Is jealousy really a sign of love? - Page 3

I may also fall in the minority of ppl who actually liked today's episode !!!!!!!

Yes I liked it because it was a mirror of all the idiots in that pagal niwas.

Virat was a confused soul who just wanted sai to say sorry so that the matter ends .... Nothing more nothing less

His behavior with ashwini is definitely not acceptable.... He needs to set this right

But amidst all the shouting , I can say that virat mentally made note of all the points the family hurled at sai and ashiwini. His disapproval was clearly evident on his face. If not for the jealousy that has blinded him , today would have been a showdown in chavan niwas.

All the words he used at sai don't have any deeper connect. I felt those were words which he blurted out of impatience . He didn't want this fight to happen in the first place and in the haste of putting the fire down he chose the easy targets who he felt wil actually bow down. Had virat tried to reason with chavans it would have been a much bigger bawal so he chose easy targets. And the jealousy factor definitely topped the entire thing. His face expressed his displeasure at all the remarks of chavans and the susheel bahu ( I actually feel like using ashleel for her bcoz she has officially crossed all limits in her zidd of having virat toy)

No I don't support virst in anyway . He was downright disrespectful to both the ladies of his life. What I mean to emphasize here is the lack of connect between his words and feelings. I believe he will regret each n every word spoken today . If he doesn't then it's a classical case of butchering ML.

Also sai should not apologize to them period. Better be if virat apologizes to his mother and wife in front of his family and the A bahu .

Chalo ashwini spoke up today ..... And hope she keeps raising her voice against his lot of idiots. I really loved herevery dialogue today .

In simple words PP just wants " sai virat ek doosre se jhagda kare ya phir donom usse jhagda kare ". There is no redemption for her . It would be cringeworthy if they actually pair her with samrat after his return

And I am on Sai's side how much ever she shouts and picks battles because that poor soul has been put through a lot in that mad household . The way she takes a stand for herself is commendable !!!!!!

So let's see what's in store for us in the coming days ..... What led to the fight again !!!!!!!

Well written 👏

Both pp and virat are insecure in their own ways... Pp because she knows she has already lost virat to sai... Now she's desperately trying to make sai fall in virat's eyes... Its more like if I can't have him then noone else can have him too.

Virat toh is so insecure that he isnt able to think rationally.... He is doing kuch bhi to hide his frustration and insecurity... Chavaan saab if you keep continuing with this behaviour she will hasten her decision to leave.... Only love and affection can stop her from leaving you.

Very nice post, like someone said it’s better than the actual episode.

The episodes have lost all the positivity which your post have

For couple of days I think I will stick to your posts instead of watching the episode

A hurt man, would look for opportunities to hurt the people he loves and that is what is being done

Toxic didi really makes me laugh at times.😆 For someone who talks so much about respecting elders, saying "hamare ghar mein" she was not taught this and that. Haan behen sab ki izzat karlo tum, bas khud ki izzat na karo.🤪 She gets defensive and say she ain't jealous - behen apko kisney kaha ki aap jealous ho? 😳

Hey bhagwan, thank God Ashwini spoke because I was losing hope with her. Thank you for pointing out that Sai left her life behind because she trusted him and there can be no trust without respect ( I hope that answered Didi's question as to whether Sai respects Virat🤪). Ashwini deserves the greatest apology, because his behavior with her was totally uncalled for. Her heart broke when he said the words he did. Maybe because mothers are always going to love you that we think we can get away no matter what we say. He needs to be called out on this.

I generally love to see a little jealousy in love but Virat's enormous jealousy stems from the fact that Sai is his only in legal sense. There is that insecurity that she could find happiness without him, while he would not be able to do the same. It all boils down to his vaadas, its all his undoing.

But, I cannot free him from his words because it was clear what his family was doing, and Sai said it today, she was just walking and they even had a problem with that. I think he could have handled that outburst better because in his hurt, he is hurting Sai and he is very well aware of that.

Oh I think he could see how him shouting at her opened the doors for others to come it and insult her - Karishma. But by that time the damage was done, the moment was lost.

