YRHPK LU/EDT 11/8/20: DT Reminder Note Pg 36 - Page 30

Originally posted by: angelfire78

I agree that Mishti should have been clear about what happened. She still seems to focus only on what she did - the action - and not why she did it - the reaction. However, with her back story, and history of panic attacks and such, maybe it's natural? I'll also agree it's in her character to do this, but I wish others would make it clear to her that this is not correct. Abir has been trying, without much impact.

@bold - That's not the direction they seem to be going with this. They want someone else as the killer, but it would have been awesome if they could have shown this.

Mishti should not have any guilt.. which she probably doesn’t.. but maybe years of verbal abuse and mishti ki wajah se taunts have made her so.. plus this incident.. it kind of broke her confidence and her reasoning.. she became the shell of the person she was.. not being able to speak kind of internalized the guilt.. in her first breakdown in the ngo.. she says that if I have not done anything wrong then why can’t I say it loud...

human psychology is wierd that ways.. there is no right or wrong about how one feels.. some people feel guilty for some reason( mish feels guilty for the family of Karan) and she has been apologizing to every Tom, dick and Harry since this track started...

So it’s complicated

She will need reassurances from people around her, not just abir but the other family members that she was not wrong

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Mandap se pehle logo ko realise nahi hota theek se 🤣 Mandap pe aate hi batti jalegi 😆

🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Perfect daya !! Tumne sab kuchh likh diya !!

1. That one look exchange between varun and abir while dancing was 🔥 bina bole hi sab bol diya , oh god these two actors can talk with their eyes so effortlessly .....I want more of their subtle tashan scenes

2. Was waiting to see what will be mishti's break moment and it had to be abir's pride ... knowing that the girl is very high on righteousness, she was already feeling guilty for karan's family ( although these are signs of being too good for the world but still that's something what mishti nature is ) and hiding an important from the family and the constant blaming all together took a toll on her , really cried when she said I feel choked ...she had to let go off the weight today ...kudos to her for gathering the courage to speak up

3. What she couldn't say is something what abir completed for her , the assault thing , the mishti ki wajah se thing, how the entire family did make them feel alone and helpless ...abir was spot on today..although I always felt , he should have been more practically prepared with his approach form the very beginning, given that he is an NGO owner who works for under previdiged women , and such NGOs do provide legal help and are quite active in woman rights things ...I felt it was always better to speak up than the idea of forgetting the incident and letting it go ...but today I am glad he finally speaks the right things to right people at the right time

4. I loved how every single woman in the show stood up for mishti today and felt her pain, and I am glad makers didn't take the route of mishti ki wajah se at least in this case ...very anti climatic of abir's ambe maa speech! These women can have their own difference of opinions, clashes , different thought processes, likes , dislikes or whatever but at the right time they stood up for what was right...bravo ...!! Meenu was brilliant today ( I hope dhoka na de end mein 😆 ) but I loved the way she remained calm and composed with the whole case....found clues , got a lawyer , got reports and now giving her support to mishti ...meenu is on a roll these days her ending dialogue woah !

5. Ketki has to take a call now ! At the most what she can do is tell her family that she is not pregnant so that her family can get off of some load at least ! I really want her to take a strong stand for herself....varun being the killer or not dosent matter ...she has to confront him for trying to play with her emotions!

6. Sonis have played their cards...its time for rajvanshs now 😎 They wanted truth and justice right....some truths are gonna be slapped on their faces very very soon ....be careful what you ask for soni parivaar 😆

1. They are awesome together. I really hope RM stays in the show.

2. Yeah, she was holding back because Abir asked her to, but couldn't do that anymore once she saw him begging.

3. She only focuses on what she does - that's taking responsibility going to extremes, but that's how they have shown her character from the beginning. Even Abir is like that na. He didn't want to say why he broke the rishta with Mishti saying that would just be an excuse. Excuse aur reason mein fark nahi karte dono.

4. Abir's dialogue ended up anti climatic, but I'm so glad it did. Society does not react like this when it should. All the stuff he said is so true and we have heard it so many times. We will take Meenu a day at a time for the sake of our sanity 😆. Her dialogues, expressions, reactions today were top-notch!

5. Agreed. I want her to at least question whether Varun already knew about this when they were in courtship, and if so, if he continued with it only for revenge. But based on Sha's pictures, looks like there will be more wedding-related ceremonies so we'll be prepared for that 😆.

6. RJVs working together will be something to watch!!

Originally posted by: Appu1981

Mishti should not have any guilt.. which she probably doesn’t.. but maybe years of verbal abuse and mishti ki wajah se taunts have made her so.. plus this incident.. it kind of broke her confidence and her reasoning.. she became the shell of the person she was.. not being able to speak kind of internalized the guilt.. in her first breakdown in the ngo.. she says that if I have not done anything wrong then why can’t I say it loud...

human psychology is wierd that ways.. there is no right or wrong about how one feels.. some people feel guilty for some reason( mish feels guilty for the family of Karan) and she has been apologizing to every Tom, dick and Harry since this track started...

