Rudra uses Ananya as a doormat - Page 3

Originally posted by: Shriyareddy

Sab aapne hi toh kiya... You created that girl jisne mere zindagi ko mujhse cheen liya.. She took away my Mrs roy tag... Tune sab kiya...

Hi

@ beyond horizon

Agree with you that Anu felt hurt that she was ditched at the altar . No one wants to go that route . But for me it’s better to get hurt at the altar than to stay in marriage with out love. Why do we need to bring Sanjh from S1 to compare her to Anu. Let’s limit the comparison to this season S2 . By the way Rudra gave her the space. It’s her who’s is not giving the space to her self . She came back as per the request of uncle MJ. She stayed back when MJ asked her during Rishikesh track . She is the one who brings topic about Maya at the work place all the time . @sss agree with what u said , she does not need to make Rudra guilty of marrying Maya .

@ SSS

Agree what u said she blackmailed him when he left her at the altar that he can never come back to him . But it’s her who came back . Also agree with u , at night time while eating ice cream she was teasing him that he got mayaitis and he can never go with any one except her even if he has love or no love towards her .

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I would kind of differ here. There have been a lot of arguments regarding this where some blamed Ananya for accepting Rudra's proposal, some blamed her for being Saanjh part 2 and what not. She knew Rudra didn't love her but did she know he loved Maya? An onlooker could say Rudra was drawn to Maya but just from a 3rd person's perspective it was hard to conclude MayRa would end up sharing the kind of bond they have now, back then. Also Ananya knew Rudra didn't love her and Rudra was also honest when he proposed to her. She accepted his proposal happily as she felt her love for Rudra was sufficient for both of them and their future. Not all marriages are based on love unlike the popular opinion that love is what makes a marriage work. Mutual respect, trust and understanding outweigh love any day and that was there in RuAn relationship in the past. So no. Ananya was not wrong here. But after promising to never break her trust, Rudra backs off on the day of the wedding. And no matter what MayRa fans (me included) have to say, one cannot deny Ananya was humiliated on the day of her wedding before the world. Only a blind fan will expect Ananya to forgive Rudra and move on happily. Its not possible. Rudra too in his defense took a right decision, though at a horrible time and at a horrible price. Had he married Ananya knowing he loved Maya he would have ruined Ananya's life. That marriage would have been nothing but a sham. He saved her from a heartbreak but gave her another. Yes Ananya was spared a loveless marriage but what about her dreams that were brutally shattered before the world and the poor girl could not even shed tears (talking about the time when she douses the havan kund and calls off the wedding). So anyone calling her names, please keep urselves in her place and think. Would u forgive ur best friend after this? Rudra is not wrong in wanting Ananya back in his life. He knows he has hurt her but he doesn't want to loose his best friend. But what he needs to understand is that Ananya needs her space to get over the heartbreak he caused. He has to give her her space so that she can decide if she wants to forgive him or not and resume their friendship. Rudra has lost that right on Ananya and its upto Ananya if she decides to give that right to Rudra or not. Ananya is not wrong in any way for me. Not till now at least. And though I admit Rudra broke her heart he did not use her as a doormat. He valued her friendship in the past and he does that now as well.

Then why doesn’t she just do what she promised to do, that is leave and exit from his life for good? What is she waiting for?

Why is she holding back if she is really angry at Rudra? Just resign and leave with all your might and never even bother to look back at him. If she cares even a bit about her self respect then just freaking leave.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I agree Rudra uses annaya as doormat

Rudra never was a good friend of annaya from starting only. He cheated on her and used her innocence and love feelings to him to destroy her. Although others may say hes great friend and never told her loves her. But he said "i want to marry you" just to remove his guilt feeling on love towards Maya. So he used her as a bouncing board to experiement an guinea pig to test on his feelings. After proposing to marry annaya did he stay loyal to her, no he went and kept meeting Maya on silly pertex like Rishi died etc and played games with annayas feelings by hidding his feelings for Maya from her. I would say if you are going to marry a boy or a girl in few days if he or she meets her lover behind back and does all lovey dovey things is that cheating? or not?? Its cheating actually, its a crime too you are playing with another human life. Ananya trusted him enough but he betrayed her many times. Ananya was mad in love to let him play with her and should have broken the engagement only not waited for marriage. It is surprising that many people support rudra here and say ananya is wrong. If same thing a person does to you and many say its your fault how will you feel?

Even on marriage day look at that rudra ran off from back door did not go and tell people why he called of marriage etc. How clever selfish human he is? Left a girl at altar and ran off making her face world and its cruel questions. Luckily ananya is bold not innocent so drank her tears and humilations. Now MJ playing with her to help him save Rudra from Maya. Why should she? Ananya loves rudra too much now too so shes staying back. Rudra also doing emotional blackmail saying this is our dream etc.

