Suffering Caused by Women

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Up until now, I thought both Diya and Antara turned a blind eye to MJ's deeds because they "loved" him but boy was I so wrong?! They are equal partners in these horrid acts!


A girl pleading for help is not only called "kachara" and "giri hui" but is thrown to MJ's feet to be mercilessly abused.


Women like them are what enable men like MJ to have such inflated egos and nerve to hurt and abuse girls.


I haven't seen the episode. I don't have the stomach to digest these atrocities but I am with Maya. I wish she hadn't killed Rishi but I am with Maya!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Totally agree..it was disgusting to see how Antaras behavior calling Manvi kachra and then Diya calling Maya giri hui and I wanted them to look at the mirror. Khud ki aukat to dekh lo

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Totally agree..it was disgusting to see how Antaras behavior calling Manvi kachra and then Diya calling Maya giri hui and I wanted them to look at the mirror. Khud ki aukat to dekh lo


Exactly! I am so mad right now! 🤬

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I was about to post this in my analysis thread today, but it applies better here, so adding here as well.


Kehte hain naa - aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai. It's true. Whether in personal or professional life, sometimes women are their own worst enemy.

It's things like these. Abusing another woman, treating them as crap, labeling them garbage, and attempting to kill them. Antara was fine with Manvi and MJ's affair as long as it was outside her house. But the moment she came face-to-face with Manvi, it was no longer outside her house. Now she had to react and she did. Diya is okay being the other woman in MJ's life and letting him have flings with other women, but the moment the other women speak up they are "giri huyi".

In a way, it shows the hypocritical nature of people. As long as MJ was keeping his affairs outside the house, Antara was fine with it. But the moment, that very affair came to her door, it woke her up. And she doesn't want to be woken up. She's happy being the trophy wife who believes that she is important. But the moment someone reminds her of that state, she sees them as garbage. She is also projecting herself onto them. Until Manvi didn't come to her door, she was happy being oblivious and pretending she was important, but the moment Manvi's shadow befell on her doorstep, it reminded her that she was a nobody in MJ's life. Just garbage.

With Diya, she's happy being the other woman and keeping her affair with MJ hidden from Antara. As long as Antara doesn't question her, she is fine. Yes it hurts that Antara calls herself the only Mrs. Roy, but Diya is willing to take that pain because she believes that she is more important to MJ than Antara. She refuses to see the truth, which is that she is a homewrecker. But the moment someone else enters MJ's life and becomes the "other woman", she is reminded of her reality and is unwilling to take it, thus this other woman becomes giri hui to protect herself.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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For Maya not only she went tormented by diya antara both but they even abused a pregnant woman physically and mentally.. and killed her baby to feed everyones ego.. how does antara pain of losing rishi become more than Mayas losing her own baby mercilessly.. the way she pushed to the floor being inconsiderate that she is carrying..

All this abuse can cloud anyone to an extent of pushing them into extreme darkness.. killing cant be justified but what Maya did with rishi guess anyone in the abused mental and physical state of Maya would do the same

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minionite

I was about to post this in my analysis thread today, but it applies better here, so adding here as well.


Kehte hain naa - aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai. It's true. Whether in personal or professional life, sometimes women are their own worst enemy.

It's things like these. Abusing another woman, treating them as crap, labeling them garbage, and attempting to kill them. Antara was fine with Manvi and MJ's affair as long as it was outside her house. But the moment she came face-to-face with Manvi, it was no longer outside her house. Now she had to react and she did. Diya is okay being the other woman in MJ's life and letting him have flings with other women, but the moment the other women speak up they are "giri huyi".

In a way, it shows the hypocritical nature of people. As long as MJ was keeping his affairs outside the house, Antara was fine with it. But the moment, that very affair came to her door, it woke her up. And she doesn't want to be woken up. She's happy being the trophy wife who believes that she is important. But the moment someone reminds her of that state, she sees them as garbage. She is also projecting herself onto them. Until Manvi didn't come to her door, she was happy being oblivious and pretending she was important, but the moment Manvi's shadow befell on her doorstep, it reminded her that she was a nobody in MJ's life. Just garbage.

With Diya, she's happy being the other woman and keeping her affair with MJ hidden from Antara. As long as Antara doesn't question her, she is fine. Yes it hurts that Antara calls herself the only Mrs. Roy, but Diya is willing to take that pain because she believes that she is more important to MJ than Antara. She refuses to see the truth, which is that she is a homewrecker. But the moment someone else enters MJ's life and becomes the "other woman", she is reminded of her reality and is unwilling to take it, thus this other woman becomes giri hui to protect herself.


