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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Home786

Yeahh I remember. Is she Okayy? What happened? She is so upset with her marks na? Is she still worried thinking about that or what?

No re its more of her family issue

Her brother had gifted her a mobile. Now she didnt want it and she had stated the same but then her mother, father and brother insisted she use it. She usually does her timepass {which is more or less PSing only} on her computer while she uses her mobile to send her assignments or use Google Classroom. She also listens to music in that mobile only. She does have WhatsApp but the girl has only the numbers of her family even her family knows it. But today when she was checking the GC to know something her bursted upon her that she is always looking at the mobile. She does only timepass. She doesnt even study and all that. The girl was highly disturbed and told her mother to take away the mobile because she knew this would happen one day. Her mother had become suscipicous from sometime and today shouted at her too much with some words of status and all I wont want to even talk about

Now the thing is her depression has not only got triggered but I think it has affected her mentally too

She hasnt stopped crying...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

No re its more of her family issue

Her brother had gifted her a mobile. Now she didnt want it and she had stated the same but then her mother, father and brother insisted she use it. She usually does her timepass {which is more or less PSing only} on her computer while she uses her mobile to send her assignments or use Google Classroom. She also listens to music in that mobile only. She does have WhatsApp but the girl has only the numbers of her family even her family knows it. But today when she was checking the GC to know something her bursted upon her that she is always looking at the mobile. She does only timepass. She doesnt even study and all that. The girl was highly disturbed and told her mother to take away the mobile because she knew this would happen one day. Her mother had become suscipicous from sometime and today shouted at her too much with some words of status and all I wont want to even talk about

Now the thing is her depression has not only got triggered but I think it has affected her mentally too

She hasnt stopped crying...

This girl seriously needs someone to understand her personally. Why none is understanding her? Why gave her the thing which you later want to criticize her for it.? This is not done Alexia. Parents needs to trust their Children.. I hope she Pacifies and comes out of it soon.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Home786

This girl seriously needs someone to understand her personally. Why none is understanding her? Why gave her the thing which you later want to criticize her for it.? This is not done Alexia. Parents needs to trust their Children.. I hope she Pacifies and comes out of it soon.

There are times where the girl has given out lies. Like when she was 10 years old at that time. But from the moment she has become 14 she has changed but I guess once bitten twice shy?

Her mother says that she trusts her and knows her but the next moment when she is angry at her she shouts at her that she is lying as she usually does and trusting her is actually a mistake she wont ever do.

She had told me there would come a time when this mobile will definitely be used as a way to criticize her. She had told me she was scared of using that Smartphone as she knew her mother would doubt her definitely

Its hard to do anything for her like this. They say na that after sometime words dont affect anymore. Its my case with her. At first she did get relief that someone thinks her worthy even if they are angry at her but now my words dont sooth her anymore as she has been hearing them everytime

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Posted: 5 years ago

I am all for evil act of Mini with one condition, Please,Don't make our leads victims of her evilness. Mini's evilness don't give license to writer to make our lead quietly devoured by Mini.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

There are times where the girl has given out lies. Like when she was 10 years old at that time. But from the moment she has become 14 she has changed but I guess once bitten twice shy?

Her mother says that she trusts her and knows her but the next moment when she is angry at her she shouts at her that she is lying as she usually does and trusting her is actually a mistake she wont ever do.

She had told me there would come a time when this mobile will definitely be used as a way to criticize her. She had told me she was scared of using that Smartphone as she knew her mother would doubt her definitely

Its hard to do anything for her like this. They say na that after sometime words dont affect anymore. Its my case with her. At first she did get relief that someone thinks her worthy even if they are angry at her but now my words dont sooth her anymore as she has been hearing them everytime

I can feel her and at such ventures people always used to take even positive words into a negative impact. But she needs someone who can understand her to whom she can speak her heart out. Continuous criticism and taunts will make a person exhausted na. That's what she is going through now. She needs time and space to pacify herself.. I don't know what to say now. But I'm really worried for her. Please stay in touch with her constantly..

Don't know why Alexia, this gadgets and SM is pushing youth in trouble though directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally, by hook or by crook, in a good or bad but in one way or other even innocents falls prey to it. That's why our ancestors lived a peaceful natural life and left the world in peace..

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Home786

I can feel her and at such ventures people always used to take even positive words into a negative impact. But she needs someone who can understand her to whom she can speak her heart out. Continuous criticism and taunts will make a person exhausted na. That's what she is going through now. She needs time and space to pacify herself.. I don't know what to say now. But I'm really worried for her. Please stay in touch with her constantly..

Don't know why Alexia, this gadgets and SM is pushing youth in trouble though directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally, by hook or by crook, in a good or bad but in one way or other even innocents falls prey to it. That's why our ancestors lived a peaceful natural life and left the world in peace..

But the girl has no social life. The only person she speaks to without any work-related things and outside her family is me. She is extremely introvert.

Only on Wattpad, she has spoken with Mishti and Octo and Lalz but she doesnt feel good hence udhar bhi itna baat nahi karti hogi

I dont know what to do Shaheen. The girl has been in depression for 5 years now. And there is constant self worth problems. She feels highly inferior. Yes she is a procastrinator but then her achievements are also not seen. She tops her batch in all her exams or is atleast in top 3 but her mother just doesnt care as she doesnt apparently see her studying

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

But the girl has no social life. The only person she speaks to without any work-related things and outside her family is me. She is extremely introvert.

Only on Wattpad, she has spoken with Mishti and Octo and Lalz but she doesnt feel good hence udhar bhi itna baat nahi karti hogi

I dont know what to do Shaheen. The girl has been in depression for 5 years now. And there is constant self worth problems. She feels highly inferior. Yes she is a procastrinator but then her achievements are also not seen. She tops her batch in all her exams or is atleast in top 3 but her mother just doesnt care as she doesnt apparently see her studying

I really don't know what to say Alexia. I just want the girl to come out of this depression as soon as possible. I want the girl to fly free and come out with great achievements in life... Her talent should help her in further achievements and deserving bliss in her future life. I will pray for her.. She is a strong girl and will definitely beat this difficult times too.

Being a depressed patient for 2.5 yrs, I can understand her thoroughly. Being in darkness amidst in the midst of lights is very difficult to overcome..

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Home786

I really don't know what to say Alexia. I just want the girl to come out of this depression as soon as possible. I want the girl to fly free and come out with great achievements in life... Her talent should help her in further achievements and deserving bliss in her future life. I will pray for her.. She is a strong girl and will definitely beat this difficult times too.

Being a depressed patient for 2.5 yrs, I can understand her thoroughly. Being in darkness amidst in the midst of lights is very difficult to overcome..

I dont know Shaheen I dont know

How can someone feel like a guest in their own house but she does, she does feel the same

All of this is mentally taking a toll on her and its affecting her studies too. But whom can she even speak out to? She has no one to talk to who would listen to her.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

I dont know Shaheen I dont know

How can someone feel like a guest in their own house but she does, she does feel the same

All of this is mentally taking a toll on her and its affecting her studies too. But whom can she even speak out to? She has no one to talk to who would listen to her.

I am literally upset yaar and I don't know what to utter too as my past starts hitting me. The same situation in fact worse than this I was when there was none to whom I can spell out my pains..

Please be with her Alexia. She will definitely come out of this for sure.. My prayers will be with her for her good life.. She will be happy..

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Posted: 5 years ago
Alexia I have a doubt, is there any option to change our text font style in our posts??
Edited by Home786 - 5 years ago

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