Maya also playing games with ananya hates her and always ready to kill her as shes scared ananya knows her truth and may reveal it one day rishis death secret, but acts so goody goody in front of rudra.

If Maya deserves sympathy for what MJ did to her, does annaya not deserve sympathy for being betrayed by rudra and attacks by maya etc all playing games with her in MJ house?

Just because Maya is heroine whatever she does ok just because rudra hero all wrongs are ok but ananya wrong even if shes right? What logic is that? In eyes of society and law and God rudra is wrong for what he did to ananya. Maya is completely wrong playing games with a man engaged to others by calling him to pool and hrishikesh etc. I am not sure but society and law and God will sympathise with ananya not maya and Rudra thats the truth bitter but truth

As for taunting rudra any human in her place would do that, she has pain and anger in her hand.

If you see the man or women who betrayed you at altar will you hug and laugh and play with them? That too they were your childhood friends and they betrayed you so badly. Should ananya dance and sing with rudra? Further he keeps talking about maya in front of a woman whom he left at altar. Hes lucky other woman would have hit him black and blue. Hes a shameless insensitive man like MJ only. One character that hes got from genes i guess

ananya may be immature in love but what about rudras behaviour towards ananya? Whys he acting so immature?

What MJ did to Maanvi was all planned and deliberate. MJ was exploiting Maanvi and hurt her intentionally, besides all the physical abuse he made her go through. He murdered her child, her identity. MJ tried to murder Maanvi and her family as well. MJ lied to Maanvi about loving her , Rudra was always clear about how he felt when it came to Ananya. Yes he was wrong to propose to her just to get over his feelings from Maya but he did the right thing by not marrying her. Yes you are right that she got ditched at the altar and it’s okay to sympathize with her for that, however she was spared from a sham that would have been called a marriage and that is why Rudra is better compared to his father who was indulging in EMAs.

@bold if that were to happen I would simply cut off all ties with the concerned person. Besides that I wouldn’t even wish to see the person or be anywhere near them. Which is why she should leave if she is true to her hurtful feelings unless she planning a revenge plot against Rudra.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I agree Rudra uses annaya as doormat

Rudra never was a good friend of annaya from starting only. He cheated on her and used her innocence and love feelings to him to destroy her. Although others may say hes great friend and never told her loves her. But he said "i want to marry you" just to remove his guilt feeling on love towards Maya. So he used her as a bouncing board to experiement an guinea pig to test on his feelings. After proposing to marry annaya did he stay loyal to her, no he went and kept meeting Maya on silly pertex like Rishi died etc and played games with annayas feelings by hidding his feelings for Maya from her. I would say if you are going to marry a boy or a girl in few days if he or she meets her lover behind back and does all lovey dovey things is that cheating? or not?? Its cheating actually, its a crime too you are playing with another human life. Ananya trusted him enough but he betrayed her many times. Ananya was mad in love to let him play with her and should have broken the engagement only not waited for marriage. It is surprising that many people support rudra here and say ananya is wrong. If same thing a person does to you and many say its your fault how will you feel?

Even on marriage day look at that rudra ran off from back door did not go and tell people why he called of marriage etc. How clever selfish human he is? Left a girl at altar and ran off making her face world and its cruel questions. Luckily ananya is bold not innocent so drank her tears and humilations. Now MJ playing with her to help him save Rudra from Maya. Why should she? Ananya loves rudra too much now too so shes staying back. Rudra also doing emotional blackmail saying this is our dream etc.

Maya also playing games with ananya hates her and always ready to kill her as shes scared ananya knows her truth and may reveal it one day rishis death secret, but acts so goody goody in front of rudra.

If Maya deserves sympathy for what MJ did to her, does annaya not deserve sympathy for being betrayed by rudra and attacks by maya etc all playing games with her in MJ house?

Just because Maya is heroine whatever she does ok just because rudra hero all wrongs are ok but ananya wrong even if shes right? What logic is that? In eyes of society and law and God rudra is wrong for what he did to ananya. Maya is completely wrong playing games with a man engaged to others by calling him to pool and hrishikesh etc. I am not sure but society and law and God will sympathise with ananya not maya and Rudra thats the truth bitter but truth

As for taunting rudra any human in her place would do that, she has pain and anger in her hand.

