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Sudden flashback seeing this thread. My dance partner during college days was my actual ‘mera pehla pyaar adhoora reh gaya’ types. I crushed on this guy so hard but thankfully I was never the type to gush for anyone to catch on. He was tall, slim and an absolute charmer. Those are the ones you watch out for, girls.😆He always had a way with words, such a sweet/smooth talker and an even better dancer, plus surprisingly good amateur singer. So when we’d meet weekly for this annual show prep, he’d serenade me every week with 80’s and 90’s Bollywood music. He wouldn’t skip a single lyric. He’d even tell you this song was song #3 on side B of the cassette.😆I mean I don’t know too many guys from my generation who know about Rafi, let alone sing his songs! My filmy self fell for him.🤦🏽‍♀️

It was worse because we had a romantic dance for the show where we were the main couple and he’d literally look aankhon hi aankhon mein and sing and dance along. For him, he was probably just getting in to the song, but I was going crazy inside. To cut a whole long story short, soon found out he was already in a relationship at the time and years later, he asked to meet for dinner/drinks and as charming as he still was, couldn’t help but be grateful things didn’t work out! God surely works in mysterious ways!

Originally posted by: FilmiDhun

@AllThatCritique

You are breaking my heart.😭

Your school crush sounds like a dreamboat. ☺️

The infatuation was mutual! You could have gone on a date with him atleast 😒... If I were in your place I couldn't have resisted the opportunity 😆

I have some friends who are like this- they dont pursue their crushes because they have this image in their head and dont want it to break. And then I have another set of friends who do pursue the relationship and then are heartbroken because reality is different from their fantasy world🤓...

He truly was a dreamboat!

I haven't had a repeat of this with anyone though. Whenever I have felt strongly for people, I have been lucky that they have always been mutual. This was just a fluffy memory that I just had to protect from adult expectations. Hopefully, he wasn't that heartbroken 😆

Originally posted by: Harley_Quinn

Had a crush on a nerdy girl in 9th grade. I was one of the comedians of the class but that doesn't mean I was a mandir ka ghanta. I was a cool comedian who was popular among the boys for my hilarious antics and jokes, but nonetheless I was a comedian. That means I get respect only in my club. The nerds only see me as a weird guy who makes them laugh. So I never bothered to ask her out because I knew she'd say no.

In eleventh grade, I changed my school and state. I was now a private guy in class, minding my own business. Some bully classmates played a prank on me telling me that a girl in the same class has a crush on me, and were pushing me to approach her. I believed them because they were some signals from past few days, but later on a friend of the girl told me that they are joking.

That was karma biting me for mocking a guy so badly in 10th grade that I was ended up being pulled to the Principal's office but I didn't care because those days I was very carefree.

Had a crush on a female teacher in my first year of college. The whole class knew about it. But never approached a girl on a date and those who approached me, I denied it because I thought I was never good enough to be something more than a friend.

Romantic talks bore me anyway. It's much better to be a casual friend than being in a relationship unless you only want sex.

Never in my wildest dreams I expected you to be a guy and not a girl 😮😮 especially after reading that story of yours of single abandoned woman with lots of dogs 😬

but seriously...

Originally posted by: Tris007

There was this guy who came to my boarding school for a short amount of time. He was so freaking talkative and I was so quiet back then. Minding my own business, and there he was chasing me around and getting on my nerves. He was such a burst of sunshine though. Always making everyone smile, brightening my mood. I didn't realize I started developing feelings for him until he graduated from his class and I didn't get to see him after that. My older brother is pretty friendly with everyone so nothing really leaves his ears. After a few months, I found out that my crush died in the war around the drug cartels. It's been 12 years, and I'm sure he'll be back to me someday. I play my guqin for his soul every day.

P.S. I LOVE YOU WWX

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck

Here's mine! 😭

Childhood crush liked me for years when I was a pretty little pumpkin. I turned into an ugly duckling as an adult and he turned into a "Tall Dark Dimple smiled Mills and Boons Handsome" - So I instead pushed my beautiful friend ahead and got them married. The End of my "broken ugly heart" -

Aww....you guys🤗😭💔

Ok, so I had made up my mind I wasn't going to come back here anytime soon but dang it...it is the start of Autumn and Autumn gets me all nostalgic and emotional so I can't resist a thread like this, okay!😭

My story is similar to this Airtel ad... except it was only a one sided crush most probably. 😭💔😆

https://youtu.be/CofUXBE4zWw

We were next door neighbors, I was around 7 or 8, he must be 9 or 10. We were the best buddies, you know. We used to play together everyday. One time, during the initial days of our friendship when he got to know about my birthday, he gifted me his brand new T-shirt, just so that he had something to gift me. He also got me a silly, adorable necklace after he returned from a family vacation. He was such a gentleman(boy?😆). One time, we were going on a camel ride and one cousin of his was also there, since I was the youngest he made me sit in the middle so that I would be safer. He was so sweet and thoughtful. No wonder I fell for him. Lol

And then his family moved away and that was the end of our friendship. We lost contact after that. He must have already found his Kareena by now. Lmao.

