Yeh Hain Chahatein WRITTEN UPDATES AND DAILY DISCUSSIONS THREAD # 4 - Page 67

Originally posted by: foresight

she understands....but still does what she wants to blindly.....

Originally posted by: preeti_25

@BOLD- Nice observation didn't noticed that

Great observation indeed! I hadn’t noticed it either and rewatched it- I love little things like that by writers 👏🏽

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Then that means no respect for her hubby otherwise she should have avoided Yuvraaj and why she did not mention his name. She did not tell them all that Yuvraaj deleted the footage of the CCTV CAMERA.

she gets influenced by Yuvraj a lot and easily at that, So if he says he will back out and make it like she is lying about this...she will believe him just as she took his word when he said he didn’t kill mm...and this after she herself accused him of killing mm.

so it is more that she doesn’t respect herself or prioritise herself only when it comes to Yuvraj, he has so far touch her in way that made her uncomfortable l(sexual harassment), maligned her, she knows he is with Rahul in this plot that messed up her and Rudra life....but each time he is able to convince her. This time it was to help her family. And she for her family will agree....which is fine....but Now with mm murder suspect, god only knows.

her father also gets pissed off with this. But he is also the same, he hasn’t told his wife of Yuvraj ....so she (vasu) is a fan of Yuvraj too...and this after Yuvraj made it appear he was having affair with pree in front of gps, vasu and entire k family.

OFF TOPIC.

U need not worry for me. I like to be alone

is rude??

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

OFF TOPIC.

U need not worry for me. I like to be alone

is rude??

Is this related to the episode YHC

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

OFF TOPIC.

U need not worry for me. I like to be alone

is rude??

not usually. It could come across as sarcastic if it has come at the end if bad argument.

Since we kind of got what we wanted out of the bathroom scene, I'm really hoping we get positive progression from this upcoming bedroom scene as well. There is NO need for the MU to worsen. Again, I hope Pree takes the mature lead in this upcoming convo with Ru.

I've been thinking about this a lot and the general consensus is that Pree is an idiot for continuously only divulging part of the truth in various instances vs the complete story of what happened. She is also frustrating because she doesn't shut down Yuvi's ridiculous advances.

BUT, Ru needs to back off.

We all get why he's so territorial and it's endearing to a degree. But the distrust and possessiveness creeping into the relationship is ridiculous. He cares less about the 'betrayal' and his career being ruined and more about the possible relationship between Pree and Yuvi. But in that regard, what has he really done to get to know Pree?? What does he know about her past relationship with Yuvi and whether she ever loved him or wants to go back to him? It's so unfair of him to only care about his side of the equation and not her's. He needs to be rational and understand that he has simply developed a very strong crush on her and likes the little unit they've created for themselves. He likes feeling secure and having a family. But does he truly love her? Has he ever wondered if he provides all that to her? Does he care?

We all know Rajeev was ruthlessly murdered. But as far as he knows, it was an accident. Who goes that mental over an accident? Deal with your grief and move on. But no, he's so impulsive and hell-bent on extracting revenge that he went so far as pretending he's the groom at her wedding to Yuvi! When they started to live together, he was a jackass to her and to Saraansh [cleaning the house scene eg]. When he doesn't get what he wants, he's still a jackass to her and to Saraansh [violence in recent days + being a majorly crappy role model for Saraansh].

For me, this track should be about Pree allowing herself to feel ROMANTIC feelings for Ru. She needs to understand that there is a reason she's attracted to him that goes beyond him stepping up to be Saraansh's father and being her husband technically. For me, I want her to allow herself to feel raw passion that she's never felt before or thought was even possible for her. I want her to realize that this is what being 'in love' feels like and that she never experienced it before and revel in the feeling vs chalking everything up to geeky notions of duty and loyalty.

