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When Ankita gave all those interviews to Arnab and other channels, Sandeep was not in the picture that evidently...he came into limelight later on by Arnab neither was she ever asked a question about him...and just on those interviews she got attacked by Rhea and party without even checking their facts...even now after all these months when there has been nothing substantial against Sandeep people are still bashing her for celebrating her birthday with him....I can't even imagine the bricks she would have gotten if she had come in his support openly...I am sure she would have supported him if someone asked about him but how can she go out of the way single handedly to defend him when no one else did who might have had a better idea to what took place that day like even Mahesh who he claims to be with on that day...all the channels would have vilified her not to forget the so called "warriors" who are not willing to listen to anything remotely rational and just scream blood!

She must have showed support to him at his difficult time privately that's why she still openly associates with him.

Originally posted by: my.2cents

I really didn't even wanted to talk about this topic or sound like that I am defending one and attacking the other cause honestly I don't like bringing it up again and again as it involves someone who is not here in this world anymore and I only want to remember him for his good parts and not remember him for his flaws but people really can't stop haloing who is not here anymore and demonizing anyone and everyone who is and not crying buckets everyday in his memory, and that is just annoying...I mean why can't people just stop being so extreme on the both tangents and let the people just be? Ankita's entire instagram is filled with comments like "Aap Sushant ko bhul gayi?" the moment she posts anything being happy...I mean are they a little out there? sure...but she has always been like that, a little loud/blunt for what she has always been misunderstood and hated and never giving a damn enough to ever clarify or justify her actions to people who don't matter as she believes that people who matter to her and who she matters to have full faith in her and stands by her no matter what as she does the same for them...people who have been following her knows that she fervently stands by the people she calls her own...and that's one of her best and worst qualities!

Now coming to the points for which she is getting the flak recently:

1. For celebrating her name in the most searched list:

Well, I understand why people might criticize her for that but the way I see it...she was not celebrating the fact that she was one of the most searched people in some list cause she is some new hot selling thing but she was being thankful to people for showing her the appreciation for standing by someone and fighting for him even after being attacked by the opposite party on national TV and showing the courage to speak up for him and standing by his family, while most people won't to avoid getting in any kind of mess as that is what she believes in and has always stood up for and I don't think she is either delusional or dumb enough to not know why she was in that list...having said that, I can understand why it may seem a little insensitive or offensive to people who have not really followed her.

2."The infamous tribute":

Personally, while watching it I didn't feel a thing but to me that was just the lack of planning or composition to who ever planned or choreographed the entire thing, choreographer or the channel who ever came up with it...even Usha Nadkarni's part or the male actor who was playing Sushant...it was all just haphazard from the get go and just plain silly and how do you bring in emotions to something like that which is half baked from the get go anyway? Ankita just went with it...especially cause it was for Zee which holds a sacred place for her and even did for Sushant cause that is actually where it all begin for both of them. I am sure if she had showed anymore dramatic emotion than that people would have called her attention seeker or fake as they have already been calling her many colorful things for the interviews she gave initially, so I don't see how people who doesn't already like her being happy with her anyway.

The way Ankita is from whatever you can read...she believes in only focusing on the positive and that anyone can stand up from anything no matter how deep in the pit they have fallen...she did get up from it even in the past and that's just her coping mechanism for life that's why she might seem too happy to people but you can never tell what emotions she might have deep inside...For her, she might just have cried all her heart out and now she just wants to remember Sushant for his memory and that was her way of honoring and celebrating his legacy.

I don't know about other people but to me I can never believe that She can ever do anything for personal gain from someone's tragedy or to gain fame from it, let alone from Sushant's whom she shared so much with once, cause for people who have followed both Sushant and Ankita just knows that's not how she is....she never did it even at the time of their breakup which she could have if she wanted to contrary to what some Sushant fans claim and just those two tweets that they keep bringing up to bash her, she actually did nothing in comparison to someone who actually wants to gain something from anything....I mean, just on the basis of those two tweets the vilification she gets from Sushant fans till date is just ridiculous cause as far as I know they have nothing else to claim against her from that time frame. And even those tweets hold nothing to me atleast cause if you have been following her, you'll know that she sometimes likes and retweets things carelessly or just in the flow without paying much attention to them when she is on giving likes to people non-stop or is really active.

And lastly, I am so done with people always claiming that people turned on Sushant just cause he broke up with her, for god sake nobody became salty towards him just cause of the breakup...people didn't like the way he handled his 7 year old relationship and how he didn't gave it the dignity it deserved by just leaving her to handle it all by herself, being called the crazy psychotic alcoholic and what not, while he went away unbothered to shoot for his film and didn't say a word until it all came on him of being a womanizer and that too in a tweet just to clarify himself not a word before it in her defense...and how much I hate bringing this up when he is not here but it's just so annoying when people keep bringing it up falsely again and again and how he was unfairly bashed and got the flak for it all just cause he broke up with her when it was the way he handled it and not just that he did.

He had flaws, we all do...remember him for his good and stop bringing up false claims to making him look like a saint, he was human just like us, neither a devil nor a saint!

