BB4 Tamil: Spoilers Thread - Page 63

Originally posted by: tamil_nalan

I expected that Anitha won’t come and I expected too that Suresh won’t come too. I think he still needs time to overcome the negative response he had after giving interviews.

I read that contestants have to come per contract. Anitha has a strong personal reasons for not coming.

Suresh and Sanam seems to have a strong reasons too. I don’t see how Vijay TV wouldnt want to cash in a scene where Balaji is again confronted with Sanam.

poor aari as none of his close housemates isn’t coming in.

Ya thats right😔

https://twitter.com/Parithabangal4/status/1348543536992460800?s=20

Dont know whether it is reliable just posted😆

Originally posted by: llptch

I don’t agree that Ramya had a problem with Aari only because he was finding fault with others, while everyone else was being fun. Aari in fact never spoke about Ramya or her faults up until Samyuktha’s eviction. The reason why she is considered as cunning by the general public is that the only occasions she has raised her voice against a person is when it was something against Aari or Rio, but it wasn’t anything to do with her either. So it looks like she was targeting the strong players. She never supported Sanam in the house, she just took part in the court task as a debater. Doesn’t mean she supported Sanam in other forums when she could have (the most notable one being the pageant issue). Yes, she clarified with Bala about the Anitha toilet matter, but that’s all I can remember her ever opposing Bala for but it never was an argument. For me Archana was also someone equally rude in the house and critical of others as Aari (and honestly using much more crude language). But she didn’t have a problem with her, but had an issue with Aari who never interfered with her until much much later...

Aari didn't speak anything about Ramya because up until then, they both had somewhat of a similar journey.. In court room task, they were on same sides and nothing else was happening, where Ramya spoke against him. He started talking about Ramya, when she first talked back to him. In Sam vs Aari, she supported Samyuktha because she saw Aari blaming Sam again and again for the captaincy game (which was partly Sam's fault). Ramya was close to Sam and naturally she was on her friend's side (not Bala's). When that happened, Aari brought up the issue about Ramya not saying anything to Bala. Why didn't he say anything about it to Ramya until she spoke against him? He tied Ramya to the whole issue involving captaincy, saying Ramya was the one who replaced Nisha with Sam for captaincy nomination. Ramya did that because Nisha was hesitant at that time and Sam was also nominated in BP. If he had an issue with it, he should've brought it up earlier but he did when Ramya spoke against him.

If Ramya is cunning, are the rest of the housemates innocent and just? Anbu gang never spoke against anyone in their group or anyone who was willing to mingle with them and same goes for all others except Bala in the Posh gang. Everyone only got involved when it was about them or if their friend was accused. Aari got involved because he was directly the one going to jail because of these people favoring their friends.. Targeting strong players is actually okay if u ask me, because it means she was willing to actually play the game (NOT safe game). Wouldn't Ramya know Aari and Rio had a good fan base outside? She still took the risk because she thought she was right in those issues..

Sanam & Anita - are called good players just because they were not part of a group. Sanam did fight with others when needed but she also had a tendency to support Bala even when he was the one who was causing the problem (And to her). I don't understand how that works.. and at times, this has backfired on even Aari.. Anitha.. she is the one who has targeted people like Rio (not because they are strong but because Rio will actually try to solve the problem even if he has to say sorry when it's not his fault). She didn't argue with Bala until she was given the confidence (when Samyuktha, Archana and Nisha were eliminated after she had problems with them).

Pageant issue - I think it was a clear misunderstanding of who said what first.. she seemed confused.. Its not easy to support Sanam, when there is a possibility she will switch sides..

Ramya did tell Bala they had no issue with the captain (Archana) when the whole issue b/w Archana and Bala came up. She told him he was the cause of them losing luxury tasks (no one else in the house has spoken to him about it as far as we know). She didn't have to lose her cool with Bala because he listened when she actually spoke.

With Archana - she didn't have an issue because Archana didn't pick on everyone. She was fine with Aajeedh, Shivani, Samyuktha and even Bala in addition to her Anbu group.. Only people who had a problem with Archana were Aari, Bala, Suresh, Sanam and Anita.. All of them can speak for themselves..

