Raaz E Ulfat(Geo) Gohar, Komal ,Shehzad ,Yumna DT note pg 124 & 129 - Page 24

Originally posted by: _NINA_

I have seen such girls who get spoiled in universities and mostly these girls belong to strict families. Its human nature jitna insan ko kisi chezz sy mana karo uska utna dil chata hai wo chezz karney ka. Its just a game of nafs (psyche).Jisny nafs par qabo paa lia usney apny app ko bacha lia.

I see. Me as a Uni teacher saw some girls who are like that too. But most of ppl her come from middle class or poor families, even if they want to be spoiled , they can't afford to.😆 only few Uni girls drive cars and live freely, that's why I found Mushk's behaviour strange.😕

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

exactly...that is why arab girls are the most bigri hui because of their strict families

my aunt had a job as a teacher in saudia arabia and she used to tell us how difficult it was to handle the girls there....she left that job and came back

My Aunt used to live in Saudi Arab and she used to tell me that there girls wore abaya but under abaya their cloths are not representative. They mostly wear shorts and t shirts.

Originally posted by: awida

I see. Me as a Uni teacher saw some girls who are like that too. But most of ppl her come from middle class or poor families, even if they want to be spoiled , they can't afford to.😆 only few Uni girls drive cars and live freely, that's why I found Mushk's behaviour strange.😕

But there are many girls who belongs to middle class and poor families but still they manage to look modern by wearing gens shirt. They use ti get needy based schlorships but they haven't informed about this to their parents. Even i have seem such girls who used to wear duppatta on their head and some those who used to do nikab when they came from houses or when went back to houses but after reaching university duppatta nikab sab gaib aur university aty hi makeup start ho jata hai.Apki company ka appy bhot asar parta hai especially in teens. Muskh is a girl with weak mind having less confident. She easily got impressed by sahiban bcoz she never saw that side of life. Simply i would say jagaa achi yan buri nhi hoti bilky yeh insan par hota hai k wo kitna acha yan bura hai uska imaan kitna mazboot hai.

Contrary to this I feel Mushk is just finding her solace. Living under such a situation is difficult. The way her father responded when she said maza arha hai was honestly horrifying. When parents act like this people are bound to create their areas of freedom, which the university is now for Mushk. And having a good character has nothing to do with her trying to look for places where she can exercise her agency.

I have conducted a research and written a paper on it too. So I really understand when these girls use white lies, or do certain things its just their way of defying the order that has been set up which they think is unjust and it surely is.

I don't think our religion wants us to suffocate and die. When parents give you your areas of freedom you are less likely to get overboard with it when you find such spaces.

Originally posted by: _NINA_

But there are many girls who belongs to middle class and poor families but still they manage to look modern by wearing gens shirt. They use ti get needy based schlorships but they haven't informed about this to their parents. Even i have seem such girls who used to wear duppatta on their head and some those who used to do nikab when they came from houses or when went back to houses but after reaching university duppatta nikab sab gaib aur university aty hi makeup start ho jata hai.Apki company ka appy bhot asar parta hai especially in teens. Muskh is a girl with weak mind having less confident. She easily got impressed by sahiban bcoz she never saw that side of life. Simply i would say jagaa achi yan buri nhi hoti bilky yeh insan par hota hai k wo kitna acha yan bura hai uska imaan kitna mazboot hai.

I agree. It is not about the class, here all women wear abaya , hijab, and most of them wear naqab too. It doesn't mean that they don't do wrong things secretly.😔 or don't wear shorts and t shirts under those abayas. I envy Pakistani women , coz they still wear traditional dresses which are acc to Islamic roles. Sadly here those dresses disappeared, only few women wear galabiya which is a long dress with long sleeves.😒

Originally posted by: awida

I agree. It is not about the class, here all women wear abaya , hijab, and most of them wear naqab too. It doesn't mean that they don't do wrong things secretly.😔 or don't wear shorts and t shirts under those abayas. I envy Pakistani women , coz they still wear traditional dresses which are acc to Islamic roles. Sadly here those dresses disappeared, only few women wear galabiya which is a long dress with long sleeves.😒

You re talking about yemen right. I guess even Saudia has same culture. I have witnessed this mostly in Arab countries. Unfortunately they are not following our culture but yeah still there are exceptions. Yeah in Pakistan mostly girls wear cultural dresses.

Originally posted by: _NINA_

You re talking about yemen right. I guess even Saudia has same culture. I have witnessed this mostly in Arab countries. Unfortunately they are not following our culture but yeah still there are exceptions. Yeah in Pakistan mostly girls wear cultural dresses.

Yes. I am talking about Yemen.😊 our culture is breathing its last. but fortunatly women don't wear western dresses in front of ajnabi men. 😃 Do you know in some functions here like mehndi many women prefer to wear Indian dresses. We call them Indian although they are dressed in Pakistan too. 😃

Originally posted by: awida

Those Arab Gulf girls come from rich families, their parents depend on maids to rise them. They don't get the right education or family values. Alhamdulillah not all Arab girls are like that.😊

Mushk isn't a teenager (maybe yes.🤓) But she behaves like one. When she told her sister about her friend she was over excited.

of course not all girls will be the same thats not what i meant...in all cultures there are shareef girls too

most arab famillies are filthy rich tho

Mushk is a girl from a strict family who never got the love and attention which girls crave for from their fathers...those girls do become the way Mushk is behaving when they turn adults, they behave childish and demand attention from other places thats why its so easy to manipulate them

Originally posted by: awida

Yes. I am talking about Yemen.😊 our culture is breathing its last. but fortunatly women don't wear western dresses in front of ajnabi men. 😃 Do you know in some functions here like mehndi many women prefer to wear Indian dresses. We call them Indian although they are dressed in Pakistan too. 😃

Yeah but we call them indian bcoz they are more revealing but in middle class Paki wedding women don't wear revealing cloths but yeah upper class are definitely following indian wear.

So mushk is getting inspired by shaiban. She want to become like her. Shaiban is fascinating her or i would say the freedom that shaiban has that is fascinating for mushk. Her sister was right she is misusing the trust of her parents. She had only 2 meetings with shahzad sheikh but she is thinking about him. Matlab ek romaal par itni zaida smile. Indeed she has a weak personality. She can inspire from such things which she never had.