Yayy..... The chunri is back DT NOTE pg 14 - Page 11

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

Exactly ! We don’t know the truth so we shouldn’t assume that he is not wrong but we don’t know the whole truth so, we can assume that he must have done something wrong 🤷‍♀️

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Wooooahh this thread has turned into something else. Simple fact everyone is forgetting is that the following statement which is just an assumption itself is responsible for this deviation from the topic.

"is cool to act with a person who traveled recently & probably would not have completed the quarantine period. "

So intead of writing long replies to others about assumptions, let's stop assuming things first. He may have actually followed all the rules of quarantine but this little assumption has already given an impression (that too by a fan) that he didn't. Why blame media when fans are also doing so much harm to the actor. What's the point of jumping into a fire to save our favourites when that fire was put by us in the first place. Pehle aag laga lo based on assumptions and then fire brigade bhi ban jaao.

Originally posted by: grace4317

You really remind me of my father, who thinks of all the innumerable negative possibilities that can happen not only in his and his dear one's lives, but also in his door door tak rishtedar's life. And do you know iska azar kis pe pada. My Mom.... Because of all the negative energy he spreads through this unnecessary and pessimistic thought processes she became a BP patient much early and nowadays she goes into mild depression occasionally. And because of the way he sees the negative side of things, we mostly share many things with him only once we get it done. Firstly because we don't want to make him worried for us and secondly, because as he will try to scare us with his pessimistic thoughts. I was somewhat like him till 2years back; but when I realized that there is noone around me to absorb that negative energy like my mother did and that it is backfiring at me, I decided to step out of that zone. Moreover, I found it necessary to change because, with our son leaving us for his studies, i realised that if I continued like that he will not be sharing his matters with us, which might add more pressure to him along with being away from us. So, for my own good and for my loved ones, I started working on my this nature and I can tell you that it did had an improved effect on many of my health issues too. Hence, it is my humble request to you too, to please try seeing the positive side of things. You yourself will be surprised to experience a new aura around you and your loved ones.

P. S. I usually don't login at this time. But, now I did because, I wanted to share my experience with you incase this thread get closed before I logged in at my usual time. So, please don't see my request as just a blah blah blah. At least have a thought about it. 🙏

I am sorry to intervene but most of it is about personal experience. Someone in your situation would have done it in a different way. I am sure if we heard it.from your father's POV everything would sound absolutely different.

Also, if we all looked at the positive side only, no improvements would have ever happened in this world honestly. No negative effects oft the drugs and meds should be disclosed because aim is to provide relief (positive). No policy/rules improvements would happen.

Rather ignoring the negatives in important matters is worst. So a balance is always needed.

Dear All,

Please note that what an actor does in his or her personal life is none of our concern. Enough discussion Parth's pool party happened in this forum. So, let us put an end to it. If the makers and others are okay shooting with him and without any hesitation then who are we to speculate whether he is putting risk to others or not. They are all adults and know what they are doing. As per the news, all shoots are done taking care of the guidelines issued by the governing body. And moreover, this thread is not for discussing what Parth is doing in his personal life. Time and again we have asked you to stick to the topic. Kindly, do not unnecessarily deviate or indirectly instigate. Henceforth no discussion on Parth's pool party will be allowed strictly.

Thanks

KZK2 DT

Originally posted by: Koeli

Dear All,

Please note that what an actor does in his or her personal life is none of our concern. Enough discussion Parth's pool party happened in this forum. So, let us put an end to it. If the makers and others are okay shooting with him and without any hesitation then who are we to speculate whether he is putting risk to others or not. They are all adults and know what they are doing. As per the news, all shoots are done taking care of the guidelines issued by the governing body. And moreover, this thread is not for discussing what Parth is doing in his personal life. Time and again we have asked you to stick to the topic. Kindly, do not unnecessarily deviate or indirectly instigate. Henceforth no discussion on Parth's pool party will be allowed strictly.

Thanks

KZK2 DT

Thank you for this :)

Originally posted by: Sunn_shine

I am sorry to intervene but most of it is about personal experience. Someone in your situation would have done it in a different way. I am sure if we heard it.from your father's POV everything would sound absolutely different.

Also, if we all looked at the positive side only, no improvements would have ever happened in this world honestly. No negative effects oft the drugs and meds should be disclosed because aim is to provide relief (positive). No policy/rules improvements would happen.

Rather ignoring the negatives in important matters is worst. So a balance is always needed.

Why do you think we have never tried to understand why he always think about negative things only? He indeed has a reason and we do understand it. And we have stopped trying to change him as all our efforts have gone in vain. He had to pass through an insecure and scary phase during his teenage days which had left a deep scar within. But later in his life, he has been and even now is blessed & privileged in many ways and instead of focusing on those blessings and lessen his & others stress, he still clings on to what happened 60yrs back and continue to live in his scary shell. And with noone around physically to be a support to my Mom, it is causing more stress to us kids who feel helpless when we hear her out whenever we call them. We kids will adjust with all these. But, not necessary that our partners should accept such a behavior. On the contrary, if my father had taken a step to come out of this shell in his younger days, how much he himself could have been at peace and enjoyed his own life, keeping us away from all these unwanted stress. I don't want it to happen with anyone else. That is why I shared my experience.
Coming to the part of balancing between both negatives and positives, I do agree with you. Because, for me thinking about the negative aspects of a matter had made me more dependent on God. But what I have learned is, not to use this excuse to create more negativity within and around. Pinpointing negativity in everything, especially when it is about something I don't like or about something I don't know what the actual picture is, is not something I would encourage. Because, in the last 2years, I have become selfish when it comes to my mental peace and I have realised that I myself is responsible for my own mental peace. Noone else.