Aari had criticism about everyone - Bala, Sam, Shivani, Gaby, Aajeedh, Archana, Nisha, Rio, Som, Anitha, Sanam, Ramesh, Suresh, Velmurugan, and Ramya.. I know we all have faults and it is fine for someone like Aari to try to help (I did support Aari initially - even with Sam's captaincy issue). However, at some point, when you know it is not welcomed, then you need to stop unless it is somehow becoming a problem for u or others.

I am not saying Ramya is flawless.. she has her flaws, no doubt. But I feel the hatred she is getting is more than she deserves. Others in the house has about the same amount or if not more flaws.. Is it because she is a top female contestant or she had more expectations on her?

Originally posted by: Shravya1

Aari didn't speak anything about Ramya because up until then, they both had somewhat of a similar journey.. In court room task, they were on same sides and nothing else was happening, where Ramya spoke against him. He started talking about Ramya, when she first talked back to him. In Sam vs Aari, she supported Samyuktha because she saw Aari blaming Sam again and again for the captaincy game (which was partly Sam's fault). Ramya was close to Sam and naturally she was on her friend's side (not Bala's). When that happened, Aari brought up the issue about Ramya not saying anything to Bala. Why didn't he say anything about it to Ramya until she spoke against him? He tied Ramya to the whole issue involving captaincy, saying Ramya was the one who replaced Nisha with Sam for captaincy nomination. Ramya did that because Nisha was hesitant at that time and Sam was also nominated in BP. If he had an issue with it, he should've brought it up earlier but he did when Ramya spoke against him.

If Ramya is cunning, are the rest of the housemates innocent and just? Anbu gang never spoke against anyone in their group or anyone who was willing to mingle with them and same goes for all others except Bala in the Posh gang. Everyone only got involved when it was about them or if their friend was accused. Aari got involved because he was directly the one going to jail because of these people favoring their friends.. Targeting strong players is actually okay if u ask me, because it means she was willing to actually play the game (NOT safe game). Wouldn't Ramya know Aari and Rio had a good fan base outside? She still took the risk because she thought she was right in those issues..

Sanam & Anita - are called good players just because they were not part of a group. Sanam did fight with others when needed but she also had a tendency to support Bala even when he was the one who was causing the problem (And to her). I don't understand how that works.. and at times, this has backfired on even Aari.. Anitha.. she is the one who has targeted people like Rio (not because they are strong but because Rio will actually try to solve the problem even if he has to say sorry when it's not his fault). She didn't argue with Bala until she was given the confidence (when Samyuktha, Archana and Nisha were eliminated after she had problems with them).

Pageant issue - I think it was a clear misunderstanding of who said what first.. she seemed confused.. Its not easy to support Sanam, when there is a possibility she will switch sides..

Ramya did tell Bala they had no issue with the captain (Archana) when the whole issue b/w Archana and Bala came up. She told him he was the cause of them losing luxury tasks (no one else in the house has spoken to him about it as far as we know). She didn't have to lose her cool with Bala because he listened when she actually spoke.

With Archana - she didn't have an issue because Archana didn't pick on everyone. She was fine with Aajeedh, Shivani, Samyuktha and even Bala in addition to her Anbu group.. Only people who had a problem with Archana were Aari, Bala, Suresh, Sanam and Anita.. All of them can speak for themselves..

Aari had criticism about everyone - Bala, Sam, Shivani, Gaby, Aajeedh, Archana, Nisha, Rio, Som, Anitha, Sanam, Ramesh, Suresh, Velmurugan, and Ramya.. I know we all have faults and it is fine for someone like Aari to try to help (I did support Aari initially - even with Sam's captaincy issue). However, at some point, when you know it is not welcomed, then you need to stop unless it is somehow becoming a problem for u or others.

I am not saying Ramya is flawless.. she has her flaws, no doubt. But I feel the hatred she is getting is more than she deserves. Others in the house has about the same amount or if not more flaws.. Is it because she is a top female contestant or she had more expectations on her?

👏👏👏👏 well said ! Bolded my favorite points. 💯💯💯💯💯.

