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Originally posted by: Mimzy

Bold - 🤣🤣I agree.....this is an outright family drama😆Romance is sidelined😆

Yaar......You have put everything beautifully. And I kinda of agree with your thoughts especially abt Kuhu and mah fam. And I am also glad that Abir was the one who heard the convo....mishti should stay 100 miles away from this drama😆

Regarding AM scenes my mind is on a different tangent...so its a toss whether I will actually enjoy their scenes or not. But I kinda liked one of their dialogues .....mishti saying who will run away with him other than her. It was kinda cute

Its like a disguise 😆😆 Makers are promoting it as love story but only the viewers know the real picture 😆

Exactly 😆 Plus abir has better leadership skills than mishti 😛....he has that benba wala leadership trait inside him , he is focused in his thought process unlike mishti whose thoughts are somewhere scattered ...

Arey I think its mostly because we know what tension is coming up for mishbir, that's why we aren't able to enjoy their scenes 😆 Arey haan, mishti saying konsi ladki bhaagegi tumhare saath, I was like tum mishti tum ...just wait for some days 😉

Originally posted by: Onyourface

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It's an out and out family drama Shadowed by a love story so that we just feel it's a love story but actually it's a family drama ....

Actually the AM scene was a bit pheeka for me , mostly because they aren't shown having a heart to heart conversation, they aren't really given effective dialogues , it looked like a time pass scene actually.... or may be it's my fault , I was expecting more ...anyways I am happy that there is no tension between them Time pass hi sahi , both are happy and comfortable with each other ....easy breezy hai atleast hard hitting conversations nahi hai and for a change they aren't discussing kuku It's about them , they were teasing each other

Now coming to the whole drama part , what to say .... I loved the surprise actually, they all tried to go down the memory lane , it was kind a sweet actually, but again the impact was missing.... the execution was super fast , its like makers se raha nahi jaa raha Bring kuhu in the forefront and start the drama

What RVs did was actually very much normal, new addition in the family is being welcomed with gifts n all , so what , given the kind of insults mishti had received from RvS ( mostly from kunal and meenu ) , they are making extra efforts to make up for it !! For a change it was nice, I have only seen RVs pampering kunal Now its mishti Good for a change !! Plus no one's intention was to make kuhu feel left out , yeh baat alag hai that she felt that , its her fault there completely ! Don't remember but kya kuhu ko gift nahi mila tha shaadi pe ?

I feel meenu is purposely playing the divide and rule game , from fixing marriage date , to making that will to giving jewellery to mishti , when someone is trying to be extra sweet to you , be careful ..... people like meenu have hidden motives !! Meenu sach mein akshardham jaaye toh naanu mein Sorry to say sasuma pe ek rupee ka bharosa nahi mujhe .... she is using mishti's emotions once again ...

Good to see a proper badi maa abir scene after a long time

Coming to the part of the episode that I actually liked

Whatever frustration kuhu has , be it out of anger , jealousy, insecurity, divorce thing coming up , whatever it was , this time she chose the right person to let it all out to , kunal ..... finally the cat is out of the bag , she spoke what she wanted to ..... and decided to leave.... I will stick to the opinion that I had given some days back, more than mishti getting married or anything, divorce is the main thing she is upset with and mostly because her facade is going to come out , this is not the justification that I am giving for her ,but I feel this is where she is coming from ...

I am happy it wasn't mishti but abir who heard that conversation, because more than mishti I trust abir when it comes to handling all these things in a proper manner , abir very well understands kunal and also kuhu tries to listen to abir, so if abir tells something to her , she will atleast try to pay some attention... what little maturity kuhu had shown post leap , was because of the influential words abir told her once that she should try to be a stronger person ... so yeah many brownie points to makers for actually making abir the one mediator this time

Can I say maheshwari family is a dysfunctional family with a lot of group ism going on within the family.... when you try to create a family within a family , that's when a joint family starts breaking , jas needs a time off badly , if she is not liking it, varsha should actually advise her to take a time off and leave, much better than ranting about mishti here and there ... go to London and get some fresh air

I know makers have created a beautiful abinal bond for a purpose, usually what I have seen is there are fights between the two bahus and somewhere they fight extends to their respective husbands also But here I can guarantee abinal are not going to fight because of mishku who knows badi maa ki baat sach ho jaaye , actually with time RV family can make the girls feel that they are "apni" in the family....