Totally agree! Women like them, who have very low or no self-worth, are more dangerous than men like MJ. Even in our society, for the longest time, women (MILs siding with their sons wrong doings and normalizing their actions by saying stuff like "Ladke toh aisa karte hi hai!"; My dadi included!) have been enablers of such behaviors.

What surprises me is that a woman like Antara managed to raise two good boys!

I am glad that the times are changing now and that more and more women are uniting in their efforts to empower each other.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: NamuVyas

For Maya not only she went tormented by diya antara both but they even abused a pregnant woman physically and mentally.. and killed her baby to feed everyones ego.. how does antara pain of losing rishi become more than Mayas losing her own baby mercilessly.. the way she pushed to the floor being inconsiderate that she is carrying..

All this abuse can cloud anyone to an extent of pushing them into extreme darkness.. killing cant be justified but what Maya did with rishi guess anyone in the abused mental and physical state of Maya would do the same


Seriously! Maya's return is a tight slap on all of their faces because they thought they got away with their sick actions. I agree that Maya brought the trouble on herself by falling in love with a married man and trusting him. But I am 100% team Maya.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Actually, it is not true just about women. If anything, men are more hostile to members of their own gender when it comes to sexual competition.


Antara and Diya are territorial about the man in their lives, and they view the new fawn on the lawn as a threat. Maanvi has the potential to steal away MJ from them, and they must shield against the threat that emanates from the new contestant in the tournament to win MJ's affection.


And, like someone said, they both projected their own insecurities on to Maya. It was their own low self-worth speaking when Antara and Diya branded Maanvi/Maya as the 'garbage' and 'fallen woman' respectively.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minionite

I was about to post this in my analysis thread today, but it applies better here, so adding here as well.


Kehte hain naa - aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi Dushman hai. It's true. Whether in personal or professional life, sometimes women are their own worst enemy.

It's things like these. Abusing another woman, treating them like crap, labeling them garbage, and attempting to kill them. Antara was fine with Manvi and MJ's affair as long as it was outside her house. But the moment she came face-to-face with Manvi, it was no longer outside her house. Now she had to react and she did. Diya is okay being the other woman in MJ's life and letting him have flings with other women, but the moment the other women speak up they are "giri hui".

In a way, it shows the hypocritical nature of people. As long as MJ was keeping his affairs outside the house, Antara was fine with it. But the moment, that very affair came to her door, it woke her up. And she doesn't want to be woken up. She's happy being the trophy wife who believes that she is important. But the moment someone reminds her of that state, she sees them as garbage. She is also projecting herself onto them. Until Manvi didn't come to her door, she was happy being oblivious and pretending she was important, but the moment Manvi's shadow befell on her doorstep, it reminded her that she was a nobody in MJ's life. Just garbage.

With Diya, she's happy being the other woman and keeping her affair with MJ hid from Antara. As long as Antara doesn't question her, she is fine. Yes, it hurts that Antara calls herself the only Mrs. Roy, but Diya is willing to take that pain because she believes that she is more important to MJ than Antara. She refuses to see the truth, which is that she is a homewrecker. But the moment someone else enters MJ's life and becomes the "other woman", she is reminded of her reality and is unwilling to take it, thus this other woman becomes giri hui to protect herself.


+1 Also Antara is fine with Diya staying with them but she called Manvi garbage just because she was MJ's employee. Diya, tum apne ghire baal main jhaakar dekho. Tum ek do koudi ki gynec ho. Aur kuch nahi.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mahisa22

Actually, it is not true just about women. If anything, men are more hostile to members of their own gender when it comes to sexual competition.


Antara and Diya are territorial about the man in their lives, and they view the new fawn on the lawn as a threat. Maanvi has the potential to steal away MJ from them, and they must shield against the threat that emanates from the new contestant in the tournament to win MJ's affection.


And, like someone said, they both projected their own insecurities on to Maya. It was their own low self-worth speaking when Antara and Diya branded Maanvi/Maya as the 'garbage' and 'fallen woman' respectively.


But why would anyone crave affection of a multi-timing a** hole like MJ in the first place?

Edited by Mitsu91 - 5 years ago

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