Originally posted by: Shravya1

Aari didn't speak anything about Ramya because up until then, they both had somewhat of a similar journey.. In court room task, they were on same sides and nothing else was happening, where Ramya spoke against him. He started talking about Ramya, when she first talked back to him. In Sam vs Aari, she supported Samyuktha because she saw Aari blaming Sam again and again for the captaincy game (which was partly Sam's fault). Ramya was close to Sam and naturally she was on her friend's side (not Bala's). When that happened, Aari brought up the issue about Ramya not saying anything to Bala. Why didn't he say anything about it to Ramya until she spoke against him? He tied Ramya to the whole issue involving captaincy, saying Ramya was the one who replaced Nisha with Sam for captaincy nomination. Ramya did that because Nisha was hesitant at that time and Sam was also nominated in BP. If he had an issue with it, he should've brought it up earlier but he did when Ramya spoke against him.

If Ramya is cunning, are the rest of the housemates innocent and just? Anbu gang never spoke against anyone in their group or anyone who was willing to mingle with them and same goes for all others except Bala in the Posh gang. Everyone only got involved when it was about them or if their friend was accused. Aari got involved because he was directly the one going to jail because of these people favoring their friends.. Targeting strong players is actually okay if u ask me, because it means she was willing to actually play the game (NOT safe game). Wouldn't Ramya know Aari and Rio had a good fan base outside? She still took the risk because she thought she was right in those issues..

Sanam & Anita - are called good players just because they were not part of a group. Sanam did fight with others when needed but she also had a tendency to support Bala even when he was the one who was causing the problem (And to her). I don't understand how that works.. and at times, this has backfired on even Aari.. Anitha.. she is the one who has targeted people like Rio (not because they are strong but because Rio will actually try to solve the problem even if he has to say sorry when it's not his fault). She didn't argue with Bala until she was given the confidence (when Samyuktha, Archana and Nisha were eliminated after she had problems with them).

Pageant issue - I think it was a clear misunderstanding of who said what first.. she seemed confused.. Its not easy to support Sanam, when there is a possibility she will switch sides..

Ramya did tell Bala they had no issue with the captain (Archana) when the whole issue b/w Archana and Bala came up. She told him he was the cause of them losing luxury tasks (no one else in the house has spoken to him about it as far as we know). She didn't have to lose her cool with Bala because he listened when she actually spoke.

With Archana - she didn't have an issue because Archana didn't pick on everyone. She was fine with Aajeedh, Shivani, Samyuktha and even Bala in addition to her Anbu group.. Only people who had a problem with Archana were Aari, Bala, Suresh, Sanam and Anita.. All of them can speak for themselves..

Aari had criticism about everyone - Bala, Sam, Shivani, Gaby, Aajeedh, Archana, Nisha, Rio, Som, Anitha, Sanam, Ramesh, Suresh, Velmurugan, and Ramya.. I know we all have faults and it is fine for someone like Aari to try to help (I did support Aari initially - even with Sam's captaincy issue). However, at some point, when you know it is not welcomed, then you need to stop unless it is somehow becoming a problem for u or others.

I am not saying Ramya is flawless.. she has her flaws, no doubt. But I feel the hatred she is getting is more than she deserves. Others in the house has about the same amount or if not more flaws.. Is it because she is a top female contestant or she had more expectations on her?

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Ramya was from the start quite confident in herself and secure about herself. And she is opinionated even if there is times where she prefer to not say much.

The problem is that after CWC everyone expected her to be the ever smiling and ever friendly, sweet doll. And I think some (not all) aren’t able to handle it.

Most importantly neither the host nor most of the viewers are ready for a female player who is clever and who is not afraid to take on public’s favourite/popular housemates with sensible arguments. It would be different if she would be loud and fighting type as other former female contestants as everybody is used to this kind of female players. She is different as she can convey her stand and be firm without being too loud or aggressive. And she is not a emotional type, so she doesn’t cry either. She never faked emotions, didn’t do fake sympathy drama. Didn’t lie and didn’t cheat any of the task.

She is far from perfect, but she the best out of the lot (=my opinion). Nermai and thagudhi is seems to be the flavour of this season and in my eyes Ramya has both of if it. I wish that people would have gone easy on her as they did with the boys...

