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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Yhcfan1

Lol omG abuse is abuse! The motivation for the violence is irrelevant! Balraj is the craziest wife beater and his reasons are that he’s dominating and hates being questioned. Some ppl would understand that and maybe even more so, if we ever learned his back story and let’s say learn that he is also a victim of abuse. Point is - it wouldn’t matter.


as for Ru- he’s being a pathetic baby. The writers have ruined his character development. You can’t go from loving someone so much one day to hating them and physically hurting them the next day. He was so understanding and such a team player a few days ago and now he’s just nuts. And all this b/c some douche bag said he’d swear on his kid as proof?? And he chose to take that word against Pree who took a bullet for her kid!? Makes 0 sense.

And if this is driven by his history as a child abuse victim, then like I said earlier- the track does need to talk about domestic violence issues and how counselling can help. You can’t just ignore this massive character trait and let it be until the next time Ru’s feelings get hurt and he wants to pull someone’s hair. He is a child that never properly grew up and his immaturity is striking. Easy to forget when he’s cute and charming.

I also agree that the writers do need to show his emotional turmoil. It doesn’t feel real not to have that b/c Ru has been such a feeler and we’ve been privy to his inner thoughts so much. Especially at a time like - we should know what he’s thinking- whether it’s regret, remorse, confusion, justification etc.

Anyways, if he wants to hurt her, he should stop talking to her, divorce her and fight for Saraansh’s absolute custody. That’s a mature fight. Not this Bs where he doesn’t discuss what he saw or heard but would rather just pull her hair 🙄 don’t like it one bit.

During the chetna episode- when he fake slapped her, Pree threatened to call the cops. That was normal IMO. I personally like the one strike and you’re out mentality. Everyone should be like that- man or woman.


Word 👍🏼 Abuse IS abuse & sweeping it under the carpet of 'angry young man' is not done.


@bold - actually this would be a great way to address this trait. Also, kids imbibe a lot of the family environment while growing up & having Ballu as a father is a shit example. Does not excuse Rudra but shows from where he has picked it up subconsciously.


But doubtful if it will ever be addressed apart from "ghusse mein maine bohot kuch kiya" at some later stage.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Everyone discussing things here on the forum is a fan of the show. As long the intention is to give constructive feedback and not spread negativity, there is no harm in people expressing their views, whenever they do. Just because some chose to critique a character does not mean they are any lesser a fan and should "stop watching" coz they didn't like a particular track.



Originally posted by: Reemz11

Can I just put it plainly? There’s no need to justify anything because everyone here is sensible to know that manhandling/violence is wrong. Is anybody glorifying it? No. Is anybody supporting it? No.


The problem is that when the show is going smooth, not enough people want to talk about it. It’s only when there’s a matter of manhandling, everyone starts talking. It’s the same with TRPs, they rise when you get this kind of drama.


Why not react and give more attention when it’s going well?

It’s a show at the end of the day. It’s so far from reality, we all dislike what Rudra is doing to Preesha but if it’s going to bother you that much then it’s best not to watch the show because I’m sure he’s going to be an ass for a while. It’s fine hating what he does, even I do but moral policing on an Ekta show won’t do much.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Eloquent


Word 👍🏼 Abuse IS abuse & sweeping it under the carpet of 'angry young man' is not done.


@bold - actually this would be a great way to address this trait. Also, kids imbibe a lot of the family environment while growing up & having Ballu as a father is a shit example. Does not excuse Rudra but shows from where he has picked it up subconsciously.


But doubtful if it will ever be addressed apart from "ghusse mein maine bohot kuch kiya" at some later stage.


LOL

Ballu 🤣


I think this forum is a great place to discuss this show and I love the insight into everyone’s opinions. It’s interesting how we all enjoyed the romantic happy phase so much and no one complained about the type of scenes we were getting! I, for one, could not think of an alternate way that the writers or the actors could have done “better” - that track was perfect.

But as soon as this recent track started, there are different opinions on how it should be handled! Many of us are on the same page about romance but not how heartache should be handled 🤔 It’s fascinating!


