Originally posted by: DeliciousDevil.
Paras Shehnaaz and Sidharth !!
Initially, Shehnaaz had a crush on Paras. From my observation, Paras really likes Shehnaaz. Voh hai hi aisi that anyone can fall in love with her ā¤ļø Shehnaaz has set some quality that she wanted in her boyfriend. For her, if the guy loves her , he should listen to her. If she say sit, then he should sit. She told Paras agar tu Mera hota main tuhje yaha se hilne nahi dehti (sort of). She has a dominating personality and that didn't go well with Paras. A man like Paras likes submission. He couldn't own Shehnaaz. He was afraid of her dominating nature and brave personality. He picked Mahira so that they can create triangle btwn them. Besides, Mahira has no stand. She will do whatever Paras tell her to do. A submissive that Paras wanted was there in Mahira Sharma.
Coming to Sidharth, he lets Shehnaaz dominate him. He make sure he fullfil whatever she wanted him to do. If she ask him to sit, he will sit. If she ask him not to talk, he will not. Sidharth become ideal boyfriend that she had been searching. He has all the quality. But at the same time, Sidharth was not a submissive. He dominate Shehnaaz equally. Their relationship works despite all the hurdle is bcs one of them will bend if needed. That is the best quality of a successful relationship. There is big fat ego, but they will leave behind their egos when necessary.
Paras till the end liked shehnaaz and always regretted that she was really really attached to sid and was ready to anything and everything for sidharth , which she never agreed to with paras .
Shehnaaz never ever gave a peck to paras when he kept begging and Siddhartha toh khair......
Paras also observed that when he didnot speak to shehnaaz in initial weeks , it hardly bothered her , but when sidharth didnot speak to her she was all lost .
So in that week when sidnaaz had their first distancing , paras tried to spend maximum time with shehnaaz to get her back with him permanently. But one hug from sid and sana was gone !!!!!That was the influence sidnaaz had on each other right from start , which paras never had . They were lost when they didnot speak to each other .
About dominance , I dont think its dominance shehnaaz wanted , She didnot want to dominate her man , She just craved for romantic pampering !!! She wanted her man to charm her with his attention . And shehnaaz is intelligent and she loves good healthy flirting . That is what she was looking for in her man . And paras failed miserably in that department even with mahira .
On the other hand sidharth was a master is all those aspects . He pampered her , charmed her , was all there listening to her ,flirted with her . All of it . And she fell and how !!
About dominating , it will always be sidharth . And he will do it in a way she wont even realise he is getting his way !!!! She will do it willingly !! Look at her SM behaviour right now !!!
But yes a wifey types hold she will always have on him .WHenever shehnaaz said "chup baith" for a sec he would go quiet , then again remember oh I am sidharth and start his fight again .But he listens to her on reflex .
That is LOVE !!!
Edited by Meenakshi-rg - 5 years ago