Originally posted by: Shravya1

Aari didn't speak anything about Ramya because up until then, they both had somewhat of a similar journey.. In court room task, they were on same sides and nothing else was happening, where Ramya spoke against him. He started talking about Ramya, when she first talked back to him. In Sam vs Aari, she supported Samyuktha because she saw Aari blaming Sam again and again for the captaincy game (which was partly Sam's fault). Ramya was close to Sam and naturally she was on her friend's side (not Bala's). When that happened, Aari brought up the issue about Ramya not saying anything to Bala. Why didn't he say anything about it to Ramya until she spoke against him? He tied Ramya to the whole issue involving captaincy, saying Ramya was the one who replaced Nisha with Sam for captaincy nomination. Ramya did that because Nisha was hesitant at that time and Sam was also nominated in BP. If he had an issue with it, he should've brought it up earlier but he did when Ramya spoke against him.

If Ramya is cunning, are the rest of the housemates innocent and just? Anbu gang never spoke against anyone in their group or anyone who was willing to mingle with them and same goes for all others except Bala in the Posh gang. Everyone only got involved when it was about them or if their friend was accused. Aari got involved because he was directly the one going to jail because of these people favoring their friends.. Targeting strong players is actually okay if u ask me, because it means she was willing to actually play the game (NOT safe game). Wouldn't Ramya know Aari and Rio had a good fan base outside? She still took the risk because she thought she was right in those issues..

Sanam & Anita - are called good players just because they were not part of a group. Sanam did fight with others when needed but she also had a tendency to support Bala even when he was the one who was causing the problem (And to her). I don't understand how that works.. and at times, this has backfired on even Aari.. Anitha.. she is the one who has targeted people like Rio (not because they are strong but because Rio will actually try to solve the problem even if he has to say sorry when it's not his fault). She didn't argue with Bala until she was given the confidence (when Samyuktha, Archana and Nisha were eliminated after she had problems with them).

Pageant issue - I think it was a clear misunderstanding of who said what first.. she seemed confused.. Its not easy to support Sanam, when there is a possibility she will switch sides..

Ramya did tell Bala they had no issue with the captain (Archana) when the whole issue b/w Archana and Bala came up. She told him he was the cause of them losing luxury tasks (no one else in the house has spoken to him about it as far as we know). She didn't have to lose her cool with Bala because he listened when she actually spoke.

With Archana - she didn't have an issue because Archana didn't pick on everyone. She was fine with Aajeedh, Shivani, Samyuktha and even Bala in addition to her Anbu group.. Only people who had a problem with Archana were Aari, Bala, Suresh, Sanam and Anita.. All of them can speak for themselves..

Aari had criticism about everyone - Bala, Sam, Shivani, Gaby, Aajeedh, Archana, Nisha, Rio, Som, Anitha, Sanam, Ramesh, Suresh, Velmurugan, and Ramya.. I know we all have faults and it is fine for someone like Aari to try to help (I did support Aari initially - even with Sam's captaincy issue). However, at some point, when you know it is not welcomed, then you need to stop unless it is somehow becoming a problem for u or others.

I am not saying Ramya is flawless.. she has her flaws, no doubt. But I feel the hatred she is getting is more than she deserves. Others in the house has about the same amount or if not more flaws.. Is it because she is a top female contestant or she had more expectations on her?

The same way you say Ramya is not flawless, I am also saying the same. But any time a criticism against her is mentioned, there is an immediate defence of her compared to others. All I’m doing is mentioning her game plan, but immediately the conversation turns into “but what about the game plan of others”.

Just the way Ramya’s expressions changes when she is addressing Aari and Rio (not anymore since Archana’s exit) makes her biases clear. She also laughs when someone makes insulting comments against Aari, that shows her biases to me. And that’s way before Aari ever found fault with her for anything. The Sam captaincy task thing was something dealt with by Sam/Aari/Bala as a cat and mouse thing. But it wasn’t a situation like Sanam/Anitha had before where it was a big group against them and they didn’t have a way to defend themselves. Sam had all means for speaking for herself, and Bala was doing the rest of the job too. Fine, if Ramya got involved because her friend had a problem. If I recall correctly Aari later blamed Ramya for the captaincy task because of the events that led to Sam’s eviction. In the handling of the weekend episode it got into his head that this all started because of that one instance. He also said Ramya and Sanam didn’t explain to Sam properly about the motherhood dialogue, but that’s also equally ridiculous. I’m definitely not saying he is right in that stance, but he said those as one off statements in the emotions that Sam left because of him.

