BB Tamil 4 - Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 1| DT Final Warning Pg 104 - Page 57

Originally posted by: mirun

Honey in no way I’m saying you need to quit the forum just be careful when you put SM reference since it is not fair for fans here . I think I mentioned this before too .

Do you support thava calling Gabby aunty ? Don’t you think that is shaming ?

Ok got what you said 👍🏼

I dont think he called Gabby as aunty . He called Som/Rio/Gaby back biting as aunties talking to each other like how we say oru kilavi. That is what I understood.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Sorry Thava I wouldn’t have requested if I had known you would get blamed for editing also. My only intention was to not to hurt each other by words and to maintain forum etiquette. Now it has gone out of hands 😒.

You said your point in that post though it was rude. But this is going out of hands. Pls calm down. In this mind set if u post further on this topic it is going to get more ugly. PLEASE do not talk about this incident anymore.

Yeah others reached out as well just didn't want to mention as they might not want it 2 b in open. I am more then ready to drop it.. but it keeps getting dragged so i am going to keep dragging it too lol.

Not just this forum but episode also very upsetting today 😒.

Shivani mom and her words , ovvoru varthaiyum neripula sudara mathiri. She just broke that kid into pieces. I just couldn’t see Shivani and her suffering at all . Her mom behaved like a step mom. Mothers only should understand their kids more than anyone, they only should support them when the whole world goes against their kids. Even for moms of thieves their kids would look good in their eyes. She didn’t even talk well to the HMs. Just for the sake of it acted to others. Didn’t even look at Bala. Did he do any crime? At least Losliya mom reaction was justifiable. Entha fake love storyku efflo peria drama thevi ella Shivani mom.

Wont she know this BB show is full of editing , BB team show only 45 mins of 24 hr content, that too after highly editing the video to suit their needs. Shivani had no clue what her mom was talking. She was ashamed her mom shouting like that in front of other HMs. Or her mom did all this as acting to bring sympathy to Shivani ? Whatever it is , I would never want a mom like her or would never be a mom like that to my daughter. Her patching up the end was like after breaking the leg, trying to fit it back to the body 😡. . If her mom is really upset with Shivani, she would have advised with calm words or angry would have showed it behind the scene. This looks like complete milage scoring and get votes for Shivani.

Bala feeling upset , waiting for people here and in SM , calling it drama, seirathu ellam senjitu onnum theriadha maari feel panrannu. Seriously what would he do for this. He treated Shivani only as a friend , they did do some fake drama in between but that was only for few days. After that they are being good friends. He never influenced her or used her for his game , he treated both aajeedh and Shivani the same, as friends and try to motivate them. It is his fault, he should have played his own game. He shouldn’t have supported them at any point. Then this group/hen tag wouldn’t have fallen on him. He rightly said school ponnu ulla anupitaanga.

Ramya is really a nice person 👍🏼. She didn’t do even one thing extra. She just consoled Shivani, tried to make her understand you didn’t do anything wrong, may be it was projected like that outside and mom talking from that pov. She would have scolded you now but would be feeling for that after going home.

Bala’s brother visit just a nice change of mood. Very nice to see their interaction. He was jumping for sometime as soon as he entered when the music was playing. he said later BB team asked him to dance 😆. I don’t know what advice he was giving to Bala. Bala is doing well now, he is asking him to be like paliya paneer selvam? Ayyo, marupadiyum mudhalil erundha ? BB team would have asked him to say that. BB team , unga TRPku Bala-vai paliyadu akka nenaikureengala 😡 .

Some fun freeze moments , Bala - Ramya joke, Rio - maadu sound, Aari Fast forward 😆 .

Originally posted by: llptch

Aiyo Shivani’s mother is giving me real life nightmares. Nalla vellai my mother will never do such things in public, but thaniya kandippa pannuvaanga 🤣I could understand Shivani’s embarrassment also. More than being hurt she was feeling bad her mother was speaking like this in front of everyone/the camera. Shivani’s mother was like a combination of Losliya’s appa and Kavin’s friend. I won’t say she was faking it, because she was giving me stage mom vibes just as I expected. She was angry Shivani was being made fun of outside and considered a mixture contest, and that could be because her aim would be to project her as a heroine. Aana side gap la Aari fan group ku oru bitt-u pottaanga 😂 Appo Bala oda reaction irukkey 😉 Orey comedy!

I could see Aajeedh had beedhi if his mother will come in and give the same treatment From what I’ve seen in her interviews, she is a calm lady so I don’t think she will do anything like that.

But seriously the channel should be careful next time when sending in such parents. Instead of using them for content they need to give them proper counselling before sending inside. It’s really awkward for the other contestants.

