How do you feel about Sai's tantrums today? - Page 2

Sorry, not an 18 year old’s behaviour, however stressed or motherless or other excuses. 10 year olds behave like this - if they are angry with one person or situation they will take it out on everyone incl loving parents - that’s a tantrum. 18 year olds wld hv learnt to compartmentalise their anger.

My daughter is studying MBBS in UK. She got admission a few months before she turned 18, and had to write a personal statement plus go thru interviews, in both of which she had to demonstrate her maturity level, composure, EQ & ability to handle pressure, among other things. Someone like Sai wld & shd never have got in.

Originally posted by: Bana

Sorry, not an 18 year old’s behaviour, however stressed or motherless or other excuses. 10 year olds behave like this - if they are angry with one person or situation they will take it out on everyone incl loving parents - that’s a tantrum. 18 year olds wld hv learnt to compartmentalise their anger.

My daughter is studying MBBS in UK. She got admission a few months before she turned 18, and had to write a personal statement plus go thru interviews, in both of which she had to demonstrate her maturity level, composure, EQ & ability to handle pressure, among other things. Someone like Sai wld & shd never have got in.

in india students dont need to give interviews and demonstrate their maturity to get into mbbs. they need to clear entrance exams. i know a doctor in my family who is quite wild but a brilliant doctor nonetheless. so i dont agree that she should not and would not have got in.

how they are in their personal lives do not always reflect in their professions. this is purely my personal opinion.

I agree that it was a lot, and I was disappointed in her reaction. But I will continue to give her the benefit of the doubt, as instead of just one big decision, she's literally been going through far too much in the period of a month? This can and does cause emotional issues even to a mature person, and Sai really is immature (fine I said it too ).

No matter, I'm interested in seeing her journey towards that growth. I've definitely seen 18 yr olds act like this and handle medicine and become a doctor. It's possible, plus the way one reacts in a professional setting is usually much stiffer than in their everyday.

Let's see I'm hoping the CVs focus on her learning how to handle her emotions, girl has been through far too much in a short amount of time.

Originally posted by: raji02

in india students dont need to give interviews and demonstrate their maturity to get into mbbs. they need to clear entrance exams. i know a doctor in my family who is quite wild but a brilliant doctor nonetheless. so i dont agree that she should not and would not have got in.

how they are in their personal lives do not always reflect in their professions. this is purely my personal opinion.

Same here, my this school friend is very wild and childlike in his personal life, but that does not mean he could not be mature in his professional life. When I read his personal statement, I was quite taken aback. Some people have the ability to make every so-called "flaw" become their strongest point.

Plus if you see properly, the scene where her father was shot, she was one of the most composed person there, despite him being her only family. She was in charge and a different person altogether.

So you are very right to say that some people can rightly separate their personal and professional life, and if this doesn't show maturity, then I do not know what will😆

Coming to the scene, my only issue is that Shivani made lunch for her and was not even acknowledged. Oh well, she was pretty triggered by that look Virat gave to Pakhi before going (which by the way, I think was to convey his disappointment in her). And I guess she has not come to terms with so many members of the family coming and asking her to eat. When she got angry at home, it was just Abba and her, so she would have melted before even getting angry. But, here she has to deal with so many extensions of Virat, thereby building up her anger, before dealing with Virat himself.

Originally posted by: pyaarimia16

I agree that it was a lot, and I was disappointed in her reaction. But I will continue to give her the benefit of the doubt, as instead of just one big decision, she's literally been going through far too much in the period of a month? This can and does cause emotional issues even to a mature person, and Sai really is immature (fine I said it too ).

No matter, I'm interested in seeing her journey towards that growth. I've definitely seen 18 yr olds act like this and handle medicine and become a doctor. It's possible, plus the way one reacts in a professional setting is usually much stiffer than in their everyday.

Let's see I'm hoping the CVs focus on her learning how to handle her emotions, girl has been through far too much in a short amount of time.

