Chicha is such a cry baby - Page 6

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Not judging anyone's story here. everyone has gone through with their personal life. being a human being i have full empathy towards everyone .. cos we dont know how much one face in their life. like sadist Biggboss i will never compare kiska story jeyada effect kia. cos har kisika story mein unke past life judaa huaa hain jo har kisikoi kal trigger kia .so i will never try to call them fake, cos mein khud bhi ek insaan hoon. they may play game , they may celeb.. but like am insaan unn logo kay jindagi mein bohot tough time ayee jo hum screen pe beithe shahed soch nei payungi.. so in this sensitive epi,personally i dont want to judge here any one's story.

aur as per crying, iss ghar mein haar koi royee hain .. har koi ..aisa koi nei jo abhitak nei royee.. eijaz so far 4-5 times royaa hain iss show mein.. aeise kayi sare contestant hain jo usse bhi jeyaada royeee hain. kher as this is eijaz saree galti usike hain..

Eijaz iss brave.There are so many boys who had gone through this but they can't say. Because they will be judged in our society . People will ask questions like How can a boy get molested ? So I think it's high time we should accept that boys can also be sexually abused. and child abuse and molestation i think a lot of people can relate in their entire life. eijaz is not faking..if you searched his past IVS about relationships he, a lot of time mentioned he had a traumatic childhood for which he never could stick on relationship out of scare n insecurity.

https://jionews.com/videos/entertainment/Pinkvilla/Eijaz-Khans-UNTOLD-STORY-I-screwed-my-life-by-projecting-my-childhood-trauma-on-my-partners-BB-14/view-all/3/3a902b7623f143798b79994f1c0927e3

n koi bhi dekke bol sakte hain how much he stored things inside himself. i am so proud that he expressed him self, showed a courage to give a message to those who still hide this from their family.. and eijaz abhitak uss chis pe effected hain. he dint have strong family .A kid without his mother .. broken family , he has sister jo itne saal baad jan paya.. no family help, uparse molestation jaise incident .. later so many lashes .. i will say eijaz sacchi mein bohoti strong person , a self made celeb . yah he has flaws , he has done so many mistakes .. but he still is fighting with his life which is commendable . not saying as i am his admirer, but being a humane being i really appreciate his strength. hope and pray he will get his deserving happiness after BB .

aur rahi baat touch ki kavita jindagi bhar hi judgmental rahegi, . i like jas's explanation ek hain u already know you are going to be touched ..aur ek hain unknowingly touch. n yeah trauma kabhi bhi kisi bhi halat pe aa sakte hain . jaruri nei hamesha ek hi tarike se you will react with everyone.. .Touching someone with consent Touching someone without consent, there is a biggest different in bet . As per pavitra se hug karna kiss karna .. it was their mutual bond.. he trusted pavitra that is why he allowed her. how come this could be comparable with his past issue ? unfortunately people like kavita can't understand the differences. eijaz's incident giving a biggest moral message . same kavita incident , Jas incident as well .. and rest contestants as well as. i just hope and pray eijaz would move on n could start a fresh after BB.

Thoda bold kam kar dete to achha rehta.

Every person has their own way to deal with trauma. Both Kavita and Ejaz went through the same thing and both had different reactions even when recalling the incident. Ejaz is a more sensitive person.

I was actually surprised that the HMs didn't talk about Jas's confession. For me, it was actually very heartbreaking. Last season, too, Rashami's confession of attempt to suicide was very tragic, but it wasn't talked about.

Anyway, the point is: everyone deals with their trauma and deep secrets in their own way. For some people, the incident of the past just became that -- a thing in the past. While some, continue to think about it every day.

Originally posted by: DaddyMarvel

Thoda bold kam kar dete to achha rehta.

sorry cant help u here. cos this is my ultimate typing style in IF since beginning which will be forever like this till i will be here . Thank you .

Originally posted by: opsora2090

sorry cant help u here. cos this is my ultimate typing style in IF since beginning which will be forever like this till i will be here . Thank you .

You don’t have to help me. You need to help yourself, dear.

Too much of a bold text is a pain to read, unless or otherwise you’re implying that you want your posts ti be painful for readers. 😆

Originally posted by: DaddyMarvel

You don’t have to help me. You need to help yourself, dear.

Too much of a bold text is a pain to read, unless or otherwise you’re implying that you want your posts ti be painful for readers. 😆

last reply to u on this topic. There is an option to ignore . if it is painful for you , i kindly req u , pls ignore my Bold posts. cos i'm not going to change this. n this thread is about eijaz not about me or my bold posts, so lets stick on the main topic . thank you

Originally posted by: opsora2090

last reply to u on this topic. There is an option to ignore . if it is painful for you , i kindly req u , pls ignore my Bold posts. cos i'm not going to change this. n this thread is about eijaz not about me or my bold posts, so lets stick on the main topic . thank you

Oho, aap to bura maan gayeen. Itne edge pe na raha karein please.

😆

If im not mistake. eijaz did mention about his childhood on Iqbals show as well. Ultimately, it was the contestants decision and they found his most affecting. We need to stop blaming Eijaz for crying and being too sensitive.

I feel Eijaz is the easy target and every one on this forum wants to take a jab at him but not one person has a good enough reason to hate him. He’s likely the only one who doesn’t have much of a fanclub hence other loyal fans always jump

On this guy! Also, ghaltiyan ghar mein SAB ne ki hai not just him!