I loved the drunk scene outside of Pree’s house - the emotions, the anger, the acting was great. And it fit with Ru’s character and how we’d imagine a super drunk and hurt Ru would act. I think given what Ru knows of her using him, that was fitting and she deserved it (even though she technically doesn’t!) But it’s just the road the show seems to be going down now doesn’t sit well with me. Public shaming was way more effective and palatable than hair pulling. I’d stop watching if I got super turned off - but for now I’m giving it a chance as I’m hoping things will continue to move forward at a fast pace and b/c I’m interested in seeing Sargun’s acting prowess lol so she may keep me hooked.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Eloquent


Word 👍🏼


Rudra bearing up Yuvraj - Male vs male - also Yuvraj was not exactly blowing bubbles from a tin cup was he?)


Being rude to Ahana - it was verbal only & part of ongoing heated argument


Not going into other examples but coming back to Preesha - pulling hair, trying to strangle her - looks very crass.


Coming to Rudra Preesha marriage, well, yes, Rudra did engineer the marriage illegally. He cannot expect Preesha to love him back & no one forced him to fall in love. But the RuSha dynamic was never static ....it kept on changing almost daily. So while they (& I'm keeping it 'they' not 'him' even of we're talking about only Rudra POV here) started out as enemies, towards the end, even a blind man could have seen that it was never one-way. By end, Preesha herself had given some rights to Rudra and chose him clearly over Yuvraj. So yes, Rudra was entitled to have some expectations. And then to find our those expectations, that relationship, that person, is bust...


@bold - Yes that's what I'm afraid of as it will affect my interest if FL puts up with everything and becomes mahaan.


@red - haha, tell this to our Ru! He's been lamenting about being blind in love, but he's actually blinded by hatred now. Nice touch of irony there!


@green - Same here! I can even put up with a naive Pree but not a mahaan one. Ye FL mahaanta please humare Pree se dur rakho! 😒

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Yhcfan1


LOL

Ballu 🤣


I think this forum is a great place to discuss this show and I love the insight into everyone’s opinions. It’s interesting how we all enjoyed the romantic happy phase so much and no one complained about the type of scenes we were getting! I, for one, could not think of an alternate way that the writers or the actors could have done “better” - that track was perfect.

But as soon as this recent track started, there are different opinions on how it should be handled! Many of us are on the same page about romance but not how heartache should be handled 🤔 It’s fascinating!


I loved the drunk scene outside of Pree’s house - the emotions, the anger, the acting was great. And it fit with Ru’s character and how we’d imagine a super drunk and hurt Ru would act. I think given what Ru knows of her using him, that was fitting and she deserved it (even though she technically doesn’t!) But it’s just the road the show seems to be going down now doesn’t sit well with me. Public shaming was way more effective and palatable than hair pulling. I’d stop watching if I got super turned off - but for now I’m giving it a chance as I’m hoping things will continue to move forward at a fast pace and b/c I’m interested in seeing Sargun’s acting prowess lol so she may keep me hooked.


@bold - that's what makes forums so interesting & I like this forum because people can agree to disagree here without coming to blows. Atleast till now. 😆


@red - yeah...so for me all of these things in which they're infront of other people are not scenes which will keep me hooked. I want to see only scenes between the duo & I want to see angst, not hair pulling violence. So I'm really waiting for things to settle and mellow down. The scenes will be more interesting then.


@Ballu - name just popped out 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Eloquent


@bold - that's what makes forums so interesting & I like this forum because people can agree to disagree here without coming to blows. Atleast till now. 😆


@red - yeah...so for me all of these things in which they're infront of other people are not scenes which will keep me hooked. I want to see only scenes between the duo & I want to see angst, not hair pulling violence. So I'm really waiting for things to settle and mellow down. The scenes will be more interesting then.


@Ballu - name just popped out 🤣


Agreed. The shelf life for public shaming is 1-2 episodes max lol the rest of this drama needs to play out just b/w the two main characters.

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Posted: 5 years ago

gud mrngggg YHCians


today episode is dramtic... interesting... painful....


K house family visits Rudra....when he is conscious.... Ru forgets wat hapnd... hw accident hapnd... then he slowly rembrs everything and ask wer is Preesha...


BK says ths all happened bcz of her.. hence he has taken restraining order.. 100 m away from Ru... eventhough Ru will support Pree...and doesnt like hearing anything -ve against her..


