virat - aaba comparison

Hi guyz,

this is my first post here but i just wanted to know

is any one here feel a bit uncomfortable with aaba - virat comparison.

I can understand sai, she is missing a father figure.

But don't want virat to behave like her father. I feel like this will ruin their relationship because virat is treating her like a kid 🥱 and pakhi is always taunting him with u married a kid virat 🤢

Originally posted by: _Khaleesi_

Hi guyz,

this is my first post here but i just wanted to know

is any one here feel a bit uncomfortable with aaba - virat comparison.

I can understand sai, she is missing a father figure.

But don't want virat to behave like her father. I feel like this will ruin their relationship because virat is treating her like a kid 🥱 and pakhi is always taunting him with u married a kid virat 🤢

hi welcome👏 to this wonderful forum full of lovely girlzzz

I too used to worry about sai virat relation being too paternal but then janki(our fellow forum member and a great analyist)put my mind to rest.I dont have her way with words but sai is trusting virat like her father but with trust love will grow and that will slowly turn to romance but it will be a long way of.

But what i can vouch is though his behaviour seems paternal but those intense look was no way brotherly or paternal.That look which virat give sai sometimes is soooooo hot and she is mine look

Also there is a hidden chemistry bw them ,makers are giving us glimpses of budding romance by accidental hug,sai feeling uncomfortable on sleeping next to virat on the same bed....etc

so sexual tension is definetly there but it is lost among she is a kid and so my farz thought..

lets wait

I somehow don't feel uncomfortable about their relationship. If you have time, please read Janki's analysis of that dynamics.

Speaking from a purely psychological point (I am not from the field of psychology, I just remembered reading a lot on the subject to write one essay about how we are subconsciously affected by parenting when we choose our life partners. So anyone from the field, feel free to correct me). So yeah, based on what I read(and remember), women, especially those who have had a great childhood and are basically daddy's princesses, tend to look for the qualities their fathers had, in their husband. Which, I think is what Sai is unconsciously doing. She is looking for her father's attributes in Virat, which is in abundance, tbh. She is not looking for the father himself, but only an image which she can cling onto.

And Virat, who probably still feels guilty with what happened to KJ, is just going with the flow for the time being.

I really don't get the brotherly/father- daughter vibes from them....I mean tucking the hair, finger on your lips, eyeing the sinhgad fort, peeking between pillows, missing the other at night makes it impossible for me to get those vibes from them😆

You know in ITV this deal wali shaadi pretty common but it almost always start with misunderstanding and audiences know that when the misunderstandings are cleared and hate subsides, love will prevail. The formula is simple, hate, drunk romance, misunderstanding cleared, friendship (sometimes skipped), romance, love.

But their marriage is of different kind. There is no major misunderstanding and they don't hate each other, they are friendly yet not friends, Virat is attracted yet it has not been too romanticised. Sai is jealous but there are various reasons to that.

On the front, they are a deal wali couple, but like if you have to give a name to their relationship, it's kind of difficult. There is love, respect impeccable trust, jealousy, attraction, however they are not yet a romantic pairing. It's a slowburn clearly.

Originally posted by: _Khaleesi_

is any one here feel a bit uncomfortable with aaba - virat comparison.

yeah, even the one where she goes like "you give aashirward like aaba" That was uncomfortable.

Also, the constant age gap comments in the show. Like, they have a 8-9 year age difference. It isn't that uncommon in most Asian/Indian marriages.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I somehow don't feel uncomfortable about their relationship. If you have time, please read Janki's analysis of that dynamics.

Speaking from a purely psychological point (I am not from the field of psychology, I just remembered reading a lot on the subject to write one essay about how we are subconsciously affected by parenting when we choose our life partners. So anyone from the field, feel free to correct me). So yeah, based on what I read(and remember), women, especially those who have had a great childhood and are basically daddy's princesses, tend to look for the qualities their fathers had, in their husband. Which, I think is what Sai is unconsciously doing. She is looking for her father's attributes in Virat, which is in abundance, tbh. She is not looking for the father himself, but only an image which she can cling onto.

