Desperation at next level - Page 3

Originally posted by: naaznin

https://twitter.com/toitv/status/1221863212871639040?s=19

First time i would agree with paras she is cougar 🤢

i understand she doesn't have a good looking husband but this is looking desperation of some other level.

Shukla n paras were correct in questioning her character

😲😲😲 besharam!!!! Wasn't she the one who clarified to bhau that she was kissing asim so that it is not awkward for himanshi and asim???

😡😡😡

This is the full interview

Shefali Jariwala joined 'Bigg Boss 13' midway and in no time emerged as one of the strongest contestants on the reality show. However, towards the end, it seemed like she was losing her sheen and was voted out over the weekend. Soon after her exit, Shefali spoke to BT about her journey on the show, proximity with friend-turned-foe Asim Riaz and her equation with Sidharth Shukla. Read on...

You were inside the house for three months. How would you sum up your journey?

It’s been a wonderful experience. There are many good players and the stress level is high this season. I am happy that I lasted for three months, I think that I am a better version of myself today. There is so much to learn in the house — it’s a game of patience, willpower and courage. There were times when I was down and out, and I didn’t know I had so much patience and courage to fight back, because in the real world, if you don’t like something, you walk away from it. Living in the house, I also realised that I am logical and sensible compared to a lot of others (laughs!). I also got in touch with my emotional side; I am happy to know that I could be this emotional. I am proud that I played with a lot of dignity and tried my best not to stoop low even when people provoked or instigated me.

You seemed quite strong in the first half, voicing your opinions and standing up for what you believed was right. However, towards the second half, many people felt that you ended up being under the shadow of Sidharth Shukla, Paras Chhabra and Mahira Sharma... Inside the house, if you show a sign of weakness, the others pounce on you, they use and abuse it. Being a wild-card entrant, my biggest challenge was to forge an alliance; I needed it. I bonded with Hindustani Bhau (Vikas Fhatak), Himanshi Khurana and Asim Riaz. After Bhau and Himanshi were eliminated, it was just Asim and me in the group. We were going strong; I trusted him completely and thought that it was mutual. However, his behaviour changed overnight, and he became rude towards me. Actually, he played a game with me, just like he played with Sidharth Shukla. The moment he found Himanshi and me, he walked out on Sidharth. And the moment he found Rashami Desai, he walked out on me. If you lose a strong alliance at that point in the game, you become directionless. It happened with me right in the middle of the game, when I was going strong. Around that time, Sidharth and Paras exited the house (temporarily) because of health reasons. When they returned, their attitude towards me had changed. I am very organic with my relationships. I didn’t befriend anyone as part of a strategy or game. I befriended them because I truly liked them. And just when we were about to become a team, I was eliminated. I am always pro-Sidharth. There were issues with him in between, but I have known him for a long time, and I will vote for him. I want him to win the show. At the moment, Asim is the most negative and toxic person inside the house.

Many of your supporters felt that you looked stronger with Asim and comparatively weaker when you joined Sidharth, Paras and Mahira’s team...

I must have looked strong when I was with Asim, because he doesn’t have a mind of his own. On the other hand, Paras, Mahira and Sidharth have very strong opinions. It wouldn’t have been possible for me to jump in and share my opinions with them right away. At that time, winning their trust was most important for me; I had to be mellow, show them who I really was, and didn’t want them to feel threatened. In that process, it might have come across that I was losing my mojo, which wasn’t the case.

When Asim and you were good friends, a section of the audience also felt that there was something more between the two of you. What do you have to say about that?

Oh no, not at all. In fact, Asim did hit on me initially. It wasn’t direct, but everyone in the house had sensed it. However, I made it clear to him that I am a much older, married woman, and I am not interested. That’s when he shifted his focus to Himanshi, who, too, didn’t give him any attention back then. So, he used my friendship and me to get close to her. I have never taken a fancy for Asim. Yes, I did love him as a friend; I always called him my little kiddo in the house.

You said that this season features a lot of good players. Who is your pick?

Irrespective of the kind of game they play — negative or positive — Sidharth and Asim are good. Paras is also a very good player, he knows how to manipulate and play with your psyche. Shehnaz Gill, too, is a player. She knows exactly what she is doing, she is not a child. I don’t think Rashami is a good player, I don’t know what she is doing in the house.

You said that unlike the outside world, you can’t walk away from people inside the house. Given a choice, who would you have walked away from?

Definitely, Asim and Shehnaz. She had started getting on my nerves towards the end. In fact, her pretence of being a stupid, little child was getting to everyone in the house. Sidharth, too, is done with Shehnaz now. It’s sad, as they looked great together for the audience.

While you had the support of Sidharth, Paras and Mahira inside the house, your husband Parag Tyagi was your biggest supporter outside. The two of you come across as contrasting personalities. While he seems to be the emotional one, you are quite practical. What’s the secret to your happy marriage?

I don’t know... I think it’s all him. I am not an easy person to live with. Yes, I am very practical. It’s not that I am not at all emotional, but I am not very expressive. It happens when you start working at a very young age. Being a woman in a man’s world, it’s more of a self-preservation tactic. But Parag understands me and knows how much I love him. I think his understanding has kept us together and also, the immense trust he has in me. But I have to say that after three months in the Bigg Boss house, I do want to show that man some more love now. That’s something I realised for the first time in my life. You understand the true value of something when you are away from it. I can’t live without Parag now.

Originally posted by: naaznin

He said in SR n i don't blame him for that.

Shefali was the only one married there so her closeness would definitely be questioned who would find uncomfortable to watch .

You have already blamed Sid in your very first post without any proof.

The lady contradicts herself.First she says she looked strong with Asim because he has no mind of himself and in the end he's playing good game negative or positive.

She is filled with hatred towards Asim and Shehnaz

Disgusting churail. If someone hits on u and still u ran aafter him. Why shes crying for attention.

Originally posted by: naaznin

He said in SR n i don't blame him for that.

Shefali was the only one married there so her closeness would definitely be questioned who would find uncomfortable to watch .

Yes of course these 2 were speaking in secret room. Paras AGAIN said she was a cougar...🤪

Set wht rubbish. Either she is cunning or delusional infact right title desperation at next level.

In start I liked their frndship and when then parted ways I was not so happy but he personality changed my view and I thought it’s good for asim but never thought that she will stoop to this level.

Seriously I wish asim baat bhi na karay ghar main is se coz according to sources she will be back in house. Aap ka behaviour and statements se pata chalta hai k wht u feel n think for asim.

Originally posted by: indraneelbb

Show me the Clip when Sid used that *** word for Jari..or its your own convenient word for her just because she was against Asim?

First read my post

I said paras called her cougar

Shukla n paras together were in secret room n their they said she is chipkoing asim etc

Now I'm not replying back to u. So pakana band kro n episodes dekho n post pura padha kro

Originally posted by: naaznin

First read my post

I said paras called her cougar

Shukla n paras together were in secret room n their they said she is chipkoing asim etc

Now I'm not replying back to u. So pakana band kro n episodes dekho n post pura padha kro

read this line again

"Shukla n paras were correct in questioning her character"

in secret room even sid said that he found her disgusting because of her these antics since she was even married