Can we cut Virat some slack?

I was reading all the posts on the forum yesterday and was actually dreading watching the episode. I did get around to watching it at night and this may be an unpopular opinion, but more than Sai, Virat was relatable yesterday. Pakhi, as always, was annoying but I really didn't get angry with Virat's outburst. Yes yes, he's supposed to be calm and composed and he handles tough situations with ease but handling a ritual at home and being told disturbing news about your career are two very different things.

Was he wrong in throwing away the food? Absolutely. But have we all not done something like this when we are very angry? I was with Sai when she said "ann ka apmaan". He shouldn't have done this but I'm sorry, Sai was really not helping matters. She was making no sense when she connected Virat and Sunny's phone call with Virat and Pakhi.

Chaukidar Pakhi came bhagti bhagti and mauka dekhkar chauka marofied. I doubt if she really wnated to be there for him and listen to him. Her intention was to degrade Sai and try and gain a few brownie points with Virat. She even added fuel to the aag with her whole "jis aag se bachana chahate the" dialogue.

The last scene of the episode with the pyaari cheez and farz was PUKEWORTHY but technically, he didn't let go of his PYAARI CHEEZ for FARZ. He let her go for Samrat so I'm not sure I understood.

My point is- Virat said and did some hurtful things but in all fairness, he was handed a blow and I am not sure I would've reacted differently. Moreover, he always bottles up his feelings so this sort of an outburst was due to happen.

Lastly, I think Neil did especially well yesterday. We've seen three versions of Virat so far. Calm, forlorn and badass ACP. The angry version is new. He was scared about his future and I think it translated on screen very well.

Neil was phenomenal👍🏼

Coming to the episode, i'll choose to cut SaiRat some slack.

Yes, Virat was relatable. Ok, I know Virat was wrong in throwing the food. But,we've all done that in anger, banging doors, saying i'll not eat😆 of course, Sai urging him to eat did not help. So, no matter how wrong it is, I understand that it was because he was in an emotionally weak moment.

Like you said, Sai was not helping matters. She jumped to conclusion too soon, was not able to decipher that Virat was stressed, and got angrier when Pakhi came. But think about it, she has only lived with Abba her entire life and she has no siblings. She probably was able to decipher Abba's mood and knew how to handle him. This led her to probably live with a single perspective. But, Virat is not her Abba. And her relationship with her father will obviously be different to that which she'll share with her husband. So, i only have to say that she'll learn.

If you see carefully, most of their fights post their marriage is due to a third person's interference. And I think Pakhi has already figured that out, that's why she's stuck near their door🤔 Those two are clueless and their relationship is so new, so Pakhi is causing all the havoc she can.

I took the pyaari cheez and farz thing as that part where he left the retreat for his job, without confessing to Pakhi.

I guess my sympathy lies with both. While Sai will save the day for Virat, she will be left with another emotional scar which will undoutedly make her more insecure about her position.

For the first time, i want no continuation to that scene.😒

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Neil was phenomenal👍🏼

Coming to the episode, i'll choose to cut SaiRat some slack.

Yes, Virat was relatable. Ok, I know Virat was wrong in throwing the food. But,we've all done that in anger, banging doors, saying i'll not eat😆 of course, Sai urging him to eat did not help. So, no matter how wrong it is, I understand that it was because he was in an emotionally weak moment.

Like you said, Sai was not helping matters. She jumped to conclusion too soon, was not able to decipher that Virat was stressed, and got angrier when Pakhi came. But think about it, she has only lived with Abba her entire life and she has no siblings. She probably was able to decipher Abba's mood and knew how to handle him. This led her to probably live with a single perspective. But, Virat is not her Abba. And her relationship with her father will obviously be different to that which she'll share with her husband. So, i only have to say that she'll learn.

If you see carefully, most of their fights post their marriage is due to a third person's interference. And I think Pakhi has already figured that out, that's why she's stuck near their door🤔

Yes, this! Pakhi coming bhaagi bhaagi just made matters worse. Up until then, Sai was only shouting at Virat for throwing the food (and rightfully so) but Pakhi's arrival took things in a different direction. Pakhi has figured out that Sai doesn't like her and she doesn't want to be mentored by her but Virat is a bhakt and she's going to use this to her advantage.

