Originally posted by: mayu1982
BEFOFE commenting on Sid dnaaz would like You guys something on My real experience-
My brother in law is same in nature like Sid . He is having anger issues and in anger he becomes very abusive- means very like saari, Randi, and what not . I always use to wonder how come his wife tolerate all such thing?
SHe said to me - he loves me a lot - pampered me a lot , fulfilled all my wishes ( which is so true), nice & caring to my family , good father but in anger he is mean person . She said I cant leave him because of his anger. We all are human with flaws else we will be god. HE is not god and I am not god . His flaws is clearly visible and mine is under wrap.
After that i never question about her marriage ? It’s nothing to do with not having self respect, dignity it’s more about loving the positives side of the human . SHE might hate him during fight but she loves him for all his positively. Love conquer all. Love is more than hate .
SAME goes to sidnaaz - don’t judge them.
I am feeling bad for them - 4 month- mentally , physically and emotionally exhausted, above all insecurities and fear of losing each othr. Within few day they’ will be out they will be in their world . It’s too much for them . One thing is clear- hope and pray both sidnaaz stay together forever otherwise both of them need therapy and counseling. Sending positive vibes to them.