About not supporting Sanam in the pageant issue because she keeps changing statements - that incident happened early in the season when they were all getting to know each other. Then there was no indication that Sanam is someone who changes her stance. Kamal asked Ramya a direct question if Bala said this statement or not, and she said no. Which turned out to be wrong. She is human and she forgot - that’s fine. But just before that she has a conversation with Sanam where she is convincing Sanam she was mistaken. You mentioned that Ramya has stood up for Sanam, so I am only citing this to show she hasn’t really. She only took part as part of the debating task, doesn’t mean she has stood up for her.

Archana, Anitha, and Sanam never said they are neutral. They wore their emotions on their sleeves, and said they are friends/dislike someone when they meant it. So there has been no point picking on their interactions and tearing it apart. With Ramya the problem is since the beginning she herself has been saying she is neutral, doesn’t talk bad about others, doesn’t have a problem with anyone, etc. So then it’s easy to pick on examples and say why what she says and her actions are incongruous. That’s why the “cunning” statement is placed on Ramya and not so much on others.

Good points both Sharvya and Ayesha. Appreciate both of your energy in putting forth your points .

I will come with that pageant issue and Ramya point later when I find time.

In one of my posts, I addressed why Ramya shouldn’t have called her as neutral and should have accepted that she has personal liking towards some contestants. She thought BB as a game and you have to play it in a neutral stand hiding/suppressing our true feelings. hence that bro-sis conversation when Aajeedh was leaving , shivani her best friend when she was leaving. That was the only mistake on Ramya’s part - it is okay to have friendships inside BB . If only Ramya understood that and played accordingly, she would have become the winner (in my eyes at least).

Originally posted by: Shravya1

Aari didn't speak anything about Ramya because up until then, they both had somewhat of a similar journey.. In court room task, they were on same sides and nothing else was happening, where Ramya spoke against him. He started talking about Ramya, when she first talked back to him. In Sam vs Aari, she supported Samyuktha because she saw Aari blaming Sam again and again for the captaincy game (which was partly Sam's fault). Ramya was close to Sam and naturally she was on her friend's side (not Bala's). When that happened, Aari brought up the issue about Ramya not saying anything to Bala. Why didn't he say anything about it to Ramya until she spoke against him? He tied Ramya to the whole issue involving captaincy, saying Ramya was the one who replaced Nisha with Sam for captaincy nomination. Ramya did that because Nisha was hesitant at that time and Sam was also nominated in BP. If he had an issue with it, he should've brought it up earlier but he did when Ramya spoke against him.

If Ramya is cunning, are the rest of the housemates innocent and just? Anbu gang never spoke against anyone in their group or anyone who was willing to mingle with them and same goes for all others except Bala in the Posh gang. Everyone only got involved when it was about them or if their friend was accused. Aari got involved because he was directly the one going to jail because of these people favoring their friends.. Targeting strong players is actually okay if u ask me, because it means she was willing to actually play the game (NOT safe game). Wouldn't Ramya know Aari and Rio had a good fan base outside? She still took the risk because she thought she was right in those issues..

Sanam & Anita - are called good players just because they were not part of a group. Sanam did fight with others when needed but she also had a tendency to support Bala even when he was the one who was causing the problem (And to her). I don't understand how that works.. and at times, this has backfired on even Aari.. Anitha.. she is the one who has targeted people like Rio (not because they are strong but because Rio will actually try to solve the problem even if he has to say sorry when it's not his fault). She didn't argue with Bala until she was given the confidence (when Samyuktha, Archana and Nisha were eliminated after she had problems with them).

Pageant issue - I think it was a clear misunderstanding of who said what first.. she seemed confused.. Its not easy to support Sanam, when there is a possibility she will switch sides..