Those two are clueless and their relationship is so new, so Pakhi is causing all the havoc she can.

I took the pyaari cheez and farz thing as that part where he left the retreat for his job, without confessing to Pakhi.

I guess my sympathy lies with both. While Sai will save the day for Virat, she will be left with another emotional scar which will undoutedly make her more insecure about her position.

For the first time, i want no continuation to that scene.😒

Yes. Virat was right in his anger. He is frustrated. He is being pulled to different sides by everyone...Sai Pakhi mom dad aunt. Real life hota toh he would be crazy by now🤣. Ek taraf Sai won't stop fighting doosri taraf Pakhi ke taunts. Rest of the family adding fuel to the fire. Bechara. His life has really changed in a short span. Upar se work mein bhi trouble. Definitely can't blame him. People do react weirdly in anger.

But that said Virat is not entirely faultless. Virat is mature enough to know boundaries in relationships. Does he actually think it is okay for Pakhi to barge in every time ? Even without their history. When two people are fighting no matter who it is a third person barging in is unnecessary specially considering one of those two definitely hates it. Virat sees Sai's immaturity but not his and Pakhi's folly. If she was his pyaari cheez why did he let her marry Samrat ? Let's say she was already married to Samrat when he came back... then that dialogue would make sense. He could have stopped the wedding or atleast told his brother about it. If Samrat had a problem neither of them should have married her. What exactly did Virat think was going to happen ? Pakhi would move on overnight and Samrat would never know?

Due to the incidents from yesterday's episode both Sai & Virat have gained a good opportunity to learn some useful things which will be of great help in making their relationship more strong and healthy.

Originally posted by: I-Am-SherLOCKED

I was reading all the posts on the forum yesterday and was actually dreading watching the episode. I did get around to watching it at night and this may be an unpopular opinion, but more than Sai, Virat was relatable yesterday. Pakhi, as always, was annoying but I really didn't get angry with Virat's outburst. Yes yes, he's supposed to be calm and composed and he handles tough situations with ease but handling a ritual at home and being told disturbing news about your career are two very different things.

Was he wrong in throwing away the food? Absolutely. But have we all not done something like this when we are very angry? I was with Sai when she said "ann ka apmaan". He shouldn't have done this but I'm sorry, Sai was really not helping matters. She was making no sense when she connected Virat and Sunny's phone call with Virat and Pakhi.

Chaukidar Pakhi came bhagti bhagti and mauka dekhkar chauka marofied. I doubt if she really wnated to be there for him and listen to him. Her intention was to degrade Sai and try and gain a few brownie points with Virat. She even added fuel to the aag with her whole "jis aag se bachana chahate the" dialogue.

The last scene of the episode with the pyaari cheez and farz was PUKEWORTHY but technically, he didn't let go of his PYAARI CHEEZ for FARZ. He let her go for Samrat so I'm not sure I understood.

My point is- Virat said and did some hurtful things but in all fairness, he was handed a blow and I am not sure I would've reacted differently. Moreover, he always bottles up his feelings so this sort of an outburst was due to happen.

Lastly, I think Neil did especially well yesterday. We've seen three versions of Virat so far. Calm, forlorn and badass ACP. The angry version is new. He was scared about his future and I think it translated on screen very well.

I wrote a similar magnum opus yesterday 😆

All in all, agree with you 👍🏼

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Neil was phenomenal👍🏼

Coming to the episode, i'll choose to cut SaiRat some slack.

Yes, Virat was relatable. Ok, I know Virat was wrong in throwing the food. But,we've all done that in anger, banging doors, saying i'll not eat😆 of course, Sai urging him to eat did not help. So, no matter how wrong it is, I understand that it was because he was in an emotionally weak moment.

Like you said, Sai was not helping matters. She jumped to conclusion too soon, was not able to decipher that Virat was stressed, and got angrier when Pakhi came. But think about it, she has only lived with Abba her entire life and she has no siblings. She probably was able to decipher Abba's mood and knew how to handle him. This led her to probably live with a single perspective. But, Virat is not her Abba. And her relationship with her father will obviously be different to that which she'll share with her husband. So, i only have to say that she'll learn.

