Bollywood CC#57 (DT Note pg 74) - Page 68

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

Jahil me learnt only yesterday that while referring to one's spouse the correct term to be used it partner and not spouse or husband/wife ..difficult to be politically correct and keep track of changing terminolgies. No wonder we feel old people as unintentionally rude sometimes, they keep track of changing sensibilities

What?? 😲I have a husband....he is my partner in crime...that is another thing😆...but he is my husband...and ain't no body going to force me to use the word partner for him...political correctness be damned...😎

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

All I have to say that an apology is useless if its not coming from the right place and with the right thought.....an apology coming from an organization that doesn't even represent all Muslims will satisfy you...that is good...and that is your perspective....

Personally....I do not judge the people who didn't harm me directly....if a person didn't do it...I don't need their apology.......just like I being a Hindu am not responsible and will never apologize to someone who has been wronged by a Hindu...my life is simple...😳

Ofcourse apology shouldnt be given if asked.. it has to come itself from right thought. Otherwise it has no meaning... and I said for starters its good.

Yes, you wont understand where its coming from your life was simple.. I am glad you or your family never had to face any hardships .. but by family house was marked by Muslims to be killed next day. Had to leave that place, leaving everything behind..

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

Jahil me learnt only yesterday that while referring to one's spouse the correct term to be used it partner and not spouse or husband/wife ..difficult to be politically correct and keep track of changing terminolgies. No wonder we feel old people as unintentionally rude sometimes, they keep track of changing sensibilities

Woooot. Who made this nonsense rule

Originally posted by: Zeal17

Ofcourse apology shouldnt be given if asked.. it has to come itself from right thought. Otherwise it has no meaning... and I said for starters its good.

Yes, you wont understand where its coming from your life was simple.. I am glad you or your family never had to face any hardships .. but by family house was marked by Muslims to be killed next day. Had to leave that place, leaving everything behind..

That is not true....I said my life is simple in that....I do not expect an apology from a Muslim if he didn't do any harm to me....what his forefathers did a 100 years back is not his responsibility just like I am not responsible for what my forefathers did a 100 years back..

I am sorry to hear about what your family faced....like I said different things work for different people...so whatever helps you.

Originally posted by: Billi_Bangalan

Woooot. Who made this nonsense rule

IKR...😆

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

That is not true....I said my life is simple in that....I do not expect an apology from a Muslim if he didn't do any harm to me....what his forefathers did a 100 years back is not his responsibility just like I am not responsible for what my forefathers did a 100 years back..

I am sorry to hear about what your family faced....like I said different things work for different people...so whatever helps you.

The way you put it. Damn! speechless. Wasnt expecting this from you take care BIji.

Originally posted by: Zeal17

The way you put it. Damn! speechless. Wasnt expecting this from you take care BIji.

Did I say something wrong?? I didn't mean to....I am not going to disrespect anyone's family.....I just meant that if an apology from that organization will make you feel better than that should be it for you.....Sorry if you got offended and that wasn't my intention.

Originally posted by: Veni-Vidi-Vici

Jahil me learnt only yesterday that while referring to one's spouse the correct term to be used it partner and not spouse or husband/wife ..difficult to be politically correct and keep track of changing terminolgies. No wonder we feel old people as unintentionally rude sometimes, they keep track of changing sensibilities

The point is not judging/recognizing someone by his/her marital status. Partner can mean a spouse or lover or an associate.

Originally posted by: Zeal17

Doesn't seem like you are want to have a genuine discussion so will pass.

Lol, you used something similar against Blue-Ice earlier with the Harley/troll comment.

I presented two questions to you:

1) Whether you knew the purpose of OIC (because you argued they can apologize to Indian Hindus for the violent acts done by (Indian) Muslims).

2) Why an apology from Islamic states that have no relationship to the issue makes a difference apart from them being Muslims (because you said some Muslim countries apologizing is a good start).

In both instances, you failed to explain your reasoning.

If these don’t seem like questions to start a genuine discussion based on what your comments, you’re fooling yourself into thinking you want to have a genuine discussion yourself.

Nonetheless, sorry to hear about the harsh times you had to go through and good luck with your discussions. Peace.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Did I say something wrong?? I didn't mean to....I am not going to disrespect anyone's family.....I just meant that if an apology from that organization will make you feel better than that should be it for you.....Sorry if you got offended and that wasn't my intention.

Its not about getting offended. I am not articulate enough like some members here to explain to you in detail. But what I feel is that Hindus lack that understanding of anguish of those Hindus who were the sufferers. Its really heartless to say oh I was not affected I dont care. Not only Hindus had to suppress their anguish and suffering but at the same time were asked to welcome and embrace them and today are berated by them.

If you understand psychology, think about this from a perspective of a victimized person and how years of suppression of feelings come out eventually.