Pakhika Zhula and instant gratification

"Maine bhi ye Niyam mana hai Virat, phir 'tumhari Sai' ke liye niyam alag kyun?" Says the precap.

Waise aaj kal 'tumhari sai' ka use thoda zyada ho gaya hai. Woh to 'reverse psychology' use kar rahi hai. Sach mai to woh sunana chahati hai "Aisa kuchh nahi hai Pakhi. Tum zyada mat socho". But the tact is falling flat on its face 🙈 and she is getting wide smiles in return, making her heart burn 🖤 (Sai and Virat both have not shown objection to the usage of the term makes my heart go 💗💗💗)

We will come back to this precap again at the end.

Pehale apane bachpan mei thodi sair kar lete hai when we threw tantrums for wanting to have that baloon 🎈🎈, our favourite toy 🧸 or a video game 🎮. A wise parent is the one who never gives in to such tantrums and 'ulta' tells the child if you behave like this I will never get it for you. If the wish of the child is valid, the parent promises it after good behaviour or after some achievement. The parent is actually training the child to contain/control the need of instant gratification ('Abhi muze chahiye to abhi milana chahiye' emotion without thinking if the wish is valid, right or wrong).

Now, let's come to Pakhi's parents, especially her baba 🤢. Uski ma mein thoda sense bacha hua hai waise. Lesser said is better. While looking at Pakhi, the way she is, it always drew my attention to her upbringing as a cause. She is never been trained to contain her need of instant gratification. Pakhi's baba during her childhood must be like " Mei apani beti ko hamesha khush dekhana chahata hun. Use jo jab chahiye woh mai dunga (even if she wants an EMA 😝 when she becomes an adult)". But what he forgot is his daughter will never be able to learn to face real life situations where she will not get things instantly as she wishes.

Pakhi's baba himself made her sit on 🎢zhula where she will swing between moments of excitement while becoming distraught in the next just at the thought of getting something she wants or not getting it.

Now let's visit some of Pakhi's zhula incidences:

1.So when at yoga retreat, Pakhi liked Virat. For Pakhi it was not Virat but ' Virat toy', jo chabi se 🗝 chalata hai. To Pakhiko 'Virat toy🐕‍🦺 ' itana achha laga ki woh bonfire ke age EXCITE hoke nachane lagi..🔥💃. She wanted this 'Virat toy' 'NOW'. Lekin phir Pakhi ko Viratse chahiye woh confession mila nahi, to mohatarma gussa (DISTRAUGHT) hoke Yoga retreat🧎‍♀️ chhod ke aa gayi (woh bhi itane exotic resortse)💰

2. Phir ghar aake Viratka number mila to 'EXCITE' ho gayi, Viratne phone nahi kiya to 'GUSSA' hoke usaka number block kar diya.📱 aur usi gusse mein kisi aur se shadi ke liye taiyar ho gayi.

3.Phirse Virat mila to 'Excitement' mein ho rahi shadi todna chahati thi or ek 'moronic' vaade ko 'EMA ka 🎫' samazhake usake bhaise shadi kar li.

4.Viratne shadi kar li to gussa ho gayi ( I will not get my 'Virat toy' now😠).

5. Viratne 'galat ko galat' bola to gussa ho gayi aur ghar chhod kar chali gayi. Phir Saine bola you can freely continue with your 'loveship' to 'EXCITE' hoke wapas aa gayi.🤦‍♀️

And the list is never ending....📜

Now, let's come back to the precap. Person who said "Ye niyam to maine bhi mana hai Virat, phir 'tumhari Sai' ke liye alag niyam kyun?" Is the same person who said " Thank you, Bhagwan! Ab jaldi jaldi Sai doctor ban jaye aur Virat ki zindagi ke aur is ghar se nikal jaye".

Pakhi is sitting on zhula, when she feels she is going to get her 'Virat toy🐕‍🦺' she is all excited (Many congratulations, Sai!)and when she feels she will not, she in all in her 'Gussa/ distraught/ dukhiyari' mode (Mei dua kaungi ke aisa din kabhi na aye).

