Originally posted by: Prinzessin1
since charu mentioned most of the things I wanted to say too, so will mainly just focus on few things which I felt again today just like last week, but didnt write it down coz it might turn into a long text and I wasnt sure wether I could get my point across properly or not. Anyway lets start ( thoughts from epi 22+23 regards to rumi and hamza):
Ok...... so obviously everyone and Rumi too once finding out that Hamza faked his "love" all this time say that he ruined her life etc. But whatever I have watched on Mr& Mrs Hamza (not watched honeymoon epis properly), I never felt that in the moments when he was together with Rumi he was never in plotting mode or ever sat in seclusion or looking out for scenarios how to "emotionally torture" her with fake love/make her fall in love. To me he always came across as a decent husband to whom its an obvious thing to treat a wife good/give her her rights etc. And it wasnt even that he was always only just enjoy being "romanced/getting ego boost from wife" but he too tried to be a pleasant partner (romance her, give her importance,supportive and most of all letting her command/boss him around etc) Yes no doubt that (all) this wasnt his entire personality.
Although he himself again in epi 23 admitted that he was playing around with her but even if he was, her Qismat isnt fully ruined. How often does one see women marrying men who have no hidden agendas, but treat their wife´s more worse than Hamza. No doubt what he did is humilating, embarrasment and feeling foolish, trust issues to an extend too for a wife. Still one can only hope that Rumi once her first anger is sort of over, she ponders deeper of what other so-called honest husbands do.
She can look arond in her own family, Azeem isnt the best of husband either (though Hamna is beyond awful too). There is something about Hamza as husband which Azeem lacks, atm cant sum it up in words (may be the fact that Hamza always took Rumi as an equal partner/let her talk- carry her heart and personality on sleeves whereas Azeem always gave the vibe that "yes your my wife but there are rules and regulations/norms etc which you have to follow and I wont compromise". I always got the impression that as a wife one cant share everything with azeem or if you will he will react outrageous and may be never forgive certain things etc.
And obviously whatever treatment she will give hamza, Rumi should give the same treatment to her sister aswell.
Rumi trusting Hamza´s words and loving actions again in future: If Hamza will at no times give vibes to want to deal with hamna regarding their past/present and strictly follow the limits which rumi would set in future regarding their interaction/contact etc than slowly he can win her trust back.
Overall I dont think Hamza is best ever hero/humanbeing etc but now that Rumi is married to him, she should also see his good sides. For her hes good enough. Mind you not many husbands would accept Rumis bluntness and the way she calls him tum and much more. But Hamza never made an issue of anything. that is a big plus.
What I never understood about hamza was, that why does/did he take being ditched in such a dramatic way?! Surely he comes from a good family. He shared a friendly bond with his father and I am sure his father must have thaught him how to deal with defeat etc in life. His mum is not bad either. In fact his bestie today came across as decent too.
Feroz khan: The Hamza of epi 22+23 I liked and I wished whilst watching that may Feroz role in khuda and mohabbat 3 be like in these 2 epis. I will go one step ahead and say that I want to see Feroz and a full fledge toned down +v role, every mother-inlaws dream damaad, every mothers dream son. I am sure it would be interesting to watch Feroz shedding/laying down all his agressions and become soft like butter and with matching face expressions 😳. I think Ive never seen Feroz cry a river/shedding pearly tears 😆, I want to see all that by him. Anyhow I was impressed of him in epi 22+23 that I am playing with the idea to write an OS on RumZa.
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