"Dam ghoot raha hai" - Page 3

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Hands down, this is the best breakdown of everyone's chillam-chilli from today's episode.

Thank you 🤗 as always

Chakram nivas ke logo ko lagta hai chillane se aur darane se sab log dar jate hai. But no issues, Sai Joshi is here to break that illusion. She is not someone who will agree to nonsense because the other person is screaming down on her. She raised those questions so well and managed to keep up with every damn argument without raising her voice.

TBH, when Ninad raised his voice and threatened to do lose control, it instantly seemed like the reaction of a hypocrite being shown the mirroe reflecting his actions. He went on a defensive mode. OFFENCE IS THE BEST DEFENSE.

Sai has started to point out flaws in those people who until now believed that nobody is better than them. Bhavani is a person who likes to believe that she has made this family, she is the one holding this family together but Sai today openly said that she actually kills the joy in this family. The fact is that this drama company calling names to Sai while they are the ones who actually start all sorts of bitching sessions

Funny, Bhavani wants to conduct Gruha shanti ki pooja but actually has only ashanti and dvesh in her heart and mind.

PP ka toh jo bole woh kam. I remember you once replied to a comment that- husbands behaviour towards his wife determines how the family will behave with the DIL. That is just too honest, Janki. How else would PP ever think of talking like that with Ashwini. PP has absolutely no regards for any relationship, be it her marriage to a man MIA, or the elders or even Virat.

This is a fact that has been proven time and again by the live examples around us. In Ninad's case, it is not just the scant respect for Ashwini but also his encouragement to anyone around him to actually insult her that is a problem. There are many chauvinists like him who consider their women as a grade lower. All said, I would really like to know their back story.

She is just a petulant woman who wants to have her way by hook or by crook. It is clear as day that today's 'Mera Pati' comment was actually a trick to see if Virat was bothered by that or it was a strategy to make Virat feel guilty of having 'Honeymoon period' with his wife while his brother was MIA and she was at Chavan niwas in her 'Bichari Patralekha' mode 🤔

I think Didi ended up disgusting him even more. But he is still giving her the 'benefit of doubt' not for her sake but for his own -- to see if he can actually give himself another chance to believe that she is not the kind of person he is seeing right now and his "illusion" about her goodness was right.

Virat has grown up with these niyyams and kanoon and is moulded to think that such an environment is normal. But now that he knows that Sai's normal is different than this toxicity and she is actually a prime target of this entire madness, he is starting to see things as they are.

The crazy gang of bullies are actually leaving no stone unturned to make Virat feel guilty of being a disappointing son and police officer.

Actually, PP gave a brilliant idea. Though Sairat are never gonna leave this Chavan Jail Niwas, this is actually not a bad idea👍🏼

If they leave, how will we watch the high-pitched soap opera 😆

Originally posted by: Blackwind

First of all happy new year to you and all the forumwasis🤗what an episode at the start of the year🤔but like always loved your post👍🏼

Ashwini's situation was really heart-wrenching and how could Bhavani even compare her with PP about anything at all specially about her education🥱 I absolutely hated her there... wasn't she the one to stop her education midway?😕 I literally felt like smacking her head the whole time she was spewing the ridiculous comparison😵(sorry for my use of the words but that's how much I'm done with her😵) and Ninad's tukdo par jeena comment was equally ridiculous😵....when did Virat even claimed this? 😳

Bhavani wanted to pierce the wound deeper because Ashwini mentioned that morning "Mujhe aaj tak dukh hai"... Bhavani did not want Virat to learn the truth that his mother had been stopped from following her dreams. Like we all have seen, he has grown up in a cocoon in Chavan niwas, normalising toxicity as the niyam. So, finding out this truth would break at least one can open. Bhavani had to lacerate Ashwini's wound to get back at her. And obviously, PP is the only yardstick of susheelta in that house now.

Ninad's comment is what every child hears when they make their own decisions as "adults". The concept of looking after parents in our society comes attached with the liability of hearing such taunts often.

loved Sai while giving him back there👍🏼my heart really goes out for Virat and Ashwini😒this whole time they had not only tolerated but also lived in such toxic environment silently supporting each other😒good that they now have Sai who would point out the injustice done to them along with herself... anyways... enough of my rant😆and about your issues of ads, have you ever tried downloading the episode and watching?coz it's a good way to get rid of all the ads😉

Thank you for this suggestion. But I am so un-savvy with these things. So now tell me, how do i delete the downloads once I don't need them anymore? 😆

Originally posted by: Rajashri389

Amazing post as always. I like the way you write and always wait for your posts(along with posts of catering lory and Anamika)

Today's episode reminded me of my in laws house. My FIL s dialogues were same (not similar) as Ninads to my husband. But here I have seen Virat raising voice in support of Sai but it never happens in so many households. The sons of the family will be pushed to guilt trips if ever they support their wives even if they know their wives are not wrong.

Thank you dear. You've been there in a way? Sending you a warm hug. I completely understand what you feel. I am immensely blessed to not live such a thing as personal experience, but I do, vicariously live them through some people. I know what a feeling that is to be pushed to a point where you are choking with the guilt of standing up and also not being able to stand up. 🤗 But, there will be a point where you will see your sunshine through the gray clouds.

Originally posted by: njain16385

As I always your post is fabulous. 👏

Thank you dear Nidhi!