And Virat, who probably still feels guilty with what happened to KJ, is just going with the flow for the time being.

I really don't get the brotherly/father- daughter vibes from them....I mean tucking the hair, finger on your lips, eyeing the sinhgad fort, peeking between pillows, missing the other at night makes it impossible for me to get those vibes from them😆

You know in ITV this deal wali shaadi pretty common but it almost always start with misunderstanding and audiences know that when the misunderstandings are cleared and hate subsides, love will prevail. The formula is simple, hate, drunk romance, misunderstanding cleared, friendship (sometimes skipped), romance, love.

But their marriage is of different kind. There is no major misunderstanding and they don't hate each other, they are friendly yet not friends, Virat is attracted yet it has not been too romanticised. Sai is jealous but there are various reasons to that.

On the front, they are a deal wali couple, but like if you have to give a name to their relationship, it's kind of difficult. There is love, respect impeccable trust, jealousy, attraction, however they are not yet a romantic pairing. It's a slowburn clearly.

Hello love, can you share that analysis link please?

Originally posted by: AraBearxo

yeah, even the one where she goes like "you give aashirward like aaba"

Like bro, they have a 8-9 year age difference. It isn't that uncommon in most Asian/Indian marriages.

I don't think she meant it literally. I thought her words packed a lot of emotions, she touched his feet out of pure respect (when she said in the beginning "ashirwaad mein sirf apne abba ka leti hoon") the kind of respect she only had for her father. And Virat rewarded her with words she would probably have expected from her father.

In the previous episode, when Virat said to Sai that he is confident about her results, Sai said something along the lines of "had it been abba who said those words, i'd believe him". She knew he was proud of her and believed in her, but to that extent, she probably did not expect it. And so, I believe she was absolutely overwhelmed and in awe by how proud he was.

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Hello love, can you share that analysis link please?

Here you go:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ghum-hai-kisikey-pyaar-meiin/5199415/jiv-dangla-gungla-rangla-asa

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Hello love, can you share that analysis link please?

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/155313084

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I somehow don't feel uncomfortable about their relationship. If you have time, please read Janki's analysis of that dynamics.

Speaking from a purely psychological point (I am not from the field of psychology, I just remembered reading a lot on the subject to write one essay about how we are subconsciously affected by parenting when we choose our life partners. So anyone from the field, feel free to correct me). So yeah, based on what I read(and remember), women, especially those who have had a great childhood and are basically daddy's princesses, tend to look for the qualities their fathers had, in their husband. Which, I think is what Sai is unconsciously doing. She is looking for her father's attributes in Virat, which is in abundance, tbh. She is not looking for the father himself, but only an image which she can cling onto.

And Virat, who probably still feels guilty with what happened to KJ, is just going with the flow for the time being.

I really don't get the brotherly/father- daughter vibes from them....I mean tucking the hair, finger on your lips, eyeing the sinhgad fort, peeking between pillows, missing the other at night makes it impossible for me to get those vibes from them😆

You know in ITV this deal wali shaadi pretty common but it almost always start with misunderstanding and audiences know that when the misunderstandings are cleared and hate subsides, love will prevail. The formula is simple, hate, drunk romance, misunderstanding cleared, friendship (sometimes skipped), romance, love.

But their marriage is of different kind. There is no major misunderstanding and they don't hate each other, they are friendly yet not friends, Virat is attracted yet it has not been too romanticised. Sai is jealous but there are various reasons to that.

On the front, they are a deal wali couple, but like if you have to give a name to their relationship, it's kind of difficult. There is love, respect impeccable trust, jealousy, attraction, however they are not yet a romantic pairing. It's a slowburn clearly.

Agree in ITV generally forced married couple hate each other but here they respect each other

Originally posted by: Ratichona

Agree in ITV generally forced married couple hate each other but here they respect each other

And so, we are looking for familiar tags to place them under😉