Originally posted by: Npdeepa
Oh my bad... I am sorry ammu...🤗
Chodo na yaar... forgive him...poor boy...😆
Yes, it is true...selfless love is possible...trust me till 25 I was like 'No marriage in my life', can't handle duniya baar ki responsibilities🤣, cant be in sacrificial mode all the time, can't be in the kitchen all day and so on... I hate boys as in life partner but as in friends, I am okay.
But I met him when I came to UK, to pursue my higher education. A common friend at workplace connected us. Later, he told me that he liked me in our first meet itself (actually,I too felt that spark but neglected) . Little did he know that I am aware of his feeling but I was ignoring it...because my funda is different hain na...😆.
He gave me so many hints and all.... hahahaha🤣 I was like 'JUST IGNORE'.
Then he took it to my parents, my parents rejected his proposal because his mom is no less than Meenakshi Rajvansh.🤣
When you gals would be wondering in the forum like 'will there be a person like BB in real life' , many times I wanted to shout 'Gals, I am a living example.
Then so many things happened between us which made me realize that yes there is soulmates wala love in real life too in the span of 6 months.
I convinced my parents too along with our common friend. My father's first condition is 'my daughter would never settle in India, if at some point they wish to settle in India, they should live seperately. No bigben or family drama'🤣.
He stood stern in his decision that he will never return to India ever, if his parents doesn't let him marry me' . so his parents has to agree as well.
I am married for 13 years now, still my MIL is the same. Thank god my FIL is gem of a person and he is the only one who could handle my MIL. Every human being will born with a basic characteristics which couldn't be changed and will never change.
I read in one of the comments that after Mishbir marriage the story is over. To me, a story of any men or women starts only after marriage especially given a saasu ma like BB more drama. Before marriage, any women or men is just a chapter of their parents story. That's it.
Hope, I didn't made you weary with my story.🤗