki, again you make the worst of the things feel so good with your gifted words😍

I'm just hoping for virat to tell the waitress tomorrow that we don't need the food, hum ladai se pet bhar lenge, tum jaao😂😂😂😂😂😂

Awesome post.

One thing Virat wanted Sai to understand was think beyond your father. That is not the only relationship you can have.

I did feel the same as you in many places esp creepiness of Pakhi.

I dont know if its the actress who gives off that vibe or she portrays it so well. I was scared for Virat.

She was waiting for her prey and caught him, but changul se nikal gaya. She got another chance to meet Virat , family ke permission ke saath. 🤢

Good he told her she is not required to do that. I was waiting for one wrong dialogue from him to Pakhi to bash him.

I think he was happy to see Sai awake. But Virat is an idiot. He knows she was angry this morning and still usko gussa delays, he could not handle her silent treatment. One thing I didn't like was how loud they were. Poora family living room me aa gaye and they could hear their conversation. Why can't they have private fights.

When pakhi decides to go, why couldn't ashwini say okay if anyone has to go, then let it be me.

I would have liked it if they also showed ki khane ka plate pada hai, but Virat doesn't notice it and later feels bad for shouting.

Even today Virat was not angry at Sai, but his family thinks he is. And even tmrw at breakfast, when Devi will drag Virat down to show what's happening, he will reach towards the end, curious to see what he will do or if he will understand what is family is doing to the poor girl everyday and why she is alway in fighting mode.

Pakhi gives her toxic tea to her Makad gang in the morning, and her toxic water to Virat at midnight. Seriously the first half so was disgusting to watch to the point that even Virat felt uneasy with it. So to hide her real intention, she brought up their friendship🤢...I swear snakes like her need to be out in the forest, not at home.

I also believe that they both were very ugly with the fight. Virat started the fight and Sai being the hot-headed queen just reciprocated her angst to Virat's displeasure. However, I really enjoyed it as it seemed normal to me. However, Pakhi didi will come in and give her 2 cents and make everything worse. I just hope that tomorrow Sai sees Pakhi and leaves the room. I do not want her to even look at that toxic face.

And I feel the entire family has some kind of hearing device set in Sairat's room. Before the vase could fall on the floor, they all piled up in the living room LOL🤣 Seriously these people NEED TO GET A JOB OR A DIFFERENT HOBBY that doesn't include chuglibaazi.

Originally posted by: sukri

Awesome post.

One thing Virat wanted Sai to understand was think beyond your father. That is not the only relationship you can have.

He will need to tell her in clear words. She's too young and too overwhelmed to realise. Because he has told her she cannot have him for a husband. What else can she do but be stuck with Aaba who was the only relationship she had.

I did feel the same as you in many places esp creepiness of Pakhi.

I dont know if its the actress who gives off that vibe or she portrays it so well. I was scared for Virat.

She was waiting for her prey and caught him, but changul se nikal gaya. She got another chance to meet Virat , family ke permission ke saath. 🤢

Good he told her she is not required to do that. I was waiting for one wrong dialogue from him to Pakhi to bash him.

Yes, I was actually feeling scared. The setting was such -- dark and shades of the icy devilish blues, even her book was blue. Or was it because of the Bhavani conversation and our knowledge that she has the license to trap him? She was lying in wait for the prey🤢 I was literally screaming inside saying "don't have that water" just leave! It was creepy. Do you really think it was the acting or our inner contempt? Because I didn't find much in the skills...or are we not noticing because we don't like the character. But it was the first time I felt an emotion so strong with Despokhi in the frame.

I think he was happy to see Sai awake. But Virat is an idiot. He knows she was angry this morning and still usko gussa delays, he could not handle her silent treatment. One thing I didn't like was how loud they were. Poora family living room me aa gaye and they could hear their conversation. Why can't they have private fights.

When pakhi decides to go, why couldn't ashwini say okay if anyone has to go, then let it be me.

I would have liked it if they also showed ki khane ka plate pada hai, but Virat doesn't notice it and later feels bad for shouting.

Even today Virat was not angry at Sai, but his family thinks he is. And even tmrw at breakfast, when Devi will drag Virat down to show what's happening, he will reach towards the end, curious to see what he will do or if he will understand what is family is doing to the poor girl everyday and why she is alway in fighting mode.

He understands that something happened with Sai.. and even asks Despokhi to shut up at one point after she leaves for the college. Let's see how they play it out here.