And Bhavani has a Ba? I mean I would lose belief in the University of Maturegadh's education system if that's the case.🤣 This Ba and Ma educated duo need rehabilitation - they need to be brainwashed and re-educated I believe. There is no other way for these two.

And what should I say about Devi that hasn't been said. Sai thank you for telling her that she will be fine one day, she was legit shocked when Devi said that the others told her that she wouldn't be fine. Don't get me started on the ghar ki betiya comment. 🤬

Shivani can take Virat for a coffee and point out to him why he is feeling the way he is. Since he really tends to take the opinion of a third person, and since Sunny bewakoof isn't here, it will do him good.

Sai, sai, sai. What should I say about Sai. She owns my heart that's for sure.

Sai deserves an apology too, but at this point I would prefer if she tells him to apologise to his mom instead. There was this article, where it said Sai would ask Virat not to apologise because he's done so much for her that she has no right being upset with him. That indifference would catch him off guard and is bound to hurt. And I want that (sorry Virat, im team Sai. ALWAYS) 😈

Janki💛 again thank you for the beautiful analysis! You have the ability to look for positivity in the worst of the things..

I haven't watched the episode and honestly don't even intend to as I don't think I will be able to tolerate the shouting screaming and name calling.

But going by all the things I have read on the forum. I'm not sure if virat did everything out of jealousy or this jealousy is his love for her?

I hope whatever you wrote comes out to be true in tge show as well.. I seriously hope and pray for the love track or realization track starts sooon. This cringy fight is becoming too intolerable. I'm not up for another fight not even the night one in the bedroom where The Tea Maker comes to put spices in the ladai wali chai!!

Kya post hai, wah, mazaa aa gaya! 😊

I watched the episode after reading your post today. And I still felt yesterday's intangible connection between Sai and Virat. I was wondering if it would change after hearing Virat's bitter words towards Sai.

He was hurting, she was hurting. Their constant intense eyelocks in anger, hurt, disappointment...quite well done👍🏼by the actors and the director for getting it out in the midst of the Chawan circus mandali.

And like you said, after a point both subsided into silence, as they watched the uncontrollable Chawan family who were on a roll, almost like a victory run after Virat's argument with Sai and his taunt at Ashwini. Spilling out venom at everyone not on their side!

What actually struck me as pathetic was of course, Virat's comment at Ashwini. She didn't deserve it. That too, right after she said aapko lagta hai mera beta chup rahega, so confident that Virat will stand by her.

I really hope they see reactions and give us a scene with Virat apologising to Ashwini. That taunt changed his character completely, they had built him up so beautifully so far. I fervently hope the makers do damage control. He can't win 'Best Beta' at Star Parivaar Awards🤢

Kudos to Sai... refusing to apologise, standing up for Shivani, standing up for Ashwini, support for Devi...it's a winner of a character.

And Sairat? I'll reserve my comments till the night fight...voh bhi to baaki hai

Awesome post by you, Janki! 🤗❤️

Immature bacchi here,

Can we get Veeru on the tanki demanding Baby and Muah from Sai.

Ultan paltan and their favourite Pattharlekha requesting Sai to do it.

I feel Virat is kinda fed up of all the daily drama.

I don't say the family is right but as Virat said, Sai will make them get on her tail more. Sai is rightly supporting Bua as well, but it's like Virat who has to hear on both ends.

He supports his wife, knows she is right but also get blamed for this by the family. He talks in favour of the family, asking Sai to change her tone and all, his relation with Sai suffers.

I kinda feel bad for him in some ways xP

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Janki💛 again thank you for the beautiful analysis! You have the ability to look for positivity in the worst of the things..

I haven't watched the episode and honestly don't even intend to as I don't think I will be able to tolerate the shouting screaming and name calling.

But going by all the things I have read on the forum. I'm not sure if virat did everything out of jealousy or this jealousy is his love for her?

I hope whatever you wrote comes out to be true in tge show as well.. I seriously hope and pray for the love track or realization track starts sooon. This cringy fight is becoming too intolerable. I'm not up for another fight not even the night one in the bedroom where The Tea Maker comes to put spices in the ladai wali chai!!

truly. Only Janki's post made me feel better. It was like sitting in a nice sunshine with my favourite book and a cup of coffee..Else the episode was super blah blah..