And with respect to Ru, I really want for him to come out on the other side of this track as a better man and not a petulant child who sulks or attacks every time his favourite toy gets taken away. He stuck up for Pree lots and stepped up big time but if you think about it - it usually also always involved Saraansh. Now when he had the chance to be there for her, and only her, - she's right - he abandoned her. He seriously needs to delve into his own feelings. It is not enough to have the mad hots for her, miss having her around to have cutesy interactions with her, or to treat her like an object you're going to be crazy possessive over.

I liked that time when he asked Pree to answer Yuvi's call in front of him but when he went on his rant, he stopped himself from saying who is Yuvi to be between us. He recognized that it was possibly him who was the 3rd wheel and he awkwardly backed off. That was so normal! I love the time in the bedroom when he was about to tell her how he feels and added that he didn't want her to react but to take her time because he had taken his. That was so respectful!

But since then, ever since he got an inkling that Pree may also like him in return, he has gotten more possessive. He needs to go back to the origin of their relationship - a forced marriage for Saraansh/revenge/whatever you want to call it and really think long and hard about it! They've been together for less than 6 months and to the surprise of both of them, have an amazing connection. But he needs to own the ass he was and he should continue to honour her journey while he's on his own in this relationship he forced both of them into.

Why doesn't anyone react the way they should on this show!? Like even her parents - they just stare in disbelief all the time lol If someone duped my kid at his/her wedding, holy crap I'd beat the living daylights out of that person 😂

Anyways, I'm changing my stance on Pree. If she wants to keep Yuvi's number in her contact list and keep answering his calls - all the power to her!!! I think it's nuts she wants to still maintain a relationship with a selfish jerk such as Yuvi and someone who messed with her perfect little utopic world, but if that's what she wants to do until she comes to grips with her own feelings - go. Do whatever it takes to be you. I don't think she should adjust her actions/reactions just to appease her immature husband's insecurities. Those could be addressed by him simply taking the time to talk to her and trying to understand her vs. just being in his own googly-eyed Lala land or in his violent revenge land depending on what day of the week it is. He's tried to control her in different ways from day 1 of their marriage. He seriously needs to stop.

Originally posted by: Yhcfan1

Since we kind of got what we wanted out of the bathroom scene, I'm really hoping we get positive progression from this upcoming bedroom scene as well. There is NO need for the MU to worsen. Again, I hope Pree takes the mature lead in this upcoming convo with Ru.

I've been thinking about this a lot and the general consensus is that Pree is an idiot for continuously only divulging part of the truth in various instances vs the complete story of what happened. She is also frustrating because she doesn't shut down Yuvi's ridiculous advances.

BUT, Ru needs to back off.

We all get why he's so territorial and it's endearing to a degree. But the distrust and possessiveness creeping into the relationship is ridiculous. He cares less about the 'betrayal' and his career being ruined and more about the possible relationship between Pree and Yuvi. But in that regard, what has he really done to get to know Pree?? What does he know about her past relationship with Yuvi and whether she ever loved him or wants to go back to him? It's so unfair of him to only care about his side of the equation and not her's. He needs to be rational and understand that he has simply developed a very strong crush on her and likes the little unit they've created for themselves. He likes feeling secure and having a family. But does he truly love her? Has he ever wondered if he provides all that to her? Does he care?

We all know Rajeev was ruthlessly murdered. But as far as he knows, it was an accident. Who goes that mental over an accident? Deal with your grief and move on. But no, he's so impulsive and hell-bent on extracting revenge that he went so far as pretending he's the groom at her wedding to Yuvi! When they started to live together, he was a jackass to her and to Saraansh [cleaning the house scene eg]. When he doesn't get what he wants, he's still a jackass to her and to Saraansh [violence in recent days + being a majorly crappy role model for Saraansh].

For me, this track should be about Pree allowing herself to feel ROMANTIC feelings for Ru. She needs to understand that there is a reason she's attracted to him that goes beyond him stepping up to be Saraansh's father and being her husband technically. For me, I want her to allow herself to feel raw passion that she's never felt before or thought was even possible for her. I want her to realize that this is what being 'in love' feels like and that she never experienced it before and revel in the feeling vs chalking everything up to geeky notions of duty and loyalty.