All I want to say is , mishbir jaise bhi ho shaadi kar hi lena , bhaag ke shaadi is still on the cards , that's what I feel

Chalo ,

Kal hai abir aur mishti ki pyaari si haldi

Pata nahi abir ko kis(s) baat hi hai itni jaldi ?

Benba yun achanak kaise badli?

Kuku ki story hai jalebi ki tarah siddhi!

Ohhooooo Guruji what an opening shot yaar 🥳🥳👏👏 a fact is a fact and here ther fact is its a family drama which is why even hotstar has categorized our show as family drama not romance drama 🤣🤣

and again we are on same page yaar hifi 🥳🤗🤗

Mishbir atleast are enjoying leave it shaadi ho rahi hai so they dont want to have heavy talks let it be n lets go with flow 😆 i loved that bhaag ki shaadi convo in particular many hints for the upcoming track... 😆

Actually i was watching kuku mehndi episode today n meenu presented sets of jewels to her not a single haar but almost 4-5 boxes of jewel... and we knew how everyone treats her n what all she got after shaadi, also i remember parul maasi specially prepared boxes of sweets n items for kuhu after she came back from phaag phere... like you said she is getting jealous rather than being happy with what she has... kunal said once that everyone dances to her tune in rjv she just is taking out the frustration of divorce... but this time on right person, kunal needs this reality check too whatever the reason is kuhu going from there was a real jatka for him...

Hifi dear about Abir.. i thought the same, and we know sambalna abir ka kaam hai... he has his own ways of solving issues n this being a very sensitive issue he is the best person to make things right... kubir having the non judgmental relationship n have the habit of hearing each other is gonna help alot, and kunal no doubt will listen to his bhai advice n do things right way... 😆

Meenu yaar love you lotzzz our thoughts on her are so so similar... she being extra sweet n trying to indirectly play something is clearly visible now... i just hope mish doesnt fall in trap this time, she is confused let her be in that state itself if not a clear thought but dont let her fall for meenu's sugarcoated words... 😆

Mah fam is dysfunctional but i think this is for shaurya n varsha to have some sense n this time they might try to handle kuhu with maturity rather than like last time how they fell for jas words... let jas go naa why doing mish jhaap when she is not interested... 😆 even they posed for pic but here coming n gossiping about it why not make kuhu feel better there itself..

@bold - true Uru actually i thought about it today mah family didnt try to solve the sister issue n the girls too never shared things but RJV can make things right between them... i feel rjv fam is becoming the progressive family even with lots of flaws within, they have that capability with parul, naanu, abir now kunal too adding to list of being mature...

#bhaagMishbirBhaag 🤣🥳 my only mantra now..

Originally posted by: Agrata23

MIni sorry if I have hurt you 🤗this post is not meant for you yaar..i am very much frustrated with the justification in the forum for kuhu jealousy..and mostly all are saying its most reletable charcter in the showe..she is such a stupid and childish character how can we relate with her in real life yaar.

@bold 100%true yaar👍🏼

Geeth....🤗no problem yaara......I dnt have any attchment for Kuhu's character and kinda of agree with what all of you all said. Its just sometimes her scenes are relatable.

She would have been the most relatable if she didn't spew toxic things to mishti at every turn.....her selective empathy confuses me alot.😆😆In short hers is the most confusing character for me......koi logic nahi hota soch mein. Inexplicable hatred towards mishti had seemed OTT from the start when in reality you feel for an animal also if u live with them for sometime.....mishti toh phir bhi insaan hain😆

Originally posted by: Mimzy

🤣🤣I might be only person who is waiting for them to show some desperation.

Divorce drama aane do......they will again be desperate😆

Diyaaa.....I was not talking abt Kuhu specifically .......it was generic. Anyone can feel bad, especially when you are at your low point. Kuhu was already sensitive because of Kunal and his neglect so when these situations happened her mind went in a direction which was more against herself than a blame aginst mishti. She was putting herself down because she is been made to feel worthless by Kunal.

Otherwise it was nothing to make a big deal abt. Its kind of similar to the hospital scene where Kuhu was upset and the family called up and asked abt Mishti.