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Janki, again you make the worst of the things feel so good with your gifted words😍

I'm just hoping for virat to tell the waitress tomorrow that we don't need the food, hum ladai se pet bhar lenge, tum jaao😂😂😂😂😂😂

Arey today's episode was damn good. I love their fights 😂 it makes me miss my husband when he's not around🤣🤣

Originally posted by: by_stander

Pakhi gives her toxic tea to her Makad gang in the morning, and her toxic water to Virat at midnight. Seriously the first half so was disgusting to watch to the point that even Virat felt uneasy with it. So to hide her real intention, she brought up their friendship🤢...I swear snakes like her need to be out in the forest, not at home.

I also believe that they both were very ugly with the fight. Virat started the fight and Sai being the hot-headed queen just reciprocated her angst to Virat's displeasure. However, I really enjoyed it as it seemed normal to me. However, Pakhi didi will come in and give her 2 cents and make everything worse. I just hope that tomorrow Sai sees Pakhi and leaves the room. I do not want her to even look at that toxic face.

And I feel the entire family has some kind of hearing device set in Sairat's room. Before the vase could fall on the floor, they all piled up in the living room LOL🤣 Seriously these people NEED TO GET A JOB OR A DIFFERENT HOBBY that doesn't include chuglibaazi.

Wahi toh. I mean come on, what's with them? Just go to your freaking rooms and sleep. A glass broke and it's such a big issue. Army officer wanted to rush to IPS beta's aide to investigate glass shattering sound🤣. I am sure Virat would borrow Sai's dialogue to that and say, "Rai, jeera, saunf Kisi bhi cheez Ka pahad Bana dete ho"

Janki 🤗

I skipped the initial part and started with the Virat entering scene.

The way he reacted when PP said she was waiting for him. 😆

I think slowly slowly he is realising that she isn’t ready to give him up and not only that, the best part is he wants Sai to do all these things for him

This isn’t a deal wali shadi for him anymore, he expects her to be his wife.
Maybe the muah-baby conversation triggered it, but suddenly he feels she is his wife.

Virat is a typical man, usually when I get into fights with my guy, he very slyly tries to ignore the topic we fought on and talks about something new. I keep mentioning him that I would like to sort out things first coz it’s still running in my head. Guys always like an easy escape. 😆

Poor Sai, she kept on asking what her mistake was, but he didn’t pay any heed. He himself doesn’t know what happened 🤣 He just wants pyaar. *Love me love me , your abba say you love me*

IMO, it’s actually bizarre for even Virat to expect this from her.

Since the beginning he kept telling her how this marriage meant nothing to him & one day out of the blue he wants to be loved?

Virat if you are tired with daily Tamasha, then imagine her situation. She has to go through your gharwale 24*7.

I loved when she told Virat, ke usko 10 baar sochne ke zarurat nahi padti.

If Virat doesn’t do anything regarding the precap, I swear he is gonna get it from me.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Arey today's episode was damn good. I love their fights 😂 it makes me miss my husband when he's not around🤣🤣

That reminds me, haven't had a fight in long time.. plan karna padega 🤣😈

Again I must say a very good insight on todays episode, though we knew what was in store for us. But as I have mentioned you bring out the emotional analysis very well.

Coming to the hurt husband, he needed some soothing, some acknowledgement from his wife (which he considers now, but hasn't given her that right). And the silent treatment was killing him that's what I understand. She was already upset/hurt since the masala pisne wala incident and could not take more so she retorted back (don't think there was anything wrong).

Well let ACP Chavan face the expectation versus the reality. He expects her to behave like a wife but he doesn't want to be her husband, it makes me wonder dude "do you know what are you saying forget doing". This will continue tomorrow and family being satisfied with the fight.

We dont want Pakhi in that room tomorrow, but for once (It will be disturbing to watch) it is much needed as it will bring him face to face to the damage he has done with his vaada words (and i really hope it is shown that way). Sai needs to say it on his face, you asked me not to expect. Otherwise don't think he is going to understand as he just going in Circles (I think he is in a Maze).

So tomorrow Pakhi around could be blessing in disguise (Kahan tha maine kahin khud clean bold na hojaye) - Over confidence kills the cat, Vahini has brought it on her herself. Her presence is going to resolve half of his issues, the rest the dude will have to work.

I still don't have the energy to watch the episodes, hopefully next week. (Too much of work and too much of negativity)

Very nicely expressed i must say, thank you currently i am surviving on these posts 😊