If you see carefully, most of their fights post their marriage is due to a third person's interference. And I think Pakhi has already figured that out, that's why she's stuck near their door🤔 Those two are clueless and their relationship is so new, so Pakhi is causing all the havoc she can.

I took the pyaari cheez and farz thing as that part where he left the retreat for his job, without confessing to Pakhi.

I guess my sympathy lies with both. While Sai will save the day for Virat, she will be left with another emotional scar which will undoutedly make her more insecure about her position.

For the first time, i want no continuation to that scene.😒

I think after PP leaves and Virat calms down

She will.ask you could have told me

You didn't ask me like Pakhi

And again dhishoom dhishoom she'll leave and he'll go to get her

Agreed...he was already pissed off at the dining table wala family drama to the extent that he didn't felt like eating anything there😕and then his job at stake wala issue and then finally the usual Pakhi-Sai tiff😕...bechare ka din hi kharab tha👎🏼

Yes!!! I totally agree!

Virat is human after all. He's been calm and reasonable during all of Sai's outbursts, and he's no saint. Even the most patient and calmest of people do get any and that's okay. I was really happy with the fact he actually lost it and let it all out. From here, it can only get better. Plus, I found Sai quite OTT yesterday. I do agree that he was wrong in pushing the plate out of her hands, but, Virat seldom gets angry, so she should have been the docile one at that situation.

I know that Pakhi interfering made her angrier, but its a given that Pakhi always interferes. Sai should have just left the room, or not blown it up in the first place. I really don't know if the CVs are showing Sai's outburst with everything related to Pakhi because she's jealous or something. I don't want Sai to do all this because of jealousy. There is absolutely no hint that she's actually starting to harbour feelings for Virat.

My only problem with Virat was when he said that Sabse pyaari cheez dialogue. It was not his farz or this majboori wali shaadi that led him away from Pakhi. It was all his and Pakhi's fault. Apart from that Virat's outburst was completely justified.

Virat has silently taken so many unfair accusations Sai threw at him from since the time he moved to GC. And he cannot be understanding all the time. His entire career is at stake and anyone would react badly to it. And at that point of time, unfortunately for Sai and fortunately for Pakhi, Virat found a voice of reason in Pakhi. If at least Sai had taken the time to ask "Kya hua Virat sir?" maybe he would have opened up to her.

And yeah, Neil Bhatt, take a bow man!! He just lived the character in this scene👏

Completely agree!!

Tbh I didn't find Virat wrong. Yes he shouldn't have thrown the food but he wasnt in that calm state of mind to think that. Moreover in anger and frustration we sometimes do things that we otherwise cannot even imagine doing. Sometimes people just need to be left alone rather than being talked to constantly. And here his career is at stake so obviously he is shaken up.

And honestly I found both Pakhi and Sai annoying yesterday. Sai should have left him alone when he said he doesn't want to eat. He looked tensed, she should have just given him some time but she kept talking, even after he threw food she kept on shouting and even brought Pakhi in the discussion unnecessarily. Leave Virat, I was feeling like girl just stay silent for sometime.

And Pakhi entering the room was annoying at another level. She really did mauke pe chauka🤢 who enters someone else's room like that? Can't Sairat have their share of arguments without her interfering and lecturing Sai🤢 Here I do feel for Sai. She can't even fight it out with Virat on her own and Pakhi comes running. Anyone would get irritated. And this Pakhi doesn't leave a single chance to degrade Sai🤢

Telling Virat yeh toh chillana band nahi karegi tum toh karo, yeh toh tumhari problem nahi samajh sakti par tum mukhse toh share kar sakte ho na🤢

Even during breakfast I found it really mean of her to prepare bread butter for everyone when she knew Sai was preparing brekfast. She could have just told everyone to wait or informed Sai that everyone was waiting but no this girl is too desparate to earn brownie points from everyone and degrade Sai. She even didn't leave Ashwini- aap jab tak sikhati aur ye khana banati, sabki bhook hi mar jati🤢 its so rude, who talks like that?

And I too didn't understand the pyaari cheez reference what did he even mean by that? He didn't leave Pakhi for Sai or his farz