Sometimes, I still miss our friendship. But I'm over it now, of course. 💛

Oh man, someone take me back to early 2000's please. Those were the best days.

Originally posted by: Panditaain_ji

Ok, so I had made up my mind I wasn't going to come back here anytime soon but dang it...it is the start of Autumn and Autumn gets me all nostalgic and emotional so I can't resist a thread like this, okay!😭

My story is similar to this Airtel ad... except it was only a one sided crush most probably. 😭💔😆

https://youtu.be/CofUXBE4zWw

We were next door neighbors, I was around 7 or 8, he must be 9 or 10. We were the best buddies, you know. We used to play together everyday. One time, during the initial days of our friendship when he got to know about my birthday, he gifted me his brand new T-shirt, just so that he had something to gift me. He also got me a silly, adorable necklace after he returned from a family vacation. He was such a gentleman(boy?😆). One time, we were going on a camel ride and one cousin of his was also there, since I was the youngest he made me sit in the middle so that I would be safer. He was so sweet and thoughtful. No wonder I fell for him. Lol

And then his family moved away and that was the end of our friendship. We lost contact after that. He must have already found his Kareena by now. Lmao.

Sometimes, I still miss our friendship. But I'm over it now, of course. 💛

Oh man, someone take me back to early 2000's please. Those were the best days.

You know this name and social media exists. Find him and get in touch with him. Atleast the friendship could be rekindled! :) Childhood friends are the best and if we ever get the opportunity to get them back we should take it!

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

You know this name and social media exists. Find him and get in touch with him. Atleast the friendship could be rekindled! :) Childhood friends are the best and if we ever get the opportunity to get them back we should take it!

Yes, may be I will one day. 😆

Good to see you btw :)

Originally posted by: Panditaain_ji

Ok, so I had made up my mind I wasn't going to come back here anytime soon but dang it...it is the start of Autumn and Autumn gets me all nostalgic and emotional so I can't resist a thread like this, okay!😭

My story is similar to this Airtel ad... except it was only a one sided crush most probably. 😭💔😆

https://youtu.be/CofUXBE4zWw

We were next door neighbors, I was around 7 or 8, he must be 9 or 10. We were the best buddies, you know. We used to play together everyday. One time, during the initial days of our friendship when he got to know about my birthday, he gifted me his brand new T-shirt, just so that he had something to gift me. He also got me a silly, adorable necklace after he returned from a family vacation. He was such a gentleman(boy?😆). One time, we were going on a camel ride and one cousin of his was also there, since I was the youngest he made me sit in the middle so that I would be safer. He was so sweet and thoughtful. No wonder I fell for him. Lol

And then his family moved away and that was the end of our friendship. We lost contact after that. He must have already found his Kareena by now. Lmao.

Sometimes, I still miss our friendship. But I'm over it now, of course. 💛

Oh man, someone take me back to early 2000's please. Those were the best days.

Aap kidhar gaayab the ji? Kaunsi pooja mein lagi thi panditain ji?

Never even had a crush. Never understood these things.

I was 17 at that time and attending my first cousin’s marriage. We did so much masti and leg pulling and what not of the whole gang of friends of the groom. From that gang one guy suddenly started supporting me and switched sides. I still remember the way he looked at me which clearly made me go weak in my knees. I still remember that feeling. When they were leaving, he came to me and asked for my phone number. I didn’t give him but laughed it off. He said he will be forced to contact me through his parents.I just pretended to not care and watched him leave. He eventually did contact my parents through his parents and asked for my hand. I was just 17 and apparently he was 11 years older to me which made my dad reject the proposal right away. Needless to say, I wasn’t even asked for my opinion neither did I dare to utter a word. But it took me quite a while to forget this episode. Turns out it just remained in a corner of my heart though I don’t even remember the face nor the name of that person anymore. :(

Oh boy, kya yaad dila diya. This is the first time I have put this into writing or shared it with another person. sighhh!