Originally posted by: mamta.vineet
Ek baat batao, i get that Rahul and his words and action may have been a trigger, i even get the meltdown that happened because of that trigger, but aren't these people behaving as if Rahul isn't just the teigger but the actual perpetrator? That he is the one who has caused the traumatic experience of the past?
I really think, Jasmin knows that she overstepped, and now she has reached a point where she honestly believes she is right OR she just doesnt know how to backtrack anymore, a very common thing which happens with most of us. And this is where we need friwnds who can pull us back, Rubina failed here. She and abhinav could have calmed her down. 
Absolutely agree. It is very human when you absolutely lose yourself you feel embarassed to backtrack and you believe your own perception. Rubina is not a friend to Jasmine, that much is clear. If you rewatch that episode, she had a weird smile on her face, she was egging Jasmine on to keep going.
The moment Jasmine threw water on Rahul, she should have been reprimanded. No questions asked. To defend this humiliating act there is no excuse and that is why Rubina was giving some lameass explaination.
I don't deny that it is possible that seriously Jasmine was triggered, but as a good friend, it is your duty to take the person away to a quiet area and tell them later that sorry you were absolutely wrong. 
Your perception can ruin someone's life and work. No joke.