*Discussion Of The Week #1* Second Marriages - Page 4

i would just leave the guy and let him marry whosoever he wants to marry for whatever reasons...

Of course I'll allow him. 😊 Not just for a reason or if there was something wrong in me. I'll accept it because I know men can still love another woman. I think their nature is different from ours . I prefer him getting married than having affairs here and there. 🤔

Originally posted by: sami011

i would just leave the guy and let him marry whosoever he wants to marry for whatever reasons...

same here...or maybe just live separately and avoid him

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

same here...or maybe just live separately and avoid him

Originally posted by: awida

Of course I'll allow him. 😊 Not just for a reason or if there was something wrong in me. I'll accept it because I know men can still love another woman. I think their nature is different from ours . I prefer him getting married than having affairs here and there. 🤔

Originally posted by: sami011

ya i might also just leave him and not even bother with legalities but definitely no way I could allow another wife....rest when situations happen ,people some times do react in unexpected ways....

the women i know whos husbands married another wife even if it was without a logical reason, like they just didnt get along with first one...the women left him but then after some time they came back...so i feel over time you get used to it and accept the situation and just prefer to save your marriage when you start thinking rationally. Now they live separately but still stay in contact with the husband.

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

the women i know whos husbands married another wife even if it was without a logical reason, like they just didnt get along with first one...the women left him but then after some time they came back...so i feel over time you get used to it and accept the situation and just prefer to save your marriage when you start thinking rationally. Now they live separately but still stay in contact with the husband.

What is the point of coming back when you live seperately!😕 either she accepts it or not.🤔

I think for the kids you may do everything. If it was only about you then it is better to leave the guy..unless you are deeply in love with him and can't live without him.😒

Originally posted by: sami011

haila bahut bahadur ho tum..... I would just leave him.I just would live my own life.....and would definitely take my kids with me.

Thank you. 😊 I don't consider it bahaduri.. maybe it is cowardness.. coz sometimes you sacrifise your own happiness for a bigger cause. When my sister went through this experience twice. We adviced her to leave him cause it was taking a toll in her health.😒 but she though why leaving him..I must fight for the sake of my kids. Untill finally he returned back and divorced the other women.🤓

Originally posted by: awida

What is the point of coming back when you live seperately!😕 either she accepts it or not.🤔

I think for the kids you may do everything. If it was only about you then it is better to leave the guy..unless you are deeply in love with him and can't live without him.😒

They dont need to come back for kids. The child still has the right to meet the father and be supported by him even after divorce.

I think the more you love the guy, the harder it is to share him with someone else to better to leave than torture yourself seeing him everyday.

Originally posted by: awida

Thank you. 😊 I don't consider it bahaduri.. maybe it is cowardness.. coz sometimes you sacrifise your own happiness for a bigger cause. When my sister went through this experience twice. We adviced her to leave him cause it was taking a toll in her health.😒 but she though why leaving him..I must fight for the sake of my kids. Untill finally he returned back and divorced the other women.🤓

I would never forgive him if it was me, if he only came back to me after leaving the second one