Ramya did tell Bala they had no issue with the captain (Archana) when the whole issue b/w Archana and Bala came up. She told him he was the cause of them losing luxury tasks (no one else in the house has spoken to him about it as far as we know). She didn't have to lose her cool with Bala because he listened when she actually spoke.

With Archana - she didn't have an issue because Archana didn't pick on everyone. She was fine with Aajeedh, Shivani, Samyuktha and even Bala in addition to her Anbu group.. Only people who had a problem with Archana were Aari, Bala, Suresh, Sanam and Anita.. All of them can speak for themselves..

Aari had criticism about everyone - Bala, Sam, Shivani, Gaby, Aajeedh, Archana, Nisha, Rio, Som, Anitha, Sanam, Ramesh, Suresh, Velmurugan, and Ramya.. I know we all have faults and it is fine for someone like Aari to try to help (I did support Aari initially - even with Sam's captaincy issue). However, at some point, when you know it is not welcomed, then you need to stop unless it is somehow becoming a problem for u or others. Is

I am not saying Ramya is flawless.. she has her flaws, no doubt. But I feel the hatred she is getting is more than she deserves. Others in the house has about the same amount or if not more flaws.. Is it because she is a top female contestant or she had more expectations on her?

👏👏👏 Well said...100% agree....

Just because she is putting her point very clearly when ever needed which Aari can't face it or counter attract her. Also he can't able to provoke her like how he did for Bala ..

So the only way to degrade her in SM is spread hatred on her using silly reasons like soft hurt and her smile, edited face reactions.🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

This season will be remembered as worst season due to some fan groups.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Good points both Sharvya and Ayesha. Appreciate both of your energy in putting forth your points .

I will come with that pageant issue and Ramya point later when I find time.

In one of my posts, I addressed why Ramya shouldn’t have called her as neutral and should have accepted that she has personal liking towards some contestants. She thought BB as a game and you have to play it in a neutral stand hiding/suppressing our true feelings. hence that bro-sis conversation when Aajeedh was leaving , shivani her best friend when she was leaving. That was the only mistake on Ramya’s part - it is okay to have friendships inside BB . If only Ramya understood that and played accordingly, she would have become the winner (in my eyes at least).

Thanks for the comments Honey. I don’t mean to be critical on Ramya more than the other players. She is definitely a very good BB player, and deserves to be a finalist. I am just dissecting her strategy because it isn’t something identified very easily.

About the last paragraph, actually the same applies for Aari too 😉 At least Ramya let herself be friends with people but didn’t want to acknowledge it while in the game. But the moment Aari finds himself being considered someone’s friend, he distances himself from them 😂 Anitha mentioned this to Sanam in one of the Unseens.

Originally posted by: llptch

The same way you say Ramya is not flawless, I am also saying the same. But any time a criticism against her is mentioned, there is an immediate defence of her compared to others. All I’m doing is mentioning her game plan, but immediately the conversation turns into “but what about the game plan of others”.

Just the way Ramya’s expressions changes when she is addressing Aari and Rio (not anymore since Archana’s exit) makes her biases clear. She also laughs when someone makes insulting comments against Aari, that shows her biases to me. And that’s way before Aari ever found fault with her for anything. The Sam captaincy task thing was something dealt with by Sam/Aari/Bala as a cat and mouse thing. But it wasn’t a situation like Sanam/Anitha had before where it was a big group against them and they didn’t have a way to defend themselves. Sam had all means for speaking for herself, and Bala was doing the rest of the job too. Fine, if Ramya got involved because her friend had a problem. If I recall correctly Aari later blamed Ramya for the captaincy task because of the events that led to Sam’s eviction. In the handling of the weekend episode it got into his head that this all started because of that one instance. He also said Ramya and Sanam didn’t explain to Sam properly about the motherhood dialogue, but that’s also equally ridiculous. I’m definitely not saying he is right in that stance, but he said those as one off statements in the emotions that Sam left because of him.