Bold - 😆😆This was the lamest thing abt the whole scenario. 😆Jasmeet had time to bitch but couldn't she have tried to make Kuhu feel included??😆😆Sab ke sab khud pade the foto lene keliye......aur smile bhi kar raha thaa.......aur uske baad bitch bhi kar raha hain😆

Mini what a sync you have today only we talked about desperation n here you wish will be granted divorce drama n the desperation is gonna be 100 times more now 🤣🤣

Ok this i agree when we are at low point anything n everything will hurt us... but we cant blame family for that... leave it like i said before if she gets kunals love n priority most of the problem can be solved... regarding sisters i trust on RJV to mend it slowly in future...

@bold - haina i was like if you feel so much why didnt you volunteer to take pic rather than posing happily 🤣 hypocrisy much kitty party aunty 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Its like a disguise 😆😆 Makers are promoting it as love story but only the viewers know the real picture 😆

Exactly 😆 Plus abir has better leadership skills than mishti 😛....he has that benba wala leadership trait inside him , he is focused in his thought process unlike mishti whose thoughts are somewhere scattered ...

Arey I think its mostly because we know what tension is coming up for mishbir, that's why we aren't able to enjoy their scenes 😆 Arey haan, mishti saying konsi ladki bhaagegi tumhare saath, I was like tum mishti tum ...just wait for some days 😉

True.....Abir is somewhat better organized in stressful situations. Banda clear hain. Plus I dnt want mishti to butt her head in this problem also and get blamed. Mishti thinks in black and white when it comes to other people's problems......right or wrong is her only thought. Abir kinda of has a more broader view than mishti, plus he is not hated by Kuhu and can influence her to some extent. Also he is the best candidate to help Kunal to manao Kuhu.

Bold- no yaara.......I kinda of said it to diyaa....that I am missing the desperation from their end after the ambulance drama. Tanda tanda hain sab kuch ......and superficial. Their scenes were always high on emotions before......isliye this sudden flip/neutral expressions when so much is going on is making me confused.😆

Mishti hi bhaagegi....😆wahi tho kaha usne.....😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Ohhooooo Guruji what an opening shot yaar 🥳🥳👏👏 a fact is a fact and here ther fact is its a family drama which is why even hotstar has categorized our show as family drama not romance drama 🤣🤣

and again we are on same page yaar hifi 🥳🤗🤗

Mishbir atleast are enjoying leave it shaadi ho rahi hai so they dont want to have heavy talks let it be n lets go with flow 😆 i loved that bhaag ki shaadi convo in particular many hints for the upcoming track... 😆

Actually i was watching kuku mehndi episode today n meenu presented sets of jewels to her not a single haar but almost 4-5 boxes of jewel... and we knew how everyone treats her n what all she got after shaadi, also i remember parul maasi specially prepared boxes of sweets n items for kuhu after she came back from phaag phere... like you said she is getting jealous rather than being happy with what she has... kunal said once that everyone dances to her tune in rjv she just is taking out the frustration of divorce... but this time on right person, kunal needs this reality check too whatever the reason is kuhu going from there was a real jatka for him...

Hifi dear about Abir.. i thought the same, and we know sambalna abir ka kaam hai... he has his own ways of solving issues n this being a very sensitive issue he is the best person to make things right... kubir having the non judgmental relationship n have the habit of hearing each other is gonna help alot, and kunal no doubt will listen to his bhai advice n do things right way... 😆

Meenu yaar love you lotzzz our thoughts on her are so so similar... she being extra sweet n trying to indirectly play something is clearly visible now... i just hope mish doesnt fall in trap this time, she is confused let her be in that state itself if not a clear thought but dont let her fall for meenu's sugarcoated words... 😆

Mah fam is dysfunctional but i think this is for shaurya n varsha to have some sense n this time they might try to handle kuhu with maturity rather than like last time how they fell for jas words... let jas go naa why doing mish jhaap when she is not interested... 😆 even they posed for pic but here coming n gossiping about it why not make kuhu feel better there itself..

@bold - true Uru actually i thought about it today mah family didnt try to solve the sister issue n the girls too never shared things but RJV can make things right between them... i feel rjv fam is becoming the progressive family even with lots of flaws within, they have that capability with parul, naanu, abir now kunal too adding to list of being mature...

#bhaagMishbirBhaag 🤣🥳 my only mantra now..