Yup, I am giving her benifit of the doubt as well! Honestly I don’t think I would even show quarter of the sanity she is showing with all these people. She is like a small plant that requires nurturing in the form of love, compassion, and patience. I am glad V, Ashwini, and shivani are giving her all that. The rest of the chavan house members are just weeds that wanna suck up all that and cause the plant to die.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Same here, my this school friend is very wild and childlike in his personal life, but that does not mean he could not be mature in his professional life. When I read his personal statement, I was quite taken aback. Some people have the ability to make every so-called "flaw" become their strongest point.

Plus if you see properly, the scene where her father was shot, she was one of the most composed person there, despite him being her only family. She was in charge and a different person altogether.

So you are very right to say that some people can rightly separate their personal and professional life, and if this doesn't show maturity, then I do not know what will😆

Coming to the scene, my only issue is that Shivani made lunch for her and was not even acknowledged. Oh well, she was pretty triggered by that look Virat gave to Pakhi before going (which by the way, I think was to convey his disappointment in her). And I guess she has not come to terms with so many members of the family coming and asking her to eat. When she got angry at home, it was just Abba and her, so she would have melted before even getting angry. But, here she has to deal with so many extensions of Virat, thereby building up her anger, before dealing with Virat himself.

yes even i agree that she should have agreed when all of them were requesting her to come have lunch. she might have even agreed but kaku had to come and spoil everything and agitate her even more with her hatred and taunts. i would have gone mad if i had one such family member let alone scores of them.

Originally posted by: by_stander

Yup, I am giving her benifit of the doubt as well! Honestly I don’t think I would even show quarter of the sanity she is showing with all these people. She is like a small plant that requires nurturing in the form of love, compassion, and patience. I am glad V, Ashwini, and shivani are giving her all that. The rest of the chavan house members are just weeds that wanna suck up all that and cause the plant to die.

I know! I mean honestly what does one do in her shoes? The "right" thing to do is quietly listen to all the taunts and love it all away (seriously this is how it always works in shows... ridiculous). It's nice to see her support system grow and love her, AND it's even better watching them call her out when she's being ridiculous. You can only grow when the people who love you are willing to call you out on your flaws and force you to confront them/help you change. I see Ashwini aai as being able to do that for Sai.

Originally posted by: pyaarimia16

I agree that it was a lot, and I was disappointed in her reaction. But I will continue to give her the benefit of the doubt, as instead of just one big decision, she's literally been going through far too much in the period of a month? This can and does cause emotional issues even to a mature person, and Sai really is immature (fine I said it too ).

No matter, I'm interested in seeing her journey towards that growth. I've definitely seen 18 yr olds act like this and handle medicine and become a doctor. It's possible, plus the way one reacts in a professional setting is usually much stiffer than in their everyday.

Let's see I'm hoping the CVs focus on her learning how to handle her emotions, girl has been through far too much in a short amount of time.

I feel Sai is someone who needs someone to be the center of her world, to function properly. Before, her Aaba was that center and now, unknowingly or knowingly Virat is becoming that. Virat too needs to realize that or may be he already does, that Sai is emotionally becoming attached to him and with it, all other feelings will come naturally & eventually. May be I am wrong here but that's what I felt.

Feel free to correct me.😊

I just hope writers show Sai & Virat journey properly. They shall not focus too much on family drama.

Sai & Virat has all the potential and they feel real too given that there have been many such cases of similar couples in real life.

My point of view is that Sai threw a tantrum because she was emotionally overwhelmed and did not understand how to communicate it. This happens to many people - Virat did similar things (privately) when his job was on the line. Sai was happy because of her results, sad because she was missing her father, hungry, upset because she thought Virat forgot about his promise, angry at some of them for their negative remarks - she just wanted to be alone to process all of this. But instead she was annoyed even more that no one understood her. In the end, when Virat came and understood her, she was quick to forget her anger and calm down.

It may be a bit strong reaction, but not at all uncommon or unreasonable. It just makes her human.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Plus if you see properly, the scene where her father was shot, she was one of the most composed person there, despite him being her only family. She was in charge and a different person altogether.

Exactly!! She used to be a princess but not a brat. The CVs hv been showing her up as more immature, childish & unpredictable in the last few epis, maybe to contrast with Pakhi or to show Virat’s indulgent affection. They are overdoing it - any more of this... and when Virat makes a romantic overture it will look eww coz we will get used to seeing Sai as a kid & Virat as her guardian.