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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Zeal17


Its not about getting offended. I am not articulate enough like some members here to explain to you in detail. But what I feel is that Hindus lack that understanding of anguish of those Hindus who were the sufferers. Its really heartless to say oh I was not affected I dont care. Not only Hindus had to suppress their anguish and suffering but at the same time were asked to welcome and embrace them and today are berated by them.


If you understand psychology, think about this from a perspective of a victimized person and how years of suppression of feelings come out eventually.

You got me completely wrong here...since our discussion was on apology whatever I posted was in reference to that...of course like I said I feel sorry for what your family had to go through...what I mean is even if it was my family in the same situation...still an apology from some unknown people would not have healed me or made me feel better...if I have been wronged , I need an apology from that person..not from their parents or their kids....but that is me.....but if it makes you feel better then that is what will work for you...not even for a moment did I mean that I don't care what your family went through.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: GumGum

The point is not judging/recognizing someone by his/her marital status. Partner can mean a spouse or lover or an associate.

I thought so initially but this was specifically in context of married people. I can understand using the term partner in countries where homosexual marriages are legal...thought it was ok in India as the weddings aren't legally recognized... I thought the word spouse was gender neutral plus the person actually claimed to have married a person of opposite gender. I wondered why I was being schooled... I could be out of date... was discussing about taking kids to dance classes.. the tone of the conversation was fine.. asked if he and his spouse fix the driving duties based on the days of the week or is decided just just the day before...and then I got a lecture (friendly though)- Vidi, you sound rude when you use the term huz/ wife/ spouse .. use the term partner.... it wasn't the first time I was using those three words with my friend but the first time i was being corrected

Maybe it all depends on whom I am talking to.. a good number of people will also get offended if I refer to their better half as partner coz they might think that I am implying that they are ' living in sin' ...


Diplomacy and tact has never been my plus point and now this... I am not complaining but I already feel old and outdated in my early 30s

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Posted: 5 years ago

https://m.businesstoday.in/story/aditya-narayan-says-rs-18000-left-in-bank-account-plans-to-sell-bike-to-make-ends-meet/1/418961.html

Aditya Narayan apparently has only 18k in his bank account and plans to sell his bike...plus he is planning to get married. Is it just a publicity stunt or a real financial crunch? I thought Udit ka ladla was doing well as an anchor

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

https://m.businesstoday.in/story/aditya-narayan-says-rs-18000-left-in-bank-account-plans-to-sell-bike-to-make-ends-meet/1/418961.html

Aditya Narayan apparently has only 18k in his bank account and plans to sell his bike...plus he is planning to get married. Is it just a publicity stunt or a real financial crunch? I thought Udit ka ladla was doing well as an anchor

🤔 limelight mein rahe na hi hai, toh kuch aur jhoot bol leta... Did a couple of music videos, hosts shows back to back and yet bankrupt ?

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: VintageWine

🤔 limelight mein rahe na hi hai, toh kuch aur jhoot bol leta... Did a couple of music videos, hosts shows back to back and yet bankrupt ?

Even if he has a civil marriage, his friends will make him throw a small party at least. It will surely cost more than 18k. Even if his fiancee were to pay for household expenses, I am sure that a celeb like him will marry with so little money in hand. Papa won't pay for everything

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

Even if he has a civil marriage, his friends will make him throw a small party at least. It will surely cost more than 18k. Even if his fiancee were to pay for household expenses, I am sure that a celeb like him will marry with so little money in hand. Papa won't pay for everything

Looks like some lame pr Tbh. No way is he bankrupt 😆.

Khair, France ne night lockdown bola hai and we smarty pants are all up and running. And these ultra smart wale will roam enjoy be asymptomatic come to work n infect innocent ppl who did nothing but suffer😭.

https://twitter.com/ndtv/status/1316660375677353984?s=19

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Posted: 5 years ago

Gosh, people here think OIC (some namesake organization formed by some islamic/gulf countries) should apologize to particular indian hindus for something which happened ages ago who and what is OIC ? Isn't it the same organization which invited sushma swaraj and it was presented as top of the world achievement , may be offer should have been accepted by hindu person/party on the condition of apology 1st....A golden opportunity lost there 😆

By same standard may be some overseas brahman sanstha should apologize to dalits of india or may be some random hindu organization in some country should apologize to other indian hindu who is raped, tortured or murdered by fellow hindu in india ....kya logic hai 😆

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