Originally posted by: born-leader

Every person has their own way to deal with trauma. Both Kavita and Ejaz went through the same thing and both had different reactions even when recalling the incident. Ejaz is a more sensitive person.

I was actually surprised that the HMs didn't talk about Jas's confession. For me, it was actually very heartbreaking. Last season, too, Rashami's confession of attempt to suicide was very tragic, but it wasn't talked about.

Anyway, the point is: everyone deals with their trauma and deep secrets in their own way. For some people, the incident of the past just became that -- a thing in the past. While some, continue to think about it every day.

I think why eijaz was more sensitive about this was because already he was going through alot as a child! Then this happened to him... Kavita's incident happened once and she said she started shouting so her teacher couldn't do anything! More power to her for that But Eijaz I suppose was a very fragile vulnerable child he didn't tell anyone about it except his therapist not even his immediate family like kavita did... So I don't know if he was able to protect himself from that monster or not the way kavita did... I don't know what aly said "I think Eijaz bhai wala incident repetitive nature ka tha" I couldn't read Eijaz's face on that sentence....! But I think aly might be right.

Even if that's not the case Eijaz has gone through alotttt so it's natural that such a broken person would feel more about the very same thing happened to other person just once.

Some scars may not pain anymore but they'll always be "there" and by being there will constantly remind you of the incident.

Jasmine's was painful too... Taking your life is not easy.... Life is everything. Life is "second chances" at success... Life is "get up and try again".

I hope everyone heals and find something that makes them feel alive

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Not judging anyone's story here. everyone has gone through with their personal life. being a human being i have full empathy towards everyone .. cos we dont know how much one face in their life. like sadist Biggboss i will never compare kiska story jeyada effect kia. cos har kisika story mein unke past life judaa huaa hain jo har kisikoi kal trigger kia .so i will never try to call them fake, cos mein khud bhi ek insaan hoon. they may play game , they may celeb.. but like am insaan unn logo kay jindagi mein bohot tough time ayee jo hum screen pe beithe shahed soch nei payungi.. so in this sensitive epi,personally i dont want to judge here any one's story.

aur as per crying, iss ghar mein haar koi royee hain .. har koi ..aisa koi nei jo abhitak nei royee.. eijaz so far 4-5 times royaa hain iss show mein.. aeise kayi sare contestant hain jo usse bhi jeyaada royeee hain. kher as this is eijaz saree galti usike hain..

Eijaz iss brave.There are so many boys who had gone through this but they can't say. Because they will be judged in our society . People will ask questions like How can a boy get molested ? So I think it's high time we should accept that boys can also be sexually abused. and child abuse and molestation i think a lot of people can relate in their entire life. eijaz is not faking..if you searched his past IVS about relationships he, a lot of time mentioned he had a traumatic childhood for which he never could stick on relationship out of scare n insecurity.

https://jionews.com/videos/entertainment/Pinkvilla/Eijaz-Khans-UNTOLD-STORY-I-screwed-my-life-by-projecting-my-childhood-trauma-on-my-partners-BB-14/view-all/3/3a902b7623f143798b79994f1c0927e3

n koi bhi dekke bol sakte hain how much he stored things inside himself. i am so proud that he expressed him self, showed a courage to give a message to those who still hide this from their family.. and eijaz abhitak uss chis pe effected hain. he dint have strong family .A kid without his mother .. broken family , he has sister jo itne saal baad jan paya.. no family help, uparse molestation jaise incident .. later so many lashes .. i will say eijaz sacchi mein bohoti strong person , a self made celeb . yah he has flaws , he has done so many mistakes .. but he still is fighting with his life which is commendable . not saying as i am his admirer, but being a humane being i really appreciate his strength. hope and pray he will get his deserving happiness after BB .

aur rahi baat touch ki kavita jindagi bhar hi judgmental rahegi, . i like jas's explanation ek hain u already know you are going to be touched ..aur ek hain unknowingly touch. n yeah trauma kabhi bhi kisi bhi halat pe aa sakte hain . jaruri nei hamesha ek hi tarike se you will react with everyone.. .Touching someone with consent Touching someone without consent, there is a biggest different in bet . As per pavitra se hug karna kiss karna .. it was their mutual bond.. he trusted pavitra that is why he allowed her. how come this could be comparable with his past issue ? unfortunately people like kavita can't understand the differences. eijaz's incident giving a biggest moral message . same kavita incident , Jas incident as well .. and rest contestants as well as. i just hope and pray eijaz would move on n could start a fresh after BB.

Thank you so much Opsora for the link!!! I watched it for the first time. It was such a pleasure!! Thanks once again!!!

Originally posted by: Voldemort033

I think why eijaz was more sensitive about this was because already he was going through alot as a child! Then this happened to him... Kavita's incident happened once and she said she started shouting so her teacher couldn't do anything! More power to her for that But Eijaz I suppose was a very fragile vulnerable child he didn't tell anyone about it except his therapist not even his immediate family like kavita did... So I don't know if he was able to protect himself from that monster or not the way kavita did... I don't know what aly said "I think Eijaz bhai wala incident repetitive nature ka tha" I couldn't read Eijaz's face on that sentence....! But I think aly might be right.

Even if that's not the case Eijaz has gone through alotttt so it's natural that such a broken person would feel more about the very same thing happened to other person just once.

Some scars may not pain anymore but they'll always be "there" and by being there will constantly remind you of the incident.

Jasmine's was painful too... Taking your life is not easy.... Life is everything. Life is "second chances" at success... Life is "get up and try again".

I hope everyone heals and find something that makes them feel alive

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