Pakhi is not an independant person (as responsible behaviour, considering consequences of one's action on his/herself and people around, is inherent to it). She is outright whimzhical, sitting on a Zhula which her 'baba' prepared for her. Ek na ek din to is Zhulese girana likhahi hai! Lekin tab tak hamein 'Ghum hai kisike pyar mein dekhana hoga'.

Post padhake 'Ghumsum' na hona mere dosto, kyunki yahi zhula hamare SAIRAT ko pyar ke asaman me udane wala hai..❤❤❤!

That precap is the latest promo, so why do I feel then that the only reason why they made pakhi say such stupid and contradictory lines in the promo is just to force pakhi into the promo? This promo only really needed sai, virat and kaku in it.... pakhi was not needed in the promo, yet they showed her in it, and that too, saying such a stupid line of protesting sai's admission into medical college that contradicts her desire of sai becoming a doctor and leaving virat's life. 🤪

I have lots of difficulty to read Hindi but I took lots of patience and read your post I must say I rreally like it whatever you said about Pakhi I gree to 100% but about sailesh he's a stain in the name of father he's such a shameless human being he needs both brothers to fullfll his daughter wishes and on that he proudly talks in Chavan family without thinking of the consequenses when the Chavn's will get to know about Pakhi real intentions and her parents were aware of it....

In my region people say " bachcho ko na sunne ki aadat honi chahiye" and that's true . You can not give your child whatever they want . And love your kid doesn't mean agree with them in every right or wrong matter. This way you only destroy your kids life. Shailesh is kind of person who who never learned to say no to his daughter and in this blind love he is destroying his own daughter's life .

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

I have lots of difficulty to read Hindi but I took lots of patience and read your post I must say I rreally like it whatever you said about Pakhi I gree to 100% but about sailesh he's a stain in the name of father he's such a shameless human being he needs both brothers to fullfll his daughter wishes and on that he proudly talks in Chavan family without thinking of the consequenses when the Chavn's will get to know about Pakhi real intentions and her parents were aware of it....

@ALUJNA21 Thank you so much dear for the patience!

Yup, parents don't even realize that their love is not constructive but destructive to the child..

Originally posted by: sammy17

That precap is the latest promo, so why do I feel then that the only reason why they made pakhi say such stupid and contradictory lines in the promo is just to force pakhi into the promo? This promo only really needed sai, virat and kaku in it.... pakhi was not needed in the promo, yet they showed her in it, and that too, saying such a stupid line of protesting sai's admission into medical college that contradicts her desire of sai becoming a doctor and leaving virat's life. 🤪

Apart from what the author has written, another thought that comes to me is that Pakhi is losing Virat and she sees it. So now, she will try to keep Sai-haters on her side or be on their sides at least.

She doesn't really care if Sai becomes a doctor or not. She just wants Virat to herself. This could also be am attempt to draw him into an argument since Virat has started to maintain distance since her come back🤔

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

"Maine bhi ye Niyam mana hai Virat, phir 'tumhari Sai' ke liye niyam alag kyun?" Says the precap.

Waise aaj kal 'tumhari sai' ka use thoda zyada ho gaya hai. Woh to 'reverse psychology' use kar rahi hai. Sach mai to woh sunana chahati hai "Aisa kuchh nahi hai Pakhi. Tum zyada mat socho". But the tact is falling flat on its face 🙈 and she is getting wide smiles in return, making her heart burn 🖤 (Sai and Virat both have not shown objection to the usage of the term makes my heart go 💗💗💗)

We will come back to this precap again at the end.

Pehale apane bachpan mei thodi sair kar lete hai when we threw tantrums for wanting to have that baloon 🎈🎈, our favourite toy 🧸 or a video game 🎮. A wise parent is the one who never gives in to such tantrums and 'ulta' tells the child if you behave like this I will never get it for you. If the wish of the child is valid, the parent promises it after good behaviour or after some achievement. The parent is actually training the child to contain/control the need of instant gratification ('Abhi muze chahiye to abhi milana chahiye' emotion without thinking if the wish is valid, right or wrong).

Now, let's come to Pakhi's parents, especially her baba 🤢. Uski ma mein thoda sense bacha hua hai waise. Lesser said is better. While looking at Pakhi, the way she is, it always drew my attention to her upbringing as a cause. She is never been trained to contain her need of instant gratification. Pakhi's baba during her childhood must be like " Mei apani beti ko hamesha khush dekhana chahata hun. Use jo jab chahiye woh mai dunga (even if she wants an EMA 😝 when she becomes an adult)". But what he forgot is his daughter will never be able to learn to face real life situations where she will not get things instantly as she wishes.

