Let's be real

Would you guys really marry someone like Virat, given his confusing moral dilemma? Let's not bring his good looks here because I wanna strictly keep it to his personality. If you still see yourself spending the rest of your life with someone like Virat, then I would love to know your reasoning behind it.

Edit:

I only ask this question because this is not too far-fetched from reality, and people might like the character because he is the ML and has good looks, but we still have to keep our own values in check at times, and not digress into the fantasy of such a character. He has a questionable character and sadly, there are people like him in this world. And there are girls like Pakhi who take the words of such men as the ultimate truth, never move on, and suffer in their life.

I really want the makers to show suffering in Virat's life for his consequences that are relevant to real life. Not just that he has heartbreak, some drama, and BOOM now he is all forgiven for his actions and gets to live happily. There better be a track where he looks back at his actions and learns a lesson for taking people's feelings so lightly, and show remorse for his impulse decisions. he is the reason that Samrat, Pakhi, and Sai are in this unhappy relationship. Also, a track with character growth in Pakhi where she learns to value herself and not scale her wishes and happiness on the hands of others.

For example, look at this IG story below, viewers are really asking for Virakhi romance without understanding the distortion of moral values? I don't take these seriously usually, but many people do get influenced by them.

https://www.instagram.com/stories/aisharma812/2466311940521945874/?hl=en

I would ask him if he is capable of allowing his bhabhi to move on with his brother without holding her back with promises of never loving anybody but her. I would ask him if he thinks pakhi would be able to ever accept samrat as a husband if he keeps allowing her the right to interfere in his life using friendship as an excuse? I would ask him does he not think that by making promises of love to pakhi, he is encouraging pakhi to pursue him with than focus on her marriage with his brother?

Depending on how he responds to these questions, and whether he realises where he is going wrong in his stance with pakhi, I would marry him.

I know I may appear very very selfish, but I think in a situation like this, I would assess what I get out of this kind of marriage. If I was Sai, with very few avenues in my life and even lesser access to ways to fulfill my ambitions, I would chose to marry. He gets to do his duty, I get to find ways to fulfill my ambition. I have no expectations of love from him, and I were to fall in love with him or anyone else, it’s only then I would divorce him.

Originally posted by: columbia

I know I may appear very very selfish, but I think in a situation like this, I would assess what I get out of this kind of marriage. If I was Sai, with very few avenues in my life and even lesser access to ways to fulfill my ambitions, I would chose to marry. He gets to do his duty, I get to find ways to fulfill my ambition. I have no expectations of love from him, and I were to fall in love with him or anyone else, it’s only then I would divorce him.

Same

He wouldn't force me into anything.

Will stand by me always.

Is truthful about whatever he does, whatever that's right or wrong is another thing.

If I had choice and I knew him... I mean he told his and pakhi's story....

NO

I would not marry any person who is still attached to past.... and on top of that... this kind of family.... ??? A big NO

I would rather marry a simple man, even an educated farmer...

who is working and earning enough to feed his family ...

who is more advanced in thinking than his lifestyle, high morals , brave (not coward)... dare to face/accept any situation.. and very grateful...

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If I was in sai shoe... like no one in family left and virat is abided by promise... to take care of me... NOT to marry me !!!!!!!!

Again a big NO

- I would rather go and live in his outhouse (with mausi) or hostel - so no fear of jagtap and group... focus on my study with pension and may ask for help if can not meet the end... to return when I find the job....

In that situation government may approve loan for study... too.

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But this is itv -unfortunately these stories fetch them high trps !!!!!!!!!!

Watching this thread for the responses

I am WAY past the age (and intent) to answer this question😆 but there are guys who are wayyyy more "unworthy" than Virat in that sense. He is not unworthy at all if you see. He has a past he cannot get over quickly and comes from a regressive family. But his ideals are not questionable and that is a fact. There are stranger stories in real life. So, in comparison, he's much more eligible than a lot of people you'd find (sorry, I can't compare with any other character in TV because I am not watching any other shows. I only 'hear' dialogues by default from Aai Kuthe Kaay Karte, which is the marathi version of Anupama because my helps watch the show)

No offense to anyone but in real i know many men have EMA thats why EMA shows ruling on trp chart

Sad but this is the reality of our society

I felt like he is cheating on his brother 😆

Originally posted by: Dimagnehihai

No offense to anyone but in real i know many men have EMA thats why EMA shows ruling on trp chart

Sad but this is the reality of our society

Some of the reasons I think:

- If marriage is arranged: they don't know each other and family in that detail. ...Distance relatives fix them...

- if it is Love: they give 2 days infatuation or physical attraction... the name of love... they don't even know each other ... forget about family...

- still divorce & live-in is a BIG thing in our society ... (is not an excuse for being immoral)

so people have more EMA ... like the show anupama...

I wouldn’t marry him.. just too much drama fir me for real life.. I can’t handle emotional backboneless guys like him.. n I do believe that hostel life is important in a person’s life.. so I would have choose to stay in hostel