And with respect to Ru, I really want for him to come out on the other side of this track as a better man and not a petulant child who sulks or attacks every time his favourite toy gets taken away. He stuck up for Pree lots and stepped up big time but if you think about it - it usually also always involved Saraansh. Now when he had the chance to be there for her, and only her, - she's right - he abandoned her. He seriously needs to delve into his own feelings. It is not enough to have the mad hots for her, miss having her around to have cutesy interactions with her, or to treat her like an object you're going to be crazy possessive over.

I liked that time when he asked Pree to answer Yuvi's call in front of him but when he went on his rant, he stopped himself from saying who is Yuvi to be between us. He recognized that it was possibly him who was the 3rd wheel and he awkwardly backed off. That was so normal! I love the time in the bedroom when he was about to tell her how he feels and added that he didn't want her to react but to take her time because he had taken his. That was so respectful!

But since then, ever since he got an inkling that Pree may also like him in return, he has gotten more possessive. He needs to go back to the origin of their relationship - a forced marriage for Saraansh/revenge/whatever you want to call it and really think long and hard about it! They've been together for less than 6 months and to the surprise of both of them, have an amazing connection. But he needs to own the ass he was and he should continue to honour her journey while he's on his own in this relationship he forced both of them into.

Why doesn't anyone react the way they should on this show!? Like even her parents - they just stare in disbelief all the time lol If someone duped my kid at his/her wedding, holy crap I'd beat the living daylights out of that person 😂

Anyways, I'm changing my stance on Pree. If she wants to keep Yuvi's number in her contact list and keep answering his calls - all the power to her!!! I think it's nuts she wants to still maintain a relationship with a selfish jerk such as Yuvi and someone who messed with her perfect little utopic world, but if that's what she wants to do until she comes to grips with her own feelings - go. Do whatever it takes to be you. I don't think she should adjust her actions/reactions just to appease her immature husband's insecurities. Those could be addressed by him simply taking the time to talk to her and trying to understand her vs. just being in his own googly-eyed Lala land or in his violent revenge land depending on what day of the week it is. He's tried to control her in different ways from day 1 of their marriage. He seriously needs to stop.

Hey love what your written... 👍🏼

And I agree just like rudra took time to realise his love and that too buntybmade him realise that this care and alwYs wanting to see her is love and nothing else so literally he himself did t realise he knew he had feelings for her but didnt realise it was love cuz for him it was 1st time until someone told him that dumbo your in love .... same with preesha no 1 is there rght nw to make her realise that her actually feeling is love that she has rudra and it will take time to develop those feelings cuz she can feel rudra going away from her but it will come gradually or unless someone makes her understand that what she us feeling for rudra is just not care but its love she just needs someone to push her a bit like bunty did with rudra then I guess she will change her whole equation with yuvraj 😊

Lol don't want to comment on today's episode was it was on-loop episode with same repetitive things being shown on n on n on:

1. Preesha being dumb

2. Rudra being jealous, insecure & drunk (precap)

3. Pillai bin kuch kiye mazze le raha hai

Only good thing was PreeJa (which was good scene to see after the dumb convo between Preesha & vasu regarding Neerja...like helloo...poor girl who did so much for you is in coma & all you're thinking of is that video?)

And in the future as well the above three points will be on loop. Only interesting thing is going to be the Sharda mystery/story which will be in focus now.

What an episode - Pree continues to break the limits of stupidity! 😆

With the way Pree's hitting it out these days, the video truth probably won't be enough anymore. That video truth can only prove she didn't want to destroy Ru, which she kinda already did by saving him from the murder allegation.

Now the problem might be that Ru, aided amply by Pree's habit of hiding truths, will really start believing that Pree loves Yuvi and he came in between them