Originally posted by: _charu_
I'll tell you why. That's bec nothing which humza did , EVER harmed rumi or humna in any way... That's what they showed in the serial. Humza blackmailed humna for her lies to be exposed which was entirely her problem and her weakness.
Humna betrayed humza which was completely sidelined. When humza betrayed rumi ,it became a social issue.. Humna did not get into the relationship with Humza with any ulterior motives. She ends up betraying him eventually though. Whereas Humza marrried Rumi for every wrong reason. He wholly and solely did what he did knowingly.
when humna was visiting him in the hospital and praying for him, inspite of being married to azeem , that wasnt two timing. But humza sleeping with his wife was two timing that too , when he hated humna.
When a break-up happens, it doesn't mean you stop caring for that person all together. It is not a switch which goes ON and OFF in an instant. You can be a well-wisher of your ex. That's not cheating. Humza sleeping with his wife was wrong because he MADE her believe that he loves her. He doesn't take her as his wife 100% in heart but wants her 100% in bed. Convenient much! Humna se itna pyar tha toh why sleep with her sister. That thought is so nasty in itself... Sleeping with the sibling of your so-called lover for revenge (as of marrying her was not enough) .
When humna lied to azeem and hid her affair before marrying him , that was bec she was socially awkward. When humza lied to rumi , it became an unforgivable offence. Betrayal in love is ok if a girl is doing it. When a boy does it , it's a sin.
When Humna married Azeem, even if unwillingly, she had no intention of cheating him. She wanted to make that marriage work. She never went looking for humza or tryinh to talk to him. Whereas Humza lied to Rumi out of his own selfish reason and spite. He was the only constantly obsessing over Humna and harassing her. Humza had absolutely no intention or interest in making his marriage work.. Woh toh Rumi cute thi and he fell for her. Warna use and throw ka plan tha rt.
Humna was forgiven by azeem for having a past with humza but humza wasnt forgiven for the same ? Azeem trusted humna inspite of her lies but rumi cant ?
Humna's past was past the moment she married Azeem, until Humza kept bringing it up. Whereas Humza kept dragging his past into his own and Humna's life at every possible chance while being with Rumi. Also Azeem and Rumi are two different people. Azeem may be more trusting than Rumi, not as emotional as Rumi.
In order to punish humza the makers ruined rumi completely..her married life and she lost her child too. Where is humnas punishment?
Why does a marriage alone signify happy ending? Just becaise Humna has Azeem doesn't mean she got a hapoy ending.May be it will hurt Humna more seeing her sister in this state..the questioning eyes of her mother, fleeting moments where Azeem may mention trust issues etc. Guilt is a very severe punishment btw. The way i see Humna has everything materialistic except family's respect, husband's trust and peace of mind whereas Rumi who lost everything that society tags as 'happy life' cam atleast sleep peacefully at night knowing she wronged no one.
This ending reminds me of Yeh Dil Mera ending. Both of these are not your typical fairy tale Bollywood ish ending but more practical and closer to life. Not every love story gets a happy and fair ending, no matter how perfect the couple the was. If i was Rumi in real life, i too may have let Humza go. Yeah, but i would also have not been able to forgive and trust Humna 100%. For family sake, i would interact minimally with her. But Humza, no matter how much i loved him the fact that he betrayed me, disrespected his ex (does not matter she was my sister) and planned such a elaborate revenge saga would have made me lose any respect and trust o had on him. With Humna i may have to pretend normalcy because of blood relation but why bother doing that with Humza. Imagine a family dinner, mom, Azeem, Humna, Humza and Rumi... #awkward!
Humza was not a guy with questionable character per se. He belonged to a loving and respectable family. He was not stalking humna ,humna was as much a part of the relationship as humza was. As a human being in love , I strongly believe that he needed a closure from humna, that is , she should have informed him before getting married to azeem. If she did this one thing , she wouldn't be gettin rotten tomatoes on her face today.
Agreed 1000%.
Hania and feroze had good chemistry but I sincerely think that they shouldnt have shown it . Thy played with the audience feelings, humza should have never fallen for rumi nor rumi shown to have anything with humza. Bec it all went in the dustbin..whatever "love " they had between them.
I agree the execution was.botched up. After epi 16 it was.like a train wreck..
As an audience I wud be convinced of this kind of an ending if I saw one to one between rumi and humza..where she gave him the reasons behind not forgiving . Where he tried to convince her. If she said this one sentence , that I love you but I cant forgive you , I will.be ok. In this whole bloody concept , love was shown in a such a bad light..that's my grudge. If they wanted to give any social message , just name the damn show as "humna ka safar" n not ishqia.
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