Really ?? Hotstar is smart 😎😎🤣🤣 guess now we all should collectively accept this fact 😆

Yooooohooo hi fi 🤗🤗🤗 I was sceptical about my views being accepted today 😆 but glad we are still on the same page

Haan haan they have given many hints now , time for bhaagam bhaag now 🥳🥳

Kuhu ka main kya bolun 😆😆 For a change it was nice to see kunal getting a proper reality check 😎

Haan I am happy abir will be the one playing a big role here , he will solve the issues in a sensible manner and who knows given the banjara attitude, won't be surprised , he will come up with a living separately solution 🥳🥳 and everyone will agree too

Meenu is a clever lady 😎 See the new segment ...now being too sweet towards kuhu too 🤣🤣

I have no hopes from Shaurya or varsha ....but dekhte hai...

Bold - words yaar Can't be so sure about others but abinal can surely do something to mend the relations , I mean who understands sibling bond better than them ❤️

Originally posted by: Mimzy

True.....Abir is somewhat better organized in stressful situations. Banda clear hain. Plus I dnt want mishti to butt her head in this problem also and get blamed. Mishti thinks in black and white when it comes to other people's problems......right or wrong is her only thought. Abir kinda of has a more broader view than mishti, plus he is not hated by Kuhu and can influence her to some extent. Also he is the best candidate to help Kunal to manao Kuhu.

Bold- no yaara.......I kinda of said it to diyaa....that I am missing the desperation from their end after the ambulance drama. Tanda tanda hain sab kuch ......and superficial. Their scenes were always high on emotions before......isliye this sudden flip/neutral expressions when so much is going on is making me confused.😆

Mishti hi bhaagegi....😆wahi tho kaha usne.....😆

Bold - words words words...you summed it up perfectly .... abir has a better understanding of relations and personalities, and he shares a healthy bond with kunal and kuhu individually so I am quite excited to see how he deals with all this , plus now he considers the worth of his second chance on broader levels so he is definitely not going to give up on mishti , no matter what

May be right now mishbir are not in the mood to call out the elephant in the room , its like sub consciously they know there is a time bomb, but they are trying to be show that see everything is fine only ....we will get through this kind of attitude 😳

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Mini what a sync you have today only we talked about desperation n here you wish will be granted divorce drama n the desperation is gonna be 100 times more now 🤣🤣

Ok this i agree when we are at low point anything n everything will hurt us... but we cant blame family for that... leave it like i said before if she gets kunals love n priority most of the problem can be solved... regarding sisters i trust on RJV to mend it slowly in future...

@bold - haina i was like if you feel so much why didnt you volunteer to take pic rather than posing happily 🤣 hypocrisy much kitty party aunty 😆

Thank god😆.....Maybe I am the only one excited for this divorce drama....😆.....Maybe we will get to see mishbir fighting for each other as a team for a start😆

True....we can't blame family for that........but then somehow I think these small things do matter.......😆I think I read somewhere kuhu got some 5-10 haar boxes on her shaadi so her feeling bad myt be a little overboard.😆

Bold- 🤣🤣🤣HahahahaHa

Exactly🤣its not like Jas was even needed in the picture unlike Kuhu😆

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Thank Suta and Diyu for the written updates. I really don't know where the story is moving.I just want MishBir to get married this time. Rest i don't care.😃

But i have a request. 24/7 #chant....what does it mean? Makers,can you please give KUHU some proper dialogues without many hastags. Is it so difficult to say a proper sentence without using hastags. It's really annoying. I am not able to understand what is she saying these days,forget about sympathizing with her.

@bold: chant means chaalaak...cunning. Kuhu was trying to say that Mishti is 24/7 cunning

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Bold - words words words...you summed it up perfectly .... abir has a better understanding of relations and personalities, and he shares a healthy bond with kunal and kuhu individually so I am quite excited to see how he deals with all this , plus now he considers the worth of his second chance on broader levels so he is definitely not going to give up on mishti , no matter what

May be right now mishbir are not in the mood to call out the elephant in the room , its like sub consciously they know there is a time bomb, but they are trying to be show that see everything is fine only ....we will get through this kind of attitude 😳

Bold 1- This line reminds me of the episode in their friendship phase where mishti says to abir ...." tum hi toh ho na iss ghar mein, jo logon ko aur rishton ko samajhte ho" Its true. 👍🏼He has a better understanding when it comes to relationships

Bold 2 - Hmmmm.....its possible ......they just dnt want to think abt what might happen and is probably trying to be happy in the present👍🏼Its like if they acknowledge the time bomb ........then everything becomes too real......

Interesting perspective Uru as usual......I am actually needing help these days to understand them😆