So it’s complicated

She will need reassurances from people around her, not just abir but the other family members that she was not wrong

Definitely! I hope the family comes together to reassure her.

Originally posted by: angelfire78

1. They are awesome together. I really hope RM stays in the show.

2. Yeah, she was holding back because Abir asked her to, but couldn't do that anymore once she saw him begging.

3. She only focuses on what she does - that's taking responsibility going to extremes, but that's how they have shown her character from the beginning. Even Abir is like that na. He didn't want to say why he broke the rishta with Mishti saying that would just be an excuse. Excuse aur reason mein fark nahi karte dono.

4. Abir's dialogue ended up anti climatic, but I'm so glad it did. Society does not react like this when it should. All the stuff he said is so true and we have heard it so many times. We will take Meenu a day at a time for the sake of our sanity 😆. Her dialogues, expressions, reactions today were top-notch!

5. Agreed. I want her to at least question whether Varun already knew about this when they were in courtship, and if so, if he continued with it only for revenge. But based on Sha's pictures, looks like there will be more wedding-related ceremonies so we'll be prepared for that 😆.

6. RJVs working together will be something to watch!!

1. Someone on the thread was saying that let him become a ghar jamaai... I hope so 🤣

2. Yes 😃

3. 100% ....they get too emotional to realise the difference between excuse n reason...life pushes them back from excuses to correct reasoning

4. I am glad too , yeah let's hold on rope of hope for meenu 😆

5. As I told you , in this show everyone realises everything on the shaadi day only 🤣 So I was expecting this anyways

6. Yes ...I want a meenu - nirmala face off in the end ...

MAIN

MEENAKSHI

RAJVANSH

😎

💥💥💥💥

🤣

Hello everyone,

I had a hectic day. I am very very tired now. Even though i hv come here to tell u all that i loved the episode. Oh my God what a fantabulous episode. Jisne bhi aaj ka episode nahi dekha i feel pity for them.You guys hv missed out something really nice to watch out for. Our show is the bestest on the TV right now and it deserves the highest ever trp.

I am always a proud fan of Shaheer. Today he just nailed it. Abir asked all the relevant questions which we fans hv been asking from the day one of the show. I just hope finally there will be a full stop to the term called SAB MISHTI KI WAJAH SE.

BP n BM ,thank you so much for being there for Mishti. I am sure now both Mahs n RVs will come in support of Mishti. Such a relief.

And Lastly Rhea Sharma,i seriously don't know what to say about her.. Take a bow 👏

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Arey sachi what a game changer episode vaishu no one expected that whole family will stand United 👏...jitna socha tha usse kahin zyada mila aaj 🥳

The family’s reaction was natural and expected, but picture abhi Baki hai! Once the initial shock subsides, Mami might get nasty again, her characterization is like that, brainless and cruel. The rest of them will sympathize with Mishti and support Mishbir except we still can’t trust Meenu completely inspite of her apparent sympathy and cooperation

Originally posted by: Onyourface

1. Someone on the thread was saying that let him become a ghar jamaai... I hope so 🤣

MAIN

MEENAKSHI

RAJVANSH

😎

💥💥💥💥

🤣

Yeah I read that, ghar jamai would be awesome 🤣

It's been a dream of mine to have Meenu standing with Mishti against a common enemy. I thought it might be baba, but Sonis hi sahi 😊

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Mandap se pehle logo ko realise nahi hota theek se 🤣 Mandap pe aate hi batti jalegi 😆

Kuch na ho toh atleast nidhi n mamu should think how their daughter will be treated their considering one of their son is killed by DIL of d house🤷‍♀🤷‍♀. I hope dey r not thinking ki ketu will be treated like queen in soni's house

Originally posted by: pallavi25

The family’s reaction was natural and expected, but picture abhi Baki hai! Once the initial shock subsides, Mami might get nasty again, her characterization is like that, brainless and cruel. The rest of them will sympathize with Mishti and support Mishbir except we still can’t trust Meenu completely inspite of her apparent sympathy and cooperation

Maani I never bothered to check on 😆 From being funny she is made nasty for what I don't know...

Meenu ...well I would not appreciate meenu to use at least this situation against mishti ...she can very well have her own prejudices clashes differences against mishti in future cuz Meenakshi and mishti's perspectives are as different as chalk n cheese....so they will continue having clash of thoughts....so I am expecting a smooth relationship btw them any day but not this situation....I don't want one woman to take advantage of another woman using this situation ...