Pakhi's baba himself made her sit on 🎢zhula where she will swing between moments of excitement while becoming distraught in the next just at the thought of getting something she wants or not getting it.

Now let's visit some of Pakhi's zhula incidences:

1.So when at yoga retreat, Pakhi liked Virat. For Pakhi it was not Virat but ' Virat toy', jo chabi se 🗝 chalata hai. To Pakhiko 'Virat toy🐕‍🦺 ' itana achha laga ki woh bonfire ke age EXCITE hoke nachane lagi..🔥💃. She wanted this 'Virat toy' 'NOW'. Lekin phir Pakhi ko Viratse chahiye woh confession mila nahi, to mohatarma gussa (DISTRAUGHT) hoke Yoga retreat🧎‍♀️ chhod ke aa gayi (woh bhi itane exotic resortse)💰

2. Phir ghar aake Viratka number mila to 'EXCITE' ho gayi, Viratne phone nahi kiya to 'GUSSA' hoke usaka number block kar diya.📱 aur usi gusse mein kisi aur se shadi ke liye taiyar ho gayi.

3.Phirse Virat mila to 'Excitement' mein ho rahi shadi todna chahati thi or ek 'moronic' vaade ko 'EMA ka 🎫' samazhake usake bhaise shadi kar li.

4.Viratne shadi kar li to gussa ho gayi ( I will not get my 'Virat toy' now😠).

5. Viratne 'galat ko galat' bola to gussa ho gayi aur ghar chhod kar chali gayi. Phir Saine bola you can freely continue with your 'loveship' to 'EXCITE' hoke wapas aa gayi.🤦‍♀️

And the list is never ending....📜

Now, let's come back to the precap. Person who said "Ye niyam to maine bhi mana hai Virat, phir 'tumhari Sai' ke liye alag niyam kyun?" Is the same person who said " Thank you, Bhagwan! Ab jaldi jaldi Sai doctor ban jaye aur Virat ki zindagi ke aur is ghar se nikal jaye".

Pakhi is sitting on zhula, when she feels she is going to get her 'Virat toy🐕‍🦺' she is all excited (Many congratulations, Sai!)and when she feels she will not, she in all in her 'Gussa/ distraught/ dukhiyari' mode (Mei dua kaungi ke aisa din kabhi na aye).

Pakhi is not an independant person (as responsible behaviour, considering consequences of one's action on his/herself and people around, is inherent to it). She is outright whimzhical, sitting on a Zhula which her 'baba' prepared for her. Ek na ek din to is Zhulese girana likhahi hai! Lekin tab tak hamein 'Ghum hai kisike pyar mein dekhana hoga'.

Post padhake 'Ghumsum' na hona mere dosto, kyunki yahi zhula hamare SAIRAT ko pyar ke asaman me udane wala hai..❤❤❤!

virat got a lucky escape otherwise paakhi would have suffocated him☢️

i still remember during gadchirolli days how paakhi call him to come back.

like he has got no other better things to do than listening to her nonstop pareshani🤢

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

In my region people say " bachcho ko na sunne ki aadat honi chahiye" and that's true . You can not give your child whatever they want . And love your kid doesn't mean agree with them in every right or wrong matter. This way you only destroy your kids life. Shailesh is kind of person who who never learned to say no to his daughter and in this blind love he is destroying his own daughter's life .

oh hello ur daughter is the one who blocked his number and ruined ur chances of having an IPS SIL

Originally posted by: Jiss555

good post and what you told about paakhi is 100% right.

virat got a lucky escape otherwise paakhi would have suffocated him☢️

i still remember during gadchirolli days how paakhi call him to come back.

like he has got no other better things to do than listening to her nonstop pareshani🤢

Virat may have been lucky, but what about bachara Samrat! I feel bad for him.

Originally posted by: by_stander

Virat may have been lucky, but what about bachara Samrat! I feel bad for him.

But i think samrat identified paakhi orginal charecter thats y he left in a hurry😆