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Posted: 5 years ago

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Originally posted by: aish.
Just wanted to vent about what a joke, therapy is in India. I'm sure there are many good therapists there, but they're few in number. I've been struggling for months now, so in between, I finally decided to get help. I was just prescribed nexito immediately, without even much time or consultation.

I never bothered getting help after that.

Sorry to hear that, Aish. I think that is the case, everywhere. Many doctors in the US also just like pushing pills especially when it comes to mental health. I think you should give it a try again. While SSRIs are commonly used because they are fairly safe, you should have been offered cognitive behavioral therapy as an option, too. Maybe another physician would be more open minded. Does not hurt to try again.

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Posted: 5 years ago

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Posted: 5 years ago

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Originally posted by: GrumpyTheCat

I went through a lot of threads on Sushant dating back to 2017 because of the need for me to see what I thought about him . Sadly, most were ignored by me and others.
The ones that had comments were mostly negative. Thankfully, I did defend him once on Twitter (some director guy . That asshole was so shameless that he replied with smile ) and that’s kind of my solace. I didn't go back enough to see how I felt and frankly after reading so many scathing comments I didn’t have the heart to continue and too scared to find what I could have written.
It is absolutely heartbreaking what happened and this beautiful person is no more.

While looking around those threads I found such harsh comments that some made me cry. If it were about me then I wouldn’t (because I’ve heard it all here 😂) but for Sushant, if he ever read those then it would have been devastating.
I am writing this because while going through his threads I glanced upon few recent threads and the change of few member’s comments made me seriously roll my eyes. Apparently, Sushant was “narcissistic self obsessed pretentious nerd” and Sara was the smart one who shouldn’t be dating him. Some even compared him to Kangana and called him a wannabe Aamir because of an article that said he wanted direct a movie or sth.
The onus is on us as audience for hyping the Starkids even before their debut and pull anyone else down. If people are angry at Karan or Alia or whoever then they should be angry at themselves too. Nobody had to believe the shit written but we did. They did isolate him and made him feel like a Pariah so I guess they deserve all the hate for looking down on whoever didn’t fit their idea of perfect.
Kareena’s comments and expression, Anushka’s treatment towards him, YRF backstabbing him, Karan and his guests constantly belittling him on his show and then that MeToo allegation. It must have taken a toll.

Anyway, I watched a lot of Sushant’s interviews and one thing was constant, he was very fidgety in most. Like the weird awkwardness. Then there are videos of him looking completely lost and his red eyes like he just cried.
It’s so sad to think that when he was alive all his good deeds were hidden. Hopefully , it doesn’t happen again with other outsiders.

I felt similarly. Was his fan and then sometime around Raabta's release I lost interest in him.

When the MeToo rumor came I was furious. And also believed that blind (thinking jab Hirani jaisa sant can do it, yeh bhi hoga).

I also remember articles making fun of his research for the space movie, and also the Paani fiasco. And now I can say they were no less than bullying.

I was not aware of the blind as a weapon concept. But now I realize it's like kaan mein zeher bharanaa (persistently poisoning someone's mind). We are all humans and this manipulation tactic is bound to affect some of us.

And that's why I'm pissed, along with the usual guilt.

On the highlighted part, it reminds me, this is a few years back in Anupama's interview where he was searching for some words and Anu provided them. That's when I realized he used to feel at a loss to articulate his thoughts properly sometimes. GOD bless his soul.