Today take away

1) Prison : Chavan niwas has became like a prison for the people who live there to be ruled by a khadus jailor and her assistants. Today when Mohit said " why are they now dragging me". You can get that all sons of this family look for an escape to be away from this mental asylum. Samrat ,Virat and Mohit due to their professional setup get an escapism. But what about the DIL and daughters of the house they have to endure the torture.

Exactly! Whether we like it or not, it is the woman who has to bear the punishment for the disappointment the family feels with the sons.

2) Free Bird : Sai has always been like a free bird, roaming inside jungles eating sour fruit. She never likes to be encaged. And if anyone tries to do it, she is ready to break it or challenge it. And today we saw another glimpse of it.

3) Weapon : Right from day one when Sai entered Ashwini said " dekhna ek din yeh Virat ke dil pe aur is parivaar pe raj karegi". She knew it will be Sai who will act as a weapon to recuse her from this prison .

A mother feelings can be best understood by her daughter. As Ashwini today though scolded Sai, but had tears in her eyes. The pain which only a daughter saw. She knew, that it is now her responsibility to show Virat, the sufferings of his mother. So, he starts taking stand for her along with Sai.

I am sure now that Virat has begun to wake up, he will soon see the complete facade that covers the actual canvass of his family. It will be interesting to see what happens to his relationship with his father, who was actually his only subconscious guide.

4) Eyes : As Sai was acting as reporter today trying to cover the sensational news from CM. There was a man silently admiring her in the corner. Ab Kya Kaye

Deedar ko tere, tarasti hai nigaahein meri

Kuch ankahe sawalon hai mere,

jisko deti hai jawab yeh tere

In nazroo mein hai kuch baat hai aisi

Raaz kholti yeah dil ke, bas inhe padhe to Koi

Yesterday epi too his eyes were fixated only on her and today also. He has started noticing her, trying to find answer to question which his heart asks.

A new pair of eyes can always see something different about a view that one has been watching for very long as "normal". Sai is Virat's new eyes.

Last night was watching jab we met where in climax Geet says " tumhara ek ehsaan rahega mujh par sirf ek. ki tum anshuman ko wapas le aaye warna mein kabhi samjh nahi pati ki mein kya chahti noon. ab mein apne dil ki baat sunne wali hoon aditya phir sab thik ho Jayega"

Same here Sai, we are thankful to you that you brought pakhi back. Now Virat will be able to compare and see who loves him truly . The day is not far when he hears his dil ki baat. phir sab thik ho Jayega. Today you called him pati, and see he came back calling you his biwi. Sai magic is working❤️.

Wow, I loved that comparison. It is indeed true! It was necessary for him to be under the same roof with PP to actually see her "loving nature". He will realise what a fallacy it was.

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

Fabulous post by you, Janki! ☺️🥰

Thank you Swetha! 🤗

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Awesome post. There are people like Ashwini, Virat and people like Bhavani Kaku and Ninad who think if you are rich and marry a girl from poor family you can treat her as you wish. It's truly pathetic. And then these very same people have the audacity to dictate terms and conditions and teach others how to respect your elders. And, when that doesn't happen they are termed as disobedient or rude. It has such a bad influence that even the children have the same kind of attitude. Virat has got his Mother's upbringing and not Ninad's which is why he's caring, loving and has got the guts to stand up for his mother and wife. Maybe, Ninad was too busy in wagging his tail for Bhavani Kaku that he didn't realise he had to fulfill his responsibilities towards his son. And, the less said the betterof the sushil bahu, Pakhiji. She's getting on my nerves. I think maybe in the upcoming episodes we'll see how Sayi shows the true faces of the entire Chakram family to Virat.

Thank you dear! 🤗

When any thought is based in false sense of pride and not in a rational reason, the by-products are people like Bhavani and Ninad. I wouldn't even count Omkar in that because he is there only as a parasite with his wife.

@green: I guess Ninad was the absent father -- by the virtue of being in the force-- so Ashwini could actually shield him at a tender age from learning the truth about their relationship. Virat must have already grown into an adolescent by the time Ninad retired and was at home. So, he would have mostly only seen the "normal" behaviour that was a result of Ashwini's silence. When Ashwini doesn't retort, Ninad is quiet too. It is now -- since the arrival of PP that Ashwini has begun voicing herself. Nahi toh, in the initial episodes, they did not come across as a couple that had so much bad blood between them.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

The delete option is mentioned in those three 3 vertical dots beside the downloaded video

Originally posted by: Blackwind

The delete option is mentioned in those three 3 vertical dots beside the downloaded video

Oh okay 😆 Thank you for being the guiding light 😉⭐️

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Thank you dear! 🤗

When any thought is based in false sense of pride and not in a rational reason, the by-products are people like Bhavani and Ninad. I wouldn't even count Omkar in that because he is there only as a parasite with his wife.

@green: I guess Ninad was the absent father -- by the virtue of being in the force-- so Ashwini could actually shield him at a tender age from learning the truth about their relationship. Virat must have already grown into an adolescent by the time Ninad retired and was at home. So, he would have mostly only seen the "normal" behaviour that was a result of Ashwini's silence. When Ashwini doesn't retort, Ninad is quiet too. It is now -- since the arrival of PP that Ashwini has begun voicing herself. Nahi toh, in the initial episodes, they did not come across as a couple that had so much bad blood between them.

Yes, agree. At times the parents wear a mask so that the child has a normal life. And, maybe that's why Virat wasn't aware of his mother's suffering. But, now everything has come out in open.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Oh okay 😆 Thank you for being the guiding light 😉⭐️

Welcome🤗