About not supporting Sanam in the pageant issue because she keeps changing statements - that incident happened early in the season when they were all getting to know each other. Then there was no indication that Sanam is someone who changes her stance. Kamal asked Ramya a direct question if Bala said this statement or not, and she said no. Which turned out to be wrong. She is human and she forgot - that’s fine. But just before that she has a conversation with Sanam where she is convincing Sanam she was mistaken. You mentioned that Ramya has stood up for Sanam, so I am only citing this to show she hasn’t really. She only took part as part of the debating task, doesn’t mean she has stood up for her.

Archana, Anitha, and Sanam never said they are neutral. They wore their emotions on their sleeves, and said they are friends/dislike someone when they meant it. So there has been no point picking on their interactions and tearing it apart. With Ramya the problem is since the beginning she herself has been saying she is neutral, doesn’t talk bad about others, doesn’t have a problem with anyone, etc. So then it’s easy to pick on examples and say why what she says and her actions are incongruous. That’s why the “cunning” statement is placed on Ramya and not so much on others.

I am comparing her to others because in my pov, she doesn't deserve the hatred she is getting because others in the house have the same/similar flaws but they are not getting this much hatred. I mean there is a group which likes Bala despite all that he has done.. So I don't see why there is so much hatred for Ramya, when she has clearly done less mistakes.

She laughs in most situations, even when others make fun of her. She usually laughs it off. The game got to her only in the last few weeks..

Sam's captaincy - Aari kept blaming Sam (rightly so, in my opinion) but Ramya was Sam's friend at that time. She may have thought it was Bala who did it, why blame Sam for it? That too, if she had seen Sam break because of this, she would've not liked Aari for being the reason.

Ramya didn't even know about the motherhood issue as far as we know. She only found out during the argument after call task when Aari said "Yen Kaiya thatti vidureenga". She is at fault for assuming that he had said something wrong (At this point, it was already known that Aari picks on little things, so she assumed). But she didn't know enough for her to clearly explain it to Sam. Sam's comment on valarppu is wrong but as far as I can recall, it was Aajeedh who was next to Sam when Sam said it. And like Sam assumed, Ramya also mistook Aari's tharuthalai comment too.. In this tharuthalai issue, it was wrong of Ramya to keep quiet when Bala said it to Sanam..

Anitha had 2 major problems - one with Suresh and one with the sumangali issue. The issue with Suresh was very early on and I don't think Ramya was there when it happened.. so she didn't get involved there. Sumangali issue - she did support Anitha. She didn't voice it out when it happened because Anitha was someone who could clearly speak for herself and others (Captain Archana and Rio) were dealing with it too.

Sanam's pageant issue - I am not saying she didn't support her in this case because Sanam keeps changing her statements. In this, I believe she was clearly confused as to who said what first. At that point of time she didn't know Bala much either.. so why would she favour him over Sanam? Why would she support Bala if he clearly was in the wrong? At this point, he was also just a house mate like Sanam. Sanam's problems - I really don't recall much, just because there were so many times she had gotten into an argument with Bala.. And suddenly she would go and support Bala too.. So it may have been one of the reasons Ramya stayed out of it for the most part. Also Sanam was not one who needed help.. Debate, Ramya could've remained a spectator. Whether it was her strategy or not, she came into argue for Sanam or Som when it was against Bala.

Archana didn't say neutral but others did.. They didn't event want to call themselves each other's friends until one of them was leaving.. Anita clearly fought with Rio when he mentioned Sanam and her as friends.. Archana and co also said they hang around but they don't make any decisions as a group or go against anyone as a group. Ramya calling herself neutral was wrong.. She was in the beginning but over time, she did have friends and she supported them, so she should've accepted that..

She didn't talk bad: She did tease people but she didn't mean to do it as backbiting/talking behind someone. She made up the song about Aari but she also accepted it to him. She did bring up the Bala mama thing about Shivani but she also accepted that in front of her.. She talked about people, but so did everyone, including Aari. No one ever confronted her about talking behind their back nor did she deny it. Generally, she didn't have much of an issue with most housemates.. Everyone accepted her as a person they can get along with. Even Anita and Sanam were okay with her, where as they had problems with Sam and Aari.. So it is true she doesn't have problem with others (Except Aari)..