If you see the man or women who betrayed you at altar will you hug and laugh and play with them? That too they were your childhood friends and they betrayed you so badly. Should ananya dance and sing with rudra? Further he keeps talking about maya in front of a woman whom he left at altar. Hes lucky other woman would have hit him black and blue. Hes a shameless insensitive man like MJ only. One character that hes got from genes i guess

ananya may be immature in love but what about rudras behaviour towards ananya? Whys he acting so immature?

Rudra did a mistake of so quickly taking a decision of getting married to another girl when he felt that he felt he couldn't love Maya .

But he was not using Any when the was proposing her. He was so clear in telling that he doesn't love her but choosen to marry her as he felt that she will never leave him and also he so wanted to tell the reason behind him wanting to marry all of sudden.. he wanted to tell her about his feelings for Maya and also the kiss he shared with her.. but Ananaya didn't let him. She was like reasons not required he came to her that's enough. He was genuinely thought he could marry Ananya. Then later Rishi's death was like test if his emotions and he was at peace when he was with Maya. And a few other extreme situations like Maya leaving office and all made him realize his death of his feelings for Maya. Yes here all these things of him meeting Maya happened when he still has given commitment to Ananya so agreed there was emotional cheating involved then at least he ended it all than continuing.

Marriage day Rudra leaving Ananya alone was not correct. I too agree.

Rudra is not doing any emotional black mailing to her. He is not forcing her to come to office. She only came and he wanted her to feel better so he was stressing that comapany's name is still same.

She can taunt him for leaving her at altar. She can taunt him for giving commitment and leaving her all alone if she is angry. But she can't taunt him for prioritizing his wife over her or bringing his wife's name before her. He doesn't need to restrict himself to talk about his wife just cause his best friend doesnt like. If he is hiding things about himself and Maya before Ananaya and being good with her , then I feel Rudra is cheating on Maya.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Then why doesn’t she just do what she promised to do, that is leave and exit from his life for good? What is she waiting for?

Why is she holding back if she is really angry at Rudra? Just resign and leave with all your might and never even bother to look back at him. If she cares even a bit about her self respect then just freaking leave.

She was ready to leave

Its rudra who did emotional drama saying ruan is our dream, i love you blah blah

who told that man to play emotional drama on childhood friend who loves him - let her go for good na

she will leave only after mayas truth is out

mayas truth about killing rishi

mayas truth about sending myra as her impostor etc

sudhirs role in mayas baby death etc

if ananya leaves all this will never happen

Originally posted by: myviewprem

She was ready to leave

Its rudra who did emotional drama saying ruan is our dream, i love you blah blah

who told that man to play emotional drama on childhood friend who loves him - let her go for good na

she will leave only after mayas truth is out

mayas truth about killing rishi

mayas truth about sending myra as her impostor etc

sudhirs role in mayas baby death etc

if ananya leaves all this will never happen

Why does she care about his emotions when he didn’t care about hers, she hates him and Maya right? So why put herself through all the emotional drama by even showing up at his office or before him? Just ignore him like he doesn’t exist.

@red Maya did not send Myra or ask her to cover up for her, she did that on her own accord.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Then why doesn’t she just do what she promised to do, that is leave and exit from his life for good? What is she waiting for?

Why is she holding back if she is really angry at Rudra? Just resign and leave with all your might and never even bother to look back at him. If she cares even a bit about her self respect then just freaking leave.

Which is exactly what she wanted to do but MJ made her stay back requesting her to at least finish the latest assignment. As a professional u can’t just walk out as and when u want. There is something called a notice period where u wind up ur remaining tasks and then quit the company for good. Plus isn’t she also a founder of RuAn? Y should she walk off ? Will Rudra hand over RuAn to Ananya just because he married Maya? Well people who want to blame the 3rd character will blame them regardless and this is a trend I have seen in countless shows and forums. If anyone can just keep MayRa aside and think about Ananya they can realise she is a girl whose heart and trust was broken by her best friend. If Ananya’s character was the lead and if it was played by Jenny then the very same fandom worshipping Maya would have supported Ananya.

Originally posted by: Psurapaneni

Hi

@ beyond horizon

Agree with you that Anu felt hurt that she was ditched at the altar . No one wants to go that route . But for me it’s better to get hurt at the altar than to stay in marriage with out love. Why do we need to bring Sanjh from S1 to compare her to Anu. Let’s limit the comparison to this season S2 . By the way Rudra gave her the space. It’s her who’s is not giving the space to her self . She came back as per the request of uncle MJ. She stayed back when MJ asked her during Rishikesh track . She is the one who brings topic about Maya at the work place all the time . @sss agree with what u said , she does not need to make Rudra guilty of marrying Maya .

Why not? Rudra has every right to betray Ananya but Anu has no right to taunt him?