BIGG BOSS TAMIL Season 4 discussion - week 3 - Thread 2 - Page 23

Originally posted by: mirun

This is such a dangerous statement .

Hmmm what is dangerous about it ? Are u married ? Do u have kids ? Assuming u have , you are okay with your kids calling u without respect or if u r not married will you call an elder person without respect if he stepped on you by mistake ?

Originally posted by: mirun

Very much disappointed with KH handling suresh-sanam issue . Suresh is being protected . Othigai/rehearsal is such a wrong word to use in this situation . It gives wrong connotations to sanam’s accusation . Physical violence by on one adult against another one is wrong period . Repercussions faced by abuser is up to receiver’s mindset . Nope Sanam didn’t rehearse . If that is the case VTV would have shown kurumpadam. Secondly suresh remarks was very bad . No men in my family uses words like vakundhuduven . I won’t support suresh anymore since he has blessings of channel to do whatever he wants to generate trp . If VTV could show suresh crying why do they have to edit Sanam apologizing . Because they don’t want to show suresh accepting his fault . KH cannot call out on his old friend in this case then I have no hope of him being a politician . KH indirectly did victim shaming .

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Completely agree with your entire post, and especially the bolded parts. My read on this is channel/KH got pressure from SriPriya/other MNM members for showing Suresh being mistreated, and want Sanam to be eliminated somehow. Intha MNM quota ulla vanthaaley ithu thaan prichanai.

So based on the episode, Suresh disclosed to others that he cried in the confession room. But when the incident happened he was laughing in the room and was unapologetic for his behaviour during his interaction with Bala, until Archana interfered. Nalla naarathar vellai panraar, and Kamal has given his approval for that too.

Originally posted by: mirun

This is wrong comparison . Justifying abuse using age is unfair to totally wrong . Respect needs to be earned .

seriously you are calling this Suresh incident Abuse and physical violence? He was just playing with a stick made by foam material (light studio property like KH said) with Nisha and Ramya in the game spirit . It by mistake hit sanam as she was behind the cloth screen . How can this incident will become physical violence or abuse ? I am confused.

Even Suresh and Sanam moved on from this incident. People’s opinion might differ based on their personality and upbringing. So I will not continue posting in this topic even if someone quote me.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Even Suresh and Sanam moved on from this incident. People’s opinion might differ based on their personality and upbringing. So I will not continue posting in this topic even if someone quote me.

You are more than welcome not to participate but generalizing that the conclusion is based on above characteristics is wrong. It is based on knowledge gathered over many years of reading and witnessing how as human beings we are evolving. Again victim shaming for convenience. I don't want my kids to respect me for my age but only for my character and actions. This is blind belief that someone aged has to be respected .I don't subscribe to these parenting styes.

As society we need to evolve from this thinking that since someone has stayed longer in this earth doesn't mean they have some special power . They just had a chance to come before you. Don't mix age with relationships like parents and kids. BB house is not family. It is competition. If you want some reservations for age then that is discrimination against young people.

Originally posted by: mirun

You are more than welcome not to participate but generalizing that the conclusion is based on above characteristics is wrong. It is based on knowledge gathered over many years of reading and witnessing how as human beings we are evolving. Again victim shaming for convenience. I don't want my kids to respect me for my age but only for my character and actions. This is blind belief that someone aged has to be respected .I don't subscribe to these parenting styes.

I said I won’t comment but don’t want to end this conversion with a bad taste in the mouth.

I agree with what you are saying , it looks really nice when reading. But call me old fashioned, I will still treat my parents/grand parents or any elder people with respect even if they do silly things. To err is human , I won’t lose my respect for them if they do mistakes.

Still abuse and physical violence are big words , of course those kind of people don’t have my respect either . So agree to disagree and will move on 👍🏼. No hard feelings 😊.

No problem HoneArjun that is what makes the forum interesting.

On a lighter note who is Bala's tailior ? He looks like bulked version of young kamal. I want to know more details about cycle chain in his neck. Bala was looking very confident today and now with him being saved he will show more attitude. For some reason Suresh wasn't happy when Bala got saved.

Does Shivani knows she gets very few seconds coverage for her dance in separate location ?

Actually I thought she will do good steps but romba average dancing skill.

DId someone tell Anitha first ninnu aadina special parisu ?

She has to be one inch before every one in morning dance. What was her reaction when Shivani nominated her ? I feel Anitha will calm down this week. Archukku thidir Anitha paasam ethanaala ?

Originally posted by: mirun

No problem HoneArjun that is what makes the forum interesting.

On a lighter note who is Bala's tailior ? He looks like bulked version of young kamal. I want to know more details about cycle chain in his neck. Bala was looking very confident today and now with him being saved he will show more attitude. For some reason Suresh wasn't happy when Bala got saved.

Last 2 seasons, people were complaining girls were dressing bad and exposing. This season they r going to complain abt bala’s dressing and exposing his body 😆.

There is a cold war going on between Bala and Suresh . Suresh is upset Bala called out on him during Sanam incident. He is hurt as he felt close to Bala and even he couldn’t understand. Bala thought Suresh called Sanam as Pei (he said pei/Araki in the game sense). Without realizing it , Bala shouted at him. They weren’t talking for the past 2 days. Bala realized and trying to make peace but Suresh is acting weird now . May be he is mad that bala is talking nice to Sanam to irritate him.
I really liked the relationship between them , now they r going to end up fighting this week due to simple misunderstanding. Archana understood this and tried to patch them up . Now she won’t interfere anymore. If Sam and Gaby try then they can end this thing.