ETA - Did Shivani’s mother use beep words? Omg! Terror mummy ah iruppaanga pola.

Even I got scared of Shivani mom. I felt really bad for her. Her mom is having unrealistic expectations from her. She is not yet ready for BB game maybe she should have come after four or five years after getting experience. Advising Shivani is fine but her mom uses hurtful words for her.

Aajeedh does have maarana bethi about his mom and scolding. As far as I seen in SSJ, she seems to be calm and composed person. Let’s see!

I am hoping this forum gets back to normal again 😔 I didn’t want to comment on the topic before because I was worried I might support one person over the other without knowing what really happened, and end up isolating someone. Hoping to see spirited discussions here as usual.

Originally posted by: llptch

I am hoping this forum gets back to normal again 😔 I didn’t want to comment on the topic before because I was worried I might support one person over the other without knowing what really happened, and end up isolating someone. Hoping to see spirited discussions here as usual.

Hoping for the same thing. Don’t leave this forum anyone please. I love reading everyone’s point of view and made good friends in a small time frame. Let’s start fresh and let the bygones be bygones!

Shivani was emmbraased as well as hurt. Her mom action was reaction of sm post regarding her daughter. Her mom was hurt though she could have handled it better. It will only affect shivani confidence inside the house and other contestant might take that as point wen time comes to use against her.

Here is my detailed review.

Shivani mom seemed like very upset with her behaviour about not playing game well. She is young and an introvert. She tried her best also everyone is not fit to play BB as it requires different type of skills. Hope she remains positive and brave as her mom is very furious with her. BB is not platform to humiliate anyone, Shivani mom does humiliated her. Hateful memes are gonna be created for ever even for Rekha as she didn’t do anything that is flawed. Shivani might have made mistakes that her mom is not proud of, there is a way to convey that as everyone is watching!

Ramya does a great job today by helping Shivani as well as didn’t use any words against her mom. She is very matured!

Aajeedh already started worrying about his mom’s reaction. Chatting with everyone to understand the game at last but too late boy!

Bala felt sad for Shivani. His brother seems like fun loving person and did masti with everyone. His meeting is lively.

Gaby might be right as Bala doesn’t accept his wrongdoing when someone explains him.

Originally posted by: EmeraldStar

Shivani was emmbraased as well as hurt. Her mom action was reaction of sm post regarding her daughter. Her mom was hurt though she could have handled it better. It will only affect shivani confidence inside the house and other contestant might take that as point wen time comes to use against her.

Yes, too many of memes about her acting as an aiyyaa for Bala must have triggered her mother. The spoon sharing scene looked bad also. If Shivani had contributed to the show in any way like Losliya did, her reaction wouldn’t have been so harsh. Appo she would have just come and said you are doing all good, just drop this track. Now it looks like Shivani spoiled her name completely going inside. So edho redeem panna try pannaanga. But Shivani is like a 20th rank student her mother is forcing to become 1st rank. Aagurathu romba kashtam. Even after her mother gave her all this treatment, she is inquiring about Bala 🤣

I blame VijayTV people for this drama. Shivani has been with the channel for 5 years, so her mother must be knowing production staff well (she and Rio looked like they knew each other from before). They staff must be knowing her mother’s sentiments and purposely sent her in first to get TRP. That is so bad - they should counsel the parents if they are affected by what is happening inside.

Aana Bala-kay indha treatment nda imagine if Aseem was inside. At least for Bala indirect ah kaadhula kekkura maathiri thittitu ponaanga. Aseem nda kandippa slap vaangura alavukku treatment kuduthuttu pogi iruppaanga.

Tamil industry is very cruel towards young female talent . Many men might approach shivani saying atha Bala mamavukku ootineya enakku oottu . My opinion is mom did yo protect her from future problems . Insta post is for marketing her talent but what she did in reality show is character assassination. With Los she had good bond with everyone and special bond with Kavin . But females like archu , Sam and suchi encouraged this relationship. Will they say the same thing to their own kid ? No shivani is supposed to be in college . I don’t know if we should blame parents or channel or audience for accepting these young kids to reality shows . Hope they bring a age restriction next year . The time when they said freeze the way she was laughing first time that is true kid inside her .ithe Bala only said she is not young kid but bayangara matures girl aana innaikku lkg kiddnnu solraan . Bala mentioned Gaby as kid . Don’t know if you guys remember but in first week she said she was offered BBlast year but her parents didn’t allow . But this year she convinced them to come to show . Apparum vandhu onnu pannalainna kekka maatangala . She didn’t play task with involvement . As a adult if she thinks feeding a contestant is normal then she is wrong . Only good thing her analysis is spot on . What about her getting possessive about Bala when suchi was here ? Athullem normal means she is abnormal