Parenting and Hormonal Teenagers

Dear Prerna,

This is a thank you letter from women who think otherwise!

Thank you for turning Kukki into an absolutely dimwit like you. A girl in teens with an ambition to find love!

I am absolutely thrilled to see how accomplished
you are as a business woman who dreams about nothing but getting romantically involved with the man who tried to kill you. And, you made cookie exactly like you. At the age of 18, she has dreams of marrying Indian boys. I would like to take a moment to completely acknowledge the fact that hormonal teenagers are absolutely attracted towards the opposite sex or maybe even the same. Finding love, having romantic connotations, defiance, parental rebellion is absolutely common amongst teenagers. But, I need to applaud you for giving her a personality that revolves around finding love. I wonder where are the sharp genes of a classic mentor and a shrewd businessman like her father. I have seen many teenagers who have great a mission to talk about getting admission in prestigious colleges, have a life to build. But, instead she wants to go to Calcutta because she had heard about Indian boys. I can’t help but feel a little pity for you that you have an Adhuri Kahank with your soulmate. But, instead you are an epic role model for aspiring young women who want to leave everything about their existence and spend it around finding a miserable love and life. It sometimes makes me wonder whether life is only about a hope for reunion with your true love? What about those women who have built a life, career and evolved to become something truly worthy and inspire generations to come. Nonetheless, getting back to your amazing parenting skills, I think both Bajaj and you have failed cookie as parents. I’d rather see a girl who has a real ambition in life and not behave dreamy eyed only about Indian boys. Thank you again.

And, those who think I am not blaming her father, I am certainly blaming him too. Whatever happened to the doting father who would raise cookie to be an epitome of strength and a heart full of love. Sorry to say, but you’ve failed as a father too.

So well written.

You expressed my thoughts completely.

Nowdays girls are ambitious, they want to make their mark in the world.

Why does kuki look so scared all the time?

Wish they ahd showed her as a spunky teenager.

Will be interested to know how prerna manages kuki and her love affair.

Will prerna be mature enough?
or will prerna be bothered at all?

All prerna can see right now is revenge .

Worst chaperone to send with a teeange girl.

Originally posted by: manj

So well written.

You expressed my thoughts completely.

Nowdays girls are ambitious, they want to make their mark in the world.

Why does kuki look so scared all the time?

Wish they ahd showed her as a spunky teenager.

Will be interested to know how prerna manages kuki and her love affair.

Will prerna be mature enough?
or will prerna be bothered at all?

All prerna can see right now is revenge .

Worst chaperone to send with a teeange girl.

It can go either ways..she will. Be veena ma to cookie 🤣 Or she will give her a yellow dupatta and ask her to find love below it . Live thy kasautis n pre will rescue her from howrah

@piu, awesome post 👏

Piu, I am not sure if you have seen initial episodes Prerna was herself in a fantasy land with dried roses in romantic novels under her pillow , her aim used to be to fall in love and marriage , or be a thorn bird or something on those lines, even when Anurag asked her to study economics she used to read romantic fantasy novels .

So this could be her influence on Kukki

not all but quite a few teenagers do live in fantasy land of love and dating , without having any ambitions . Kukki is one of those teenagers , I don't think there is anything "not normal " or out of the box, with her character , she is a typical teenager .. like Pre was

but when Prerna herself at this age has no ambition other than her soulmate n soul love ,Kukki ko kya kehena, influence rubbing on Kukki

parental or any influence >>>>>>>> parental genes

Awesomest post Chatterjee.

Well the mother influenced more than the father considering father wasy away with business and she was attached to Prerna more. Bajaj being strict with her only because he knows she is anything but what it should be hence they are not in talking terms. What else to say, what a disappointment! What a disgrace! Prerna 2 on your way.

Originally posted by: TeAmo_Messi

Why Blame prerna only ? She's no way responsible for the dimwit daughter of Bajaj. Infact she never claimed that she came to London to raise kuki, it's the dimwit's father who did. And how big of a trash bag is Bajaj? Begging for love and romancing prerna but he doesn't even have a loving relationship with his daughter? His daughter is scared of him, it only means that he has never given kuki any freedoms or space and now thanks to his sort of ignorance that she's thinking about boys only.

Bajaj is a classic mentor ? LMAO 🤣 .. what happened to this mentor who couldn't even care to give time to his daughter ? Prerna's daughter was two days old, and yet she's bashed so much for being insensitive whereas bajju's daughter is a teen and all he does is be grumpy with her and allows her to go to a place like India where nobody will have Time to protect her ? Wow what a phantastic classh he has .. 😆

Selective reading? I blame Bajaj too. He should have left Prerna to die and enjoy all the bliss of her love. Also, he should never have made an entry into her life begging for love! He is trash, I get it but that doesn’t change the fact that Prerna too is!

I hope that clears my perspective!

Grown up kukki is Second version of Prerna...

Originally posted by: WaqtZaya

Awesomest post Chatterjee.

Well the mother influenced more than the father considering father wasy away with business and she was attached to Prerna more. Bajaj being strict with her only because he knows she is anything but what it should be hence they are not in talking terms. What else to say, what a disappointment! What a disgrace! Prerna 2 on your way.

Ankie it's not about not being talking terms .. they do share a relation , Kukki herself said "dad doesn't speak much" Bajaj is introvert character , man of few words , calm and composed and Kukki might have interpreted or took it as RB's strictness and she was more of chutter putter character connected to Pre

And also Bajaj was cheeky with his "continue" when he said Kukki to continue her jig 😆
there is nothing like hate or disappointment between them ... they tried or gave a traditional twist of "strict father" image and Kukki seemed not to hate or dislike it's just a conservation twist #DDLJ

Also i feel that living room showed the dynamics of their family .. the typical one , with very good vibes, if a kid want to go on a trip they don't ask dad directly .. they ask thru mom and that scene precisely showed Prerna's place in their lives .

and when I read LU i was like what did she do ... but when I watched episode it was totally something else infact i liked Kukki and the vibes between the trio .

remember Bajaj used the same line "... come here please" wala when kukki was kid in BB home (whom do u love the most) he is the same dad back then and now and so is the daughter and i don't get the whole hoopla abt her ..

EDIT : and RB is not disconnected with Kukki, when he called Kukki " What .... come here please" neither pre not kukki said anything yet he understood what she wanted "aap Kolkata jaana chahte ho ?"
when i saw that scene i recollected RB and Kukki's scenes when she was kid ... it's same father daughter

This show sucks. Now onwards, if I have to say that someone's writing is bad, I will just say your writing is Kasauti ke writers.

I think it is too early to comment on how is the relationship between Kukki - Bajaj and Kukki - Prerna. There have been only two episodes of her and very limited screen space.

Neither we can comment on her upbringing. I am sure Prerna would not have inspired her for dreaming about love as she herself has lost her faith in it.

However, surprising is children with such parents are completely against love. But Kukki is opposite. I am sure the writers must have goofed up with her character.