Ru holds BK hand and says... u did it for me... then its right she shldnt b near me at any cost... (mishkana wer like they got lottery 🤣)


Ru looks angryily painfully at Pree... who was standing away...and watching thru glass window...


Bk tells he will be bystander...and others shld leave.... When Bk gets a call n move out... Pree goes inside.... She says sorry ..as she s the reason y he s sufferin all this....


Ru calls her near.... n catches her hand and hold in tough...😡 and tells sorry for wat u did...now u understood... Pree tells..she doesnt knw.. she asked rahul too bt he didnt tell me... Ru tells abt ipad... hw in the video.... pree confessed of betraying Ru...


When Ru leaves the hand.... Pree fwds it saying... how much hurt n pain u want to gv...gv....
(this made me sad n teary 😭😭)


Pree is shooed off by Bk... she calls Neeraja.. and ask her to check Rahul ipad.... Neeraja casually asks ipad to Rahul.. he tells...its thrown away and goes... Neeraja is suspicious... and trying to find it


next day... mishkaana sisters trolling over Preesha... being a servant blaah blaah... and tey got shock...wen nurse came n told...Ru called Preesha inside....


mishKana tried to shoo off Preesha... but nurse didnt allow 🤣🤣


And Sponge bath ☺️started.... Ru was trying to Punish Pree by asking her to do Sponge bath..😆


Pree was shy...and was very slow...in sponge bath.... Ru tuk her hand and started doing ruffly saying ths hw its done... poor girl... again her hand is hurt


then hairpulling (😡 Ru... its too much.. u r goin to regret badly.... hw can u be so cruel... seein her true eyes..).. is it huring...

Saransh entry...


precap..


ru discharge... and will be taken to K house... announcement by ahana to Preesha...


Rudra leaving with K family... says 1 moment... and turns...n walks to preesha.. (hv to wait wat exactly he planning)


Neeraja opening closed drawer... Rahul asking wat she doing

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Posted: 5 years ago

basically it was a filler epsd for me...

not clear...wt goin to be next...

CVS r winning in keeping the curiosity wt goin to be next

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Posted: 5 years ago

Since this is a tough track, I am going focus on the positives only for the next few days. I am sure there will be ample debate on the negatives as is.


Today Dr Preesha quite accidentally hit on a winning strategy to deal with brainwashed Rockstar Rudraksh. Some might very wrongly mis-label it as submission but what it really is reverse psychology.


Have you ever been really angry and someone and wanted to scream at them and they came as said they deserved all the screaming. You get thrown off track first and then your anger takes a big dent. Sure you might not want to admit it and give it back still, but the fire is gone. You might still be upset, but anger is truly washed down.


That is what happened to Rudra today. Pree threw a major curve ball at him and he was thrown off and good bit. He is right now on a mission that is impossible for him which is to try to be a truly MCP jackass AKA Typical ITV ML which he fortunately is not - I mean what with the crying he did today which matched Preesha completely.


The more Rudra is in the pain zone, the more easier it is going to be for Pree to handle him vs angry Rudra. Of course Mr Pillai is coming time to time to harass them and shed water on Pree’s efforts and push him into anger again...but it won’t last long.

But looking at the self torture that Rudra has been inflicting on himself as he tries to torture Pree in equal measure, one thing is sure. Pree is going to have to rein him in majorly and slap some sense into him when he goes into redemption mode (which as I said before is needed more for his peace and for him to come back properly into the relation rather than for Pree). Because this guy is going to go in for some very major self torture to punish himself for what he put Pree through now.


With this guy, when he loves - toot ke pyaar karta hai. And when he hates, tab bhi toot ke pyaar karta hai.

So the truth of Pree’s innocence is going to kill him properly. And Pree more than forgiving him, will actually need to stabilise him and knock some sense into him.

Last bit not least, some thing that we know but which must be acknowledged well and good still. we have 3 pairs of soul mates in this show that match each other completely in who and what they really are. Same wavelength and all.

our RuSha

MishAna

YuvHul


Edited by foresight - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Both were brilliant in their acting today. I liked their acting much better today than the rain confrontation screen.

also special mention to our Pree ....she was brilliant today in her determination, care, focus on solving this and getting her Rudra back and ignoring/not giving a damn as always for the barbie dolls/chop chop sisters or BK

Edited by foresight - 5 years ago

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