Originally posted by: Honeyarjun
This may be the n-th time I might be defending Bala based on these words. I don’t want to do it but people would call him with this till the day he die it seems .
Tharudalai - He jokingly called Sanam in morning task without meaning it literally. Sanam didn’t react or say anything that time. Then later wantedly make it into an issue and dragged a big fight provoking Bala - Bala calling her aggressively was the outburst of Sanam’s provoking. I am not saying what Bala did is right but Sanam wanted him to lose control - see the scene before he called her that clearly.
Aari also called Sam Tharuthalai with the same tone and aggressiveness. Enna than court scene, he wanted to do same thing as Bala nu Aari fans sappa kattu kattinaalum, he called a female the same way Bala did. So they are BOTH EQUALLY WRONG. If Bala needs to be send out for this , Aari as well.
Dubakoor and compromise word - HE NEVER CALLED SANAM WITH THOSE WORDS. He called a pageant company that. Of course he is wrong in saying those words, esp his personal opinion in a public place in TV.
The context he said that was ( after reading some of his friends post that time) he doesn’t have a good opinion abt that company because one of his female friend was asked to compromise by that company for a chance . He wasn’t aware Sanam was part of that show when he said it in BB. when sanam said it, he apologized and said he didn’t know she was part of it in the sofa discussion itself.
Later he wanted to clear it more by calling sanam to dining table for a talk. Sanam didn’t give him a chance to even explain properly, Bala lost control and shouted, it is a dubakoor show only, I will prove it after coming out.
Sanam with her araikurai Tamil in the beginning of the season misunderstood ( or understood clearly but still acted)in what sense Bala was saying it and changed the whole plate that he talked ill about the whole women society.
If people want to say more and further drag it - it is your understanding of the situation. This is my understanding of the situation. I will not reply to ur understanding further. DOT.