Aggabai Saasubai - Zee Marathi - Thread 3 - Page 21

Originally posted by: revatiraj

या शक्यता बघूनच भीती वाटली. मला वाटते, शुभ्र सगळ्यात इम्पॉर्टन्ट आहे, dabdi is dumb, AR is too much in love and too coward, त्यामुळे तिचा जॉब फक्त oldies ना जवळ अणे नाही तर सगळ्या घराला योग्य मार्ग दाखवणे पण आहे. तिने आधीच उग्र रूप धारण करून डबडया ला बेल्ट ने फटकावून घरातून हाकलून देण्य्ची धमकी द्यायला पाहिजे होती, आणि जर डबडी मध्ये आली तर घर सोडून द्यायला पाहिजे होते, सगळे प्रॉब्लम्स सोडवून सुटत नसतात, काही सोडल्यानेच सुटतात.

म्हणजे यांना जर हि सिरीयल mnb सारखी स्ट्रेटच करायची असेल तर किती unnecessary इव्हेंट्स आणू शकतात- शुभ्राचे लग्न/बॉयफ्रेंड, babdys gf, raje's family, neighbors drama, flashbacks. आता इतकी सहन करण्याची क्षमता नाही. MNB तर अमर आहे, ती human race च्या एन्ड पर्यंत चालू राहणार यात शंका नाही.

Its sad to see how terrribley unfortunate we are, is it too much to expect some logical entertainment, is it too much to expect some story telling skills from writers?

I think the only wise way to enjoy serials is to watch first three months and then give up on them and move on. There is really no point and hope in expecting a reasonable end from these cvs.

For me, I had my fun, I wanted both of them to get married and they did, There is nothing left now worth caring. 😔

@Bold - I completely agree.

Originally posted by: DanceUntilWeDie

Me tar kadhich bolle shubhra should get a divorce.

Why to spoil your life in this terrible Kulkarni mother son drama.

Even Soham isn't interested in her it seems.

Soham does everything that he's supposed to do with his wife, with pradnya!

being shubra some thoughts in my mind

Looking at all views n opinions most of us do Want me to divorce soham as he is a big a **** bcos in current circumstances divorce seems to be Right thing to do and i can cut all my ties from him and live my life with sanity . 💪🏼

but then suddenly conflicting thought comes to my mind because of elders say that marriage is not easy its lot of work n compromise. Bcos i havent stopped loving soham do i leave him in his lowest point of life whr he is on path of self destruction and stir him in right direction. How can i forget i asked his hand for marriage to asa n ajoba N was thrilled to marry him. Is it wise that i have to invest MY time and MY energy on such a loser whr divorcing is easy way Whereas stopping him to make poor choices in life is a lost cause. Can i become elon musk and try to succeed in things whr probability of winning is almost zero . Do i stay n make soham a better person.

pardon me but 2 nd thought still lingers in my mind do i just give up on any relationship without trying hardest? 🙄

Originally posted by: Dhanusg

being shubra some thoughts in my mind

Looking at all views n opinions most of us do Want me to divorce soham as he is a big a **** bcos in current circumstances divorce seems to be Right thing to do and i can cut all my ties from him and live my life with sanity . 💪🏼

but then suddenly conflicting thought comes to my mind because of elders say that marriage is not easy its lot of work n compromise. Bcos i havent stopped loving soham do i leave him in his lowest point of life whr he is on path of self destruction and stir him in right direction. How can i forget i asked his hand for marriage to asa n ajoba N was thrilled to marry him. Is it wise that i have to invest MY time and MY energy on such a loser whr divorcing is easy way Whereas stopping him to make poor choices in life is a lost cause. Can i become elon musk and try to succeed in things whr probability of winning is almost zero . Do i stay n make soham a better person.

pardon me but 2 nd thought still lingers in my mind do i just give up on any relationship without trying hardest? 🙄

So you think shubhra hasn't tried her hardest all this time? Wow.

Also, breaking news: Woman isn't a repair shop for toxic men or plain assholes like Soham.

Its not her responsibility to make him a better man to fix him, when he's fully stable mentally and physically. She's not a doctor or psychiatrist.

If she chose to help him with his issues, provided he admits his bad behaviour, she's being the bigger person here.

Originally posted by: 10smriti

Soham does everything that he's supposed to do with his wife, with pradnya!

I won't be surprised if he starts an extramarital affair with her.

Trikut purna hoil.

Abhijeet, Anna ani Soham cha.

Originally posted by: DanceUntilWeDie

So you think shubhra hasn't tried her hardest all this time? Wow.

