What will sai do now?

Today we got to see glimpses of a usual strong and independent sherni sai whilst brushing off karishma's advice and offers. She said that she will find her own raaste in the house etc. So what will sai's conduct be in the house from now on given her personality, and given the type of people the elders of chavan family are like? How will she approach their behaviour with her? I mean even when she respectfully tried to defend usha maa and her aaba, she was called disrespectful and all that?

May be take up a job like giving tuitions to kid?

Originally posted by: sammy17

Today we got to see glimpses of a usual strong and independent sherni sai whilst brushing off karishma's advice and offers. She said that she will find her own raaste in the house etc. So what will sai's conduct be in the house from now on given her personality, and given the type of people the elders of chavan family are like? How will she approach their behaviour with her? I mean even when she respectfully tried to defend usha maa and her aaba, she was called disrespectful and all that?

We know for a fact that she won't be a typical bahu and swallow her pride and endure all the verbal attacks that will come towards her. Since it was her first meet with the family, she held it in because she somewhat expected the situation would be like this because after all, it was a sudden marriage and a big shock for the family. However, I don't think she would be this lenient if they continue to insult Usha or her father like this. As we already saw, when the insult was towards her, she stayed quiet, but when it came to Usha, she protested politely. Later, when she was falsely accused by mast mast kaku, she spoke up because kaku's accusation was questioning her father's honor and dignity. Moreover, she now has Ashwini's support, so it won't be a battle of just her and the rest of the family. There is someone who will be by her side, and that is what she needs to warm up to others. One thing I can say that if they dare to insult her father in any way, she will not let them have it and put them in their place. No matter what, a woman can bare all insults if it is directed towards her, but a daughter can not stay silent.

Originally posted by: fkhr30

May be take up a job like giving tuitions to kid?

Can you have a side job while studying medicine in India? I would love to know how medical school works in India. I was very confused at first when she was going to medical school right after high school without doing an undergrad. Then did some research and found out that it's the norm there. Also, I heard that you can not be married if you are attending medical school. Is it true?

Originally posted by: by_stander

We know for a fact that she won't be a typical bahu and swallow her pride and endure all the verbal attacks that will come towards her. Since it was her first meet with the family, she held it in because she somewhat expected the situation would be like this because after all, it was a sudden marriage and a big shock for the family. However, I don't think she would be this lenient if they continue to insult Usha or her father like this. As we already saw, when the insult was towards her, she stayed quiet, but when it came to Usha, she protested politely. Later, when she was falsely accused by mast mast kaku, she spoke up because kaku's accusation was questioning her father's honor and dignity. Moreover, she now has Ashwini's support, so it won't be a battle of just her and the rest of the family. There is someone who will be by her side, and that is what she needs to warm up to others. One thing I can say that if they dare to insult her father in any way, she will not let them have it and put them in their place. No matter what, a woman can bare all insults if it is directed towards her, but a daughter can not stay silent.

And I really can't wait to see when sai gives it back to them for talking crap about her father and upbringing. Much better than their upbringing that encourages bhabhi-devar EMA in name of dosti and vahini-worshipping.

Originally posted by: by_stander

Can you have a side job while studying medicine in India? I would love to know how medical school works in India. I was very confused at first when she was going to medical school right after high school without doing an undergrad. Then did some research and found out that it's the norm there. Also, I heard that you can not be married if you are attending medical school. Is it true?

If that is true then they will most likely ignore it in the show. Also if that is true then it makes no sense and is pretty discriminatory imo

To stay in this house except for Ashwini Shivani and deviyanee she must be very very cold with everyone more respect she will give more they will insult her...

She must be friend with Karishma still keeping in her limit....

With Vaada also she needs not have any conversations only when needed otherwise what is there between them to be discussed.

She needs to start studying and dream about her bright future as a doctor...

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

To stay in this house except for Ashwini Shivani and deviyanee she must be very very cold with everyone more respect she will give more they will insult her...

She must be friend with Karishma still keeping in her limit....

With Vaada also she needs not have any conversations only when needed otherwise what is there between them to be discussed.

She needs to start studying and dream about her bright future as a doctor...

Yeah because I'm extremely worried that they aren't going to reduce sai into typical bahus who take the abuse and cry in the name of respecting elders and in-laws. I want her to retort back with her intelligence and shock them with her strong persona in a classy way like I know she can. I can't see myself enjoying this show if they weaken the sai I love. She needs to speak and she needs to say things that will shut all their mouths and shock them at how strong-headed, brave and intelligent she is.... I don't want typical just doing good things for family to win their hearts kind of bakwaas else I might as well watch sasual simar ka or kundali bhagya type shows only.

Originally posted by: by_stander

Can you have a side job while studying medicine in India? I would love to know how medical school works in India. I was very confused at first when she was going to medical school right after high school without doing an undergrad. Then did some research and found out that it's the norm there. Also, I heard that you can not be married if you are attending medical school. Is it true?

Not true. Anyone can get admitted to medical school, irrespective of marital status. In fact you can seat for NEET irrespective of such things.

But since Medical line or m.b.b.s course is considered universally as the toughest degree education wise , it's extremely difficult to juggle marriage and m.b.b.s both at the same time. So , people wait till at least internship.

A lot of my female friends got married during our internship. Some got married after final proff and before start of internship.