How intention can make an action different - Page 2

Originally posted by: Nailah_EjFian

With regards to RB-PB’s deal:

I was under the impression that the sharma was upset with Prerna because of the way Prerna dealt with the situation and not because of RB’a deal or actions... Our Madam left with her suitcase quietly without informing anyone, went and got married with full rituals without inviting or informing her family... Veena Ma got to know about this from the Great Mohini Basu, and she is the last person who knows how to communicate with ppl without insulting them..

So, Prerna was fully responsible on how the sharma’s behaved with her.. As far as I am aware, RB always respected the sharmas.

Coming to Anurag Basu now:

1. I didnt like the fact that he took the decision on his one that affected soo many lives..

Prerna did the same wen she accepted to get married to bajaj

2. Prerna could have died way before she hit the water-- it's an assumption

3. How will anyone justify the separation between a young mother and a 2 yr old daughter? Who is solely responsible for that? ---- they have not shown anything related to sneha and wat was Anurag's role in that...it's again an assumption made by ppl

RB wanted a mother for his daughter, a family home... If he wanted a nanny, then he could have made her the maid of the house and not Mrs Bajaj... so it means if someone wants something for himself n his family he has the right to destroy others to get it...he knew prerna was pregnant with Anurag's child and they both loved eo but since he wanted a mother for his daughter he has the right to blackmail anyone to get her Married to him irrespective of her wish..

Mrs Bajaj.. Mrs Prerna Bajaj - the name says it all...

The same name that gave Pre equality, freedom and an identity that is more than just a PA or a nurse to the Basu..

I frgt to add one point anurag also lost his father rights from his unborn baby when that deal marriage took place and both pre and bjaj had no regret or guilt for that.

Originally posted by: surbhi1995

I frgt to add one point anurag also lost his father rights from his unborn baby when that deal marriage took place and both pre and bjaj had no regret or guilt for that.

He lost not just the rights but the ACTUAL BABY the moment he threw Prerna off the bridge, the moment he put his hands down in front of Komolika. He did even better, this time he didn't even snatch away his own rights but sath mein he took away prerna's rights to be with her dauhter and Sneha's rights to be with her mother. He played God to everyone without there permission.

You decide which is worse? Baby with biological mom and a step father who unconditionally accepted her ya leave her to her destiny. Ja beta jo milega ussey khush rehna (in case he has no idea where sneha is) ya fir ja beta I got you new caretakers (in case he kept her far from everyone's reach in the name of safety because he himself couldn't protect or stand for his own child)

I feel losing rights is anytime better than losing the child itself.

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

Agar bat intention kay atee hai then lets start from the beginning . just shuru se shuruyat karte hai .

Like Naveen babu ka entry hui kahase .. basu family kay bajajse ... and mohini ka intention was to make marital relationship bet naveen n prerna. her intention was not to destroy pre's life .. becoz of her intention prerna life turned as hell ...

Mohini was never hailed for blackmailing ore to get married to Naveen.. however anurag saver her frm that marriage to life kab hell hui----aisa kuchh show me dikhaya???

Dint Mohini showed prerna her ghar's paper n later pre agreed to do marry naveen ? was not it ? mujhe iyea part iyad hai kyunki after watching prerna's majburi i lost my whole connection from prerna n left this forum . and isi marriage kay bajajse AnuPre kareeb aye, bachcane kay baad they did the jungle kand and rest of the part toh history .

jitna maine dekha prerna apne ghar bachane kay liye NB se shadi karne kay liye raji hui thi . is not it .. dint mohini show the paper of it ? yes anurag saved her from the marriage , but iska after math keya hua , anupre mile , ek uncertain jindagi for prerna where she got pregu and so on ... bat idhar intention ki hui .. i am pointing those things ek normal intention ka aftermath keya ho sakte hai .

later anurag saved preyu .. inhi challte uss save karne kay chalte chalte anurag -prerna ka peyar ho geye .. they did consummation jiska result hai sneha .. anurag ka intention was not to hurt pre, only giving love.. but end result sneha , pre marriage pregnancy jiska abtak ka keya anjam on going woh toh hum sabnei dekhlia ----anuPre consummation was mutual to jo anurag k intentions the wo preyu k bhi the....

but offer toh anurag kay tarafse aye the na pehle , no pre.. shahed dono NB kay shadi mai itne kareeb na ati .. shahed itna kuch na hote .