Also, breaking news: Woman isn't a repair shop for toxic men or plain assholes like Soham.

Its not her responsibility to make him a better man to fix him, when he's fully stable mentally and physically. She's not a doctor or psychiatrist.

If she chose to help him with his issues, provided he admits his bad behaviour, she's being the bigger person here.

your opinion is valid n i would have 100 percent agreed wt it if i was 15 yrs younger still living wt my parents. Believe me I would hv just said the same thing as u are saying.

but as u get older n having More number of years privy to lot of information from different people u meet Sometimes you do change your opinions. There are very successful rehabilitation programs for substance abuse, psych disorders , even hard core criminals in correctional facilities which u call jail in india Which are run by lot of volunteers( not drs or psychiatrists) who are not paid or even remotely related to any of these people. Its a Huge social responsibility N i have worked closely wt these selfless people In course of my profession.walking away is easier N it definately takes a bigger humanbeing to do such social work. If every person just thinks abt himself or herself saying that its not my responsibility life would evenBe harder than it is.

why shouldnt it be responsibility of spouse or parent to help your own family member to come out of Bad path n steer them in right direction. I wouldnt just abandon someone just yet as i never give up ... just my 2 cents N i may receive lot of bashing for saying this but its just what i feel will work better in soham- shubra situation.

What Soham is going through, if that was the only thing that was problematic (his job, his relationship with his mother etc) shubra could very well stay back and help him come out of his misery.

But the way Soham is treating shubra, that is disgusting, and that in my opinion is a dent beyond repair. That woman left her family, accepted your family as hers, and this is what she gets in return?

I'm surprised, how shubra even accepted the gift.

As i said my thoughts on 2 nd option won't align With most which is fine as well.

Since i may hv missed something did this soham ever physically assault shubra or if she felt unsafe around him that itself is ground for not only divorce n But an arrest due to domestic battery.
Then No forgiveness.

Mostly wat i hv seen is sohams stupidity n childish behaviour which makes me laugh actually at display I mean he has become a oppositional defiant child man who needs to be straightened out by family and therapy. Such people are cowards n they can be straightened out with Behavioural techniques which needs to be adopted by his mom n wife towards him.
enuff with babdya n mulu mulu crying😁 For such idiotic behaviour divorce isnt ie some behavioural modification technique ie cbt n family therapy.

Originally posted by: revatiraj

या शक्यता बघूनच भीती वाटली. मला वाटते, शुभ्र सगळ्यात इम्पॉर्टन्ट आहे, dabdi is dumb, AR is too much in love and too coward, त्यामुळे तिचा जॉब फक्त oldies ना जवळ अणे नाही तर सगळ्या घराला योग्य मार्ग दाखवणे पण आहे. तिने आधीच उग्र रूप धारण करून डबडया ला बेल्ट ने फटकावून घरातून हाकलून देण्य्ची धमकी द्यायला पाहिजे होती, आणि जर डबडी मध्ये आली तर घर सोडून द्यायला पाहिजे होते, सगळे प्रॉब्लम्स सोडवून सुटत नसतात, काही सोडल्यानेच सुटतात.

म्हणजे यांना जर हि सिरीयल mnb सारखी स्ट्रेटच करायची असेल तर किती unnecessary इव्हेंट्स आणू शकतात- शुभ्राचे लग्न/बॉयफ्रेंड, babdys gf, raje's family, neighbors drama, flashbacks. आता इतकी सहन करण्याची क्षमता नाही. MNB तर अमर आहे, ती human race च्या एन्ड पर्यंत चालू राहणार यात शंका नाही.

Its sad to see how terrribley unfortunate we are, is it too much to expect some logical entertainment, is it too much to expect some story telling skills from writers?

I think the only wise way to enjoy serials is to watch first three months and then give up on them and move on. There is really no point and hope in expecting a reasonable end from these cvs.

For me, I had my fun, I wanted both of them to get married and they did, There is nothing left now worth caring. 😔

I think the only wise way to enjoy most serials is not get attached to the serial. That way one won't get frustrated when the serial becomes pathetic (which it will, after sometime).

Originally posted by: DanceUntilWeDie

I won't be surprised if he starts an extramarital affair with her.

Trikut purna hoil.

Abhijeet, Anna ani Soham cha.

That will be absurd on the part of CVs. Does Pradnya have the looks? No! Does she make him happy by doing his daily chores? No! In fact she makes him slog and spend for her. It will be a travesty on the part of the writers if they show an affair between them.

But then one never can tell what depths these CV's will go to for TRPs.