I mean, people don't even leave his family and his sisters claiming that even they are doing all this for attention or for some kind of gain, sure their way must not be the greatest...but to claim that they have any kind of ill intentions towards their only brother and son....ridiculous seriously!

I won't continue the debate on Ankita. I find her recent activities beyond insensitive. I won't really know what her intention behind all this is but the matter of fact is it's not looking nice. About Sandeep I hope she addresses the whole chaos for her own sake. Because the brainless "warrior" mob is coming for her.

Bold: I don't know if that was directed at my comment here but I never said his family is doing all this for attention. But the way they have handled the case has done more damage to his image and memory. It's sad that they couldn't help him when he needed it and it's even more sad that even after all this his mental illness is being denied despite of all the evidence. I think all this is coming from place of denial or guilt not because they want to take advantage of his death. I am just disturbed by the "cult" that has been created because of all this and now instigators like Arnab and Swami have taken a backseat while the "warriors" are still propagating false theories. Even today I come across the pictures of his dead body on SM with big red circles because these internet sherlocks "discover" something new everyday. I just wish this would stop!

About my comment on people turning on him: I am not pointing out any particular fan here. Like I said it's ok if after the breakup you were put off by him and became indifferent. My complain is that it was unfair to attack him or even Ankita because of that on internet. It was already difficult for both of them and then fans hounding them for it might have made it worse. Even ruined whatever little that was left between them. I know even Ankita faced abuses from his fans but general perception was against him. Even today you will find so many comments saying he would have been alive if he would have been with her or how his biggest mistake was leaving her. It's unfair!

^^No it was not directed towards you...only my second post about Sandeep was, this post was generally just a contrary opinion to whatever flak I see her facing on the various platforms, twitter, her insta, the other thread where she is being bashed everywhere by some Sushant fans not all but the ones that call themselves "warriors", who believe that they are fighting for him but are only doing more harm than good by cooking all these mumbo jumbo stories and also are just being unreasonable at so many levels at this point.

You are welcome to share your views whatever they are over here....I just wanted to put across one post that is contrary and gives her a little benefit of the doubt, as opposed to straight away being judged for the worst now although she showed so much support for him in the initial months and was as vehemently involved as much as she could have for him and his family...might not always be on point but you could see whatever she was doing was sincere not to gain something or to exploit his death...people are so quick to judge, to write off someone's character when she has never shown any signs of even being capable of doing something like that before...it's just bizarre and a little extreme to me!

People just generally need to chill a bit and cool down with their conspiracy theories and what not cause now they are even on to his family...who adored and loved him to no end!

Originally posted by: my.2cents

^^No it was not directed towards you...only my second post about Sandeep was, this post was generally just a contrary opinion to whatever flak I see her facing on the various platforms, twitter, her insta, the other thread where she is being bashed everywhere by some Sushant fans not all but the ones that call themselves "warriors", who believe that they are fighting for him but are only doing more harm than good by cooking all these mumbo jumbo stories and also are just being unreasonable at so many levels at this point.

You are welcome to share your views whatever they are over here....I just wanted to put across one post that is contrary and gives her a little benefit of the doubt, as opposed to straight away being judged for the worst now although she showed so much support for him in the initial months and was as vehemently involved as much as she could have for him and his family...might not always be on point but you could see whatever she was doing was sincere not to gain something or to exploit his death...people are so quick to judge, to write off someone's character when she has never shown any signs of even being capable of doing something like that before...it's just bizarre and a little extreme to me!

People just generally need to chill a bit and cool down with their conspiracy theories and what not cause now they are even on to his family...who adored and loved him to no end!

I agree about giving benefit of doubt and tbh I did appreciate her for supporting the family when entire industry was against them ( patriarchy campaign).. I also lauded her for bringing valid points against Rhea devi when it was exposed that she was the one procuring drugs for him. Initially I felt a bit offended as a fan when she said that Sush was sitting at home for 3 yrs after PR in every interview but I let it slide. The recent celebration of topping that list and her insta story about the tribute were 2 things that put me off and I am sorry I respect your point of view but still can't buy that justification. Had it been just one post it would still have been fine but she put on like multiple insta stories about that and even her mother posted about it. Whatever was in her mind I don't know but it just came across as insensitive. It's wrong and even if it wasn't sushant but someone else I still would have felt that way.

I also agree about the conspiracy theories going haywire but like I said somewhere his family is to be blamed for that too. It wouldn't have become so bad had they not supported Arnab and other news channels. Even Shweta di herself has tweeted irresponsibly about few conspiracy theories which later were proven to be false. Now that same blood thirsty mob is coming for them. At the end kisi ko justice nahi mila. Don't know if one should blame them too because the damage was done by media. Even his genuine fans today believe all those theories. Now I don't think anything will bring an end to this circus. Not CBI, not court.

Wanted to rant.. so came here. I just hope this circus which is going on in the name of justice ends soon. This whole justice movement has become a joke now where people troll Ankita, his sisters , even Mahesh and his other friends and imaginary stories are being circulated in social media. Some self proclaimed family friend is instigating the people.

About Ankita i hope she keeps herself away from all these now and focus on her own life. Poor girl has been trolled just because she is posting her happy pics. People even trolled his father and sisters just because they were smiling in that pic from hospital. This is really sad