there's a limit to poking your nose into other people's buisness - Page 4

Originally posted by: Devi.G

Apna khud ka matlab Nikal Liya just to win argument on internet. Atleast read what she said and why she said it ..

She's a mentally ill troll. No normal person can be so vicious towards someone who just lost their father.

I didn't notice Ranbir n ok he is decently dressed but did do a double take on Neetu wearing a skinny jeans. Pretty sure there was time to change out of it ,ask a relative to get some salwar.

Its cool to be a SJW but I would've got a slap on my back from my mom if I turned up at someone's funeral in skinny jeans and tee.

If that's how it is , we can question every single thing.

Why cant we wear skimpy clothes to a religious puja or to a church , why does clothing matter ???

Why cant we wear shorts in a Puja or to a mosque or church

Why do we need to do last rites ritual, when the person has left the world already, why can't we go straight to the morgue and fire/bury

Why cant we wear slippers inside a temple

You could question everything , coz everything is your personal choice and your state of mind matters more but is it really that simple.

As I said before , it's not that simple or easy

One must be a special kind of ass to nitpick the attire of someone who has lost his father and that too in the name of religion

Aapke dharm ne agar insaaniyat bhi nahin sikhayi toh phir kya hi seekha aur samjha aapne.

Saare rituals ratt liye par dharam ka "saar" hi bhool gaye

Originally posted by: Devi.G

Ok you won the argument for today. Be happy now

I think I won even before the argument started. As there was no argument in the first place.

Originally posted by: tina59

If that's how it is , we can question every single thing.

People do get questioned for everything. That’s what this world is. While this shouldn’t have happened to Ranbir it’s hardly the first time something like it has happened

Originally posted by: Nahiiinnn

I didn't notice Ranbir n ok he is decently dressed but did do a double take on Neetu wearing a skinny jeans. Pretty sure there was time to change out of it ,ask a relative to get some salwar.

Its cool to be a SJW but I would've got a slap on my back from my mom if I turned up at someone's funeral in skinny jeans and tee.

It is not "anybody"s funeral it is her husband funeral. Husband with whom she has spent 40+ years. Who was her better half. We cannot even fathom the kind of pain she felt at that moment or what she is going through now. It is not your life that has changed absolutely nothing has changed in our life it is her life and it is her children s life which is never going to be the same again So better stop passing judgements

Is it is so difficult to be human enough to leave somebody alone even at this juncture of their life

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

It is not "anybody"s funeral it is her husband funeral. Husband with whom she has spent 40+ years. Who was her better half. We cannot even fathom the kind of pain she felt at that moment or what she is going through now. It is not your life that has changed absolutely nothing has changed in our life it is her life and it is her children s life which is never going to be the same again So better stop passing judgements

Is it is so difficult to be human enough to leave somebody alone even at this juncture of their life

Lol Chillax, no need to get so emotional. Neither am I going to her insta, tagging Neetu and saying all these things.

If it was any other widow in INDIA she would be scrutinized by her family n friends but then in BW sab chalta hai. Sorry to say but sitting on a forum its easy to say lets not be judgmental, but Indians are judgmental lot,definitely when it comes to culture. Plz be truthful to yourself, you would also wonder, hai this aunty is wearing jeans to funeral. I mean ppl give judgey looks when you even wear jeans to a temple here in US.

Originally posted by: Nahiiinnn

Lol Chillax, no need to get so emotional. Neither am I going to her insta, tagging Neetu and saying all these things.

If it was any other widow in INDIA she would be scrutinized by her family n friends but then in BW sab chalta hai. Sorry to say but sitting on a forum its easy to say lets not be judgmental, but Indians are judgmental lot,definitely when it comes to culture. Plz be truthful to yourself, you would also wonder, hai this aunty is wearing jeans to funeral. I mean ppl give judgey looks when you even wear jeans to a temple here in US.

No i don't wonder because human emotions matter to me more. I wear jeans to temple so am not sure what you are talking about

Originally posted by: Nahiiinnn

Lol Chillax, no need to get so emotional. Neither am I going to her insta, tagging Neetu and saying all these things.

If it was any other widow in INDIA she would be scrutinized by her family n friends but then in BW sab chalta hai. Sorry to say but sitting on a forum its easy to say lets not be judgmental, but Indians are judgmental lot,definitely when it comes to culture. Plz be truthful to yourself, you would also wonder, hai this aunty is wearing jeans to funeral. I mean ppl give judgey looks when you even wear jeans to a temple here in US.

Sure people would judge IN NORMAL TIMES. These aren't normal times. It's not as if she had the luxury to go home and change before showing up for cremation. There is a quarantine, and there are rules.

This isn't an example of Bollywood mein sab chalta hain. This is am example of Bollywood following rules.

She was likely wearing that at the hospital and given how quickly funeral happened, went straight to cremation centre.