. inhi beech mishka through komo anurag kayi jindagi mai ayee .. anurag ka intention was not to hurt prerna , but he married komolika to save pre's ghar ..

Anurag agreed to Komolika's deal bcoz both prerna n Veena begged him to save Rajesh at any cost just like moh n nivi sent pre to bajaj

komo prerna kay jindagi aye bhi hai basu family kay through. komo had no issue with prerna , but becoz of her obsessed love for anu , pre suffered more than anyone. This is the impact of some intentions .

komolika / mishka kay entry kiske bajajse hua tha prerna kay jindagi mai ?

jiske chalte prerna bin bihai ma bani , faced enormous insult bla bla bls.. ye kab hua...as far as I remember kahin bhi show me prerna ko bin biyahi maa nhi dikhaya the day she got to know about her pregnancy next day she was in bb claiming to be anurag's wife..

Dhaaga marriage is not any kind of marriage , jo baad mai complete null n void hui . she came on basu badi just to break komo's married life on basis of a dhaaga which has no legal value at all. and end of the track , that was rejected by cv as well as.

yes she came to claim as anurag's biwi on the name of some dhaaga to break komo's married life . and also she got enormous tanee n insults from basu family. also i saw a scene where anurag insulted prerna like kuch bhi infront of society. did pre deserve that ? nope.

also komo kay ane se ek time kay baad pre lost her father .. everything .. chalo idhar bhi anurag ka intention was not to hurt , he only wanted prerna's happiness. but at the end result , sabkoi pata hai ...so komo killed rajesh and for that anurag n his intentions have to be blamed

Nope i am not blaming anurag , as TM raised intention and action part .. i am just elaborating the root , how intentions's aftermath would be horrible for someone's life .

now bajaj part .. bajaj ka entry bhi prerna kay jindagi mai hui hai basu family kay bajajse. To save anurag , mohini- nivi sent her to bajaj and bajaj offered her a deal on term and condition . prerna ko woh sauda manjur hui and they married. now mohini - nivi ka intention was anurag's happiness , but at the end prerna had to marry ... this was the same case with anurag both Veena n pre begged him to save Rajesh at any cost..Veena to uske pairo pe gir gayi n pre said bas unko bacha lo bas ye aakhiri cheej kar do phr I won't ask u anything and where was anurag n his intentions involved here...

Everything has the start and end . what was the intention and later end result .. bat usi chis pe ho rahe hai .. everything is inter connected here ...

in swiss , prerna was not alone at all .. pura Swiss mai anurag glued with prerna like anything. har ek jagah follow karna and what not . yes prerna was detached from her family just for time being . cos bajaj shadi stayed for 1/2 months as per show's timeline . swiss se ane kay baad 2 din kay andar they came to live under basu roof .. toh anupre ka EMA was talk of the town . prerna kuch din kay baad maikay mai ana jana everything she did whatever she wanted .. even on that time bajaj helped veena to earn money in subtle way ..

but as naveen n bajaj are third wheel , so they all termed in villain category ...chlo achcha hai u categorised both Naveen n Bajaj in the same category...and both have won awards for a negative role so how can they not be considered as villian...as per my knowledge the negative award is for the villian or vamp of the show.

Iss show mai har ek Third wheel villain category mai aye hai no matter what how much they would do right things. and jo bhi anupre kay jindagi mai ayega no matter what they will be portrayed as villain / kasauti and

of course bajaj is grey (mix of positive negative ) character , confirmed by muzzu desai ( he termed bajaj as villainero) . and in award show there have not any particular part for grey character. toh obviously he will get negative award . thanks for reminding this. hopefully he will win again this year .

But anurag's intention , anurag's actions and the aftermath .. basu families connection to make pre's life hell everything will be justified by cv as anurag is white as per track . so he will get sympathy from cv .

and yah i agree with your last line . agar Bajaj , naveen babu , komolika wrong hai , despite being a positive character Anurag same category mai ate hai directly , indirectly balki kahi jeyada ,