Let us end all the discussions here with this small story.

When PERCEPTION makes a difference.

Interviewer: How long will you have to work to buy BMW?

Doctor: I think I can buy one in 6-8 months of my practice.

MBA: I need about 11-12 months of hard work.

Engineer: At least 2-3 years of very hard work.

Mr Ratan Tata : I think... about 5 years.

Interviewer: Why so long, Mr Tata?

Mr Ratan Tata: Well, its a big company!

And let's all try to practice what Ratan Tata put up in one of his recent posts.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CBr_rVcnTVx/

THANK YOU.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Let us end all the discussions here with this small story.

When PERCEPTION makes a difference.

Interviewer: How long will you have to work to buy BMW?

Doctor: I think I can buy one in 6-8 months of my practice.

MBA: I need about 11-12 months of hard work.

Engineer: At least 2-3 years of very hard work.

Mr Ratan Tata : I think... about 5 years.

Interviewer: Why so long, Mr Tata?

Mr Ratan Tata: Well, its a big company!

And let's all try to practice what Ratan Tata put up in one of his recent posts.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CBr_rVcnTVx/

THANK YOU.

FACT- even bigger companies keep an eye on negatives (scope of improvisation) to become better. They just don't create a bubble of over positivity else they'd have died as an organisation long back. Being positive and shutting eyes to harsh reality are two different things. Presenting one sided glorious picture is no good honestly.

Fact is even after so much positivity not everyone becomes Rata Tata. Even a farmer is as positive who grows crops for thankless consumers like us. But in the name of positivity (ki kam se kam they are earning something) we ignore real plight. I know a bit out of context but your very first post was anyway completely off topic and this one took it to a different tangent. So I feel a little less guilty

PS.

Reading this story in context I feel all those who said let (old) people come out and work to run the economy so they could save the world for young generation should have been the most positive overview. Because as per their logic old people have already lived their life so they should come forward for the sacrifice. Very positive sentiment. However, reality is opposite we need to protect elders and kids first. So let's not spread wrong message in the name of positivity that too backe up by stories and quotes that have little relevance to the situation.

PPS- "is cool to act with a person who traveled recently & probably would not have completed the ... period. "

Failed to find the positivity here. So is it just for others? I am wondering. Simply put a person in a tough spot based on assumption. Positivity doesn't allow us to spread misinformation

Originally posted by: grace4317

You really remind me of my father, who thinks of all the innumerable negative possibilities that can happen not only in his and his dear one's lives, but also in his door door tak rishtedar's life. And do you know iska azar kis pe pada. My Mom.... Because of all the negative energy he spreads through this unnecessary and pessimistic thought processes she became a BP patient much early and nowadays she goes into mild depression occasionally. And because of the way he sees the negative side of things, we mostly share many things with him only once we get it done. Firstly because we don't want to make him worried for us and secondly, because as he will try to scare us with his pessimistic thoughts. I was somewhat like him till 2years back; but when I realized that there is noone around me to absorb that negative energy like my mother did and that it is backfiring at me, I decided to step out of that zone. Moreover, I found it necessary to change because, with our son leaving us for his studies, i realised that if I continued like that he will not be sharing his matters with us, which might add more pressure to him along with being away from us. So, for my own good and for my loved ones, I started working on my this nature and I can tell you that it did had an improved effect on many of my health issues too. Hence, it is my humble request to you too, to please try seeing the positive side of things. You yourself will be surprised to experience a new aura around you and your loved ones.

P. S. I usually don't login at this time. But, now I did because, I wanted to share my experience with you incase this thread get closed before I logged in at my usual time. So, please don't see my request as just a blah blah blah. At least have a thought about it. 🙏

@discolights , thank you so much for understanding the sentiment behind my reply and the problem area too. Thanks a lot.

@grace ma'am, before you draw anymore assumptions about me , this is time when every second person is going through phases of anxiety and paranoia because everyone fears losing their loved ones. Having heard so many stories around me , about how people are dying within 2 or 3 days of catching infection , young and old ,yes I am thinking too much about it and I am proud of it..it helps me remember everytime to take all precautions and educate others too....... It's better than acting irresponsible in public.... What everyone does in this world is their business but for a nutcase's stupidity, if his or her ignorance and stubbornness can lead to the death of my loved one , it becomes my business too hence my right to comment and also act in person whenever needed.

The only reason I am replying here again is ,that i want to clear it out , that gloating on your fav actor 's deeds or once your fav actor pardon me , and going to any lengths to justify him, whatsoever he does , when nobody knows the truth as per everyone, cant be justified right? Here, going to any lengths mean , the time when it was assumed that his venturing out was an act by ekta k to create a buzz...as an example.. So all this hoopla and deviation wouldn't have happened if the "ps" in the 2nd post of this thread wasnt there. The discussion would be going on smoothly if this "quarantine " fact wasnt brought up again. No "negative " thought would have come from me.

Nowhere did I say that shooting shd be stopped and actors and the whole world has gone nuts bec they are stepping out in corona times. Yes I know they are adults , and 10+ kids are allowed to step out. Entirely their "choice" and their compulsions best known to them ....neither am I happy nor sad about it.... I was only sending blessings to them. Plz continue with chunari discussion henceforth.

🏳️🏳️🏳️..... Please. 😆