Originally posted by: HearMeRoar
When some kind of glory is attached to Karna for refusing Krishna's offer, we're assuming:
1. Krishna's offer was genuine when Pandavas didn't authorize him to offer the empire to anyone else. Moreover, he offers Panchali, a woman on whom he had no authority (I use the term because of the times) - she was neither his sister, nor his daughter, nor his wife. If any of us offered a neighbor's wife to a 3rd man...😆 You get the gist. Moreover, according to Vedic rules, a younger brother's wife was akin to daughter which is why it is stated specifically Yudhishtira married first. Then, there is the promise Krishna made to Panchali to see Karna dead. There is also the instance where Krishna tells Arjuna it is perfectly all right to lie to an enemy.
2. Glory assigned to Karna means he didn't actually understand Krishna's shrewdness and ability to manipulate. For all his faults, Karna was an intelligent man.
3. Glory assigned to Karna means he assumed if he actually agreed to switch, Krishna would've actually let him live long enough to take the throne and not end up like Shishupala.
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Back to the topic, I think perhaps the friendship started out of mutual necessity, but it gives off genuine vibes.
Krishna very well knew Karna would never accepted this offer and even if he did, we have enough citations to prove he was not as good as Arjun. Now if he fights on Arjun's side, what makes anyone think Duryodhan won't get so angry as to kill Karn himself and if he doesn't because he loved him, Bhishma, Drona etc were present who were not fond of him. Krishna knew very well what he was doing.
IE: Panchali. If we really consider Krishna ACTUALLY made that offer, that literally ruins all the good wishes Krishna bore for Panchali because she isn't a freaking object to be shared with the sixth brother. And even basic versions of epic will tell you Krishna cared more about Panchali than Karna. 🤣