RaSim- Discussion Thread 6- Humari Dosti Kissi Ko Pachtti Nahi - Page 64

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

I’m sorry guys but you’re over-reacting now. Asim didn’t start that aisi ladki thing here. He was asking Sid ki Kaisi ladki chahiye? And the Sana started Aisi aisi and he was laughing at that.

Agreed. Not the nicest thing to laugh at, but by now it’s become enough of a joke in that house especially after that Deepika task. Rashmi could hear the entire convo too.

Anyway! I think you’re all being too harsh on Asim. He’s a 26 year old guy after all, and this in no way means that Asim won’t stand with Rashmi or anything like that.

It’s the same thing when Rashmi didn’t defend Asim when Arti was bitching about him.

They’re friends but they do stay with other people 24/7- so they do talk and have fun with others and I’m sure a lot of times people do make fun of them in front of each other also. They can’t over react at everything and sometimes will be part of jokes too.

Please don’t overreact on every small thing. Coz after this very video Asim went and slept the night outside with Virima and Rashmi. So friendship toh intact hai.

Are you actually calling this a small thing and comparing it to the Aarti ranting incident ?

Its not the same buddy. Everyone knows the context of aisi kaisi. And just because the task involving Deepika happened and Rashmi took it sportingly because sbe had no choice does not mean ots okay to keep excusing everyone else who is doing it. That task was wrong and so was this. You said so yourself whee n the task happened. Why call this a small thing ?

Rashmi hearing this entire convo means nothing. People are literally throwing dirt at her face and sbes taking it, does not make it okay let alone her own friend being a part of this.

I would have said the same had Rashmi sat witb this group and laughed along with them on Asim getting bullied and his family getting abused.

The aisi ladki has become a national joke and thats bad enough. For someone so close to be a part of the joke is unfathomable.

PS - Where can i see the entire convo? Maybe il get a better idea.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

I’m sorry guys but you’re over-reacting now. Asim didn’t start that aisi ladki thing here. He was asking Sid ki Kaisi ladki chahiye? And the Sana started Aisi aisi and he was laughing at that.

Agreed. Not the nicest thing to laugh at, but by now it’s become enough of a joke in that house especially after that Deepika task. Rashmi could hear the entire convo too. ( albeit it’s still not nice and right thing to do but If RD has internalised it and has managed to let it go, others around will think the same esp when someone like deepika comes and it’s made out to be a skit.)

Anyway! I think you’re all being too harsh on Asim. He’s a 26 year old guy after all, and this in no way means that Asim won’t stand with Rashmi or anything like that.

It’s also like when Rashmi didn’t defend Asim when Arti was bitching about him.

They’re friends but they do stay with other people 24/7- so they do talk and have fun with others and I’m sure a lot of times people do make fun of them in front of each other also. They can’t over react at everything and sometimes will be part of jokes too.

Please don’t overreact on every small thing. Coz after this very video Asim went and slept the night outside with Virima and Rashmi. So friendship toh intact hai.

This is not mistake of sana,asim or zariwala but the makers,Salman.....how salman justified that word and how makers asked to recreate it.....all thses made fun of aisi ladki word.....and rashmi left with no option than ignoring it.

Rashmi didnt defend asim? Arthi was nonstop talking nonsense which doesn't make sense n rashmi eating what she will tell?

Originally posted by: -PoisonIvy-

Are you actually calling this a small thing and comparing it to the Aarti ranting incident ?

Its not the same buddy. Everyone knows the context of aisi kaisi. And just because the task involving Deepika happened and Rashmi took it sportingly because sbe had no choice does not mean ots okay to keep excusing everyone else who is doing it. That task was wrong and so was this. You said so yourself whee n the task happened. Why call this a small thing ?

Rashmi hearing this entire convo means nothing. People are literally throwing dirt at her face and sbes taking it, does not make it okay let alone her own friend being a part of this.

I would have said the same had Rashmi sat witb this group and laughed along with them on Asim getting bullied and his family getting abused.

The aisi ladki has become a national joke and thats bad enough. For someone so close to be a part of the joke is unfathomable.

PS - Where can i see the entire convo? Maybe il get a better idea.

Asim didnt made fun of rashmi....context is different

Checkout Asim's question for Shehnaz on Voot https://voot.app.link/D7eZWK3Nl3

Originally posted by: -PoisonIvy-

Are you actually calling this a small thing and comparing it to the Aarti ranting incident ?

Its not the same buddy. Everyone knows the context of aisi kaisi. And just because the task involving Deepika happened and Rashmi took it sportingly because sbe had no choice does not mean ots okay to keep excusing everyone else who is doing it. That task was wrong and so was this. You said so yourself whee n the task happened. Why call this a small thing ?

Rashmi hearing this entire convo means nothing. People are literally throwing dirt at her face and sbes taking it, does not make it okay let alone her own friend being a part of this.

I would have said the same had Rashmi sat witb this group and laughed along with them on Asim getting bullied and his family getting abused.

The aisi ladki has become a national joke and thats bad enough. For someone so close to be a part of the joke is unfathomable.

PS - Where can i see the entire convo? Maybe il get a better idea.

On voot. Search for 'Asim's question for Shehnaz'.

Originally posted by: -PoisonIvy-

Are you actually calling this a small thing and comparing it to the Aarti ranting incident ?

Its not the same buddy. Everyone knows the context of aisi kaisi. And just because the task involving Deepika happened and Rashmi took it sportingly because sbe had no choice does not mean ots okay to keep excusing everyone else who is doing it. That task was wrong and so was this. You said so yourself whee n the task happened. Why call this a small thing ?

Rashmi hearing this entire convo means nothing. People are literally throwing dirt at her face and sbes taking it, does not make it okay let alone her own friend being a part of this.

I would have said the same had Rashmi sat witb this group and laughed along with them on Asim getting bullied and his family getting abused.

The aisi ladki has become a national joke and thats bad enough. For someone so close to be a part of the joke is unfathomable.

PS - Where can i see the entire convo? Maybe il get a better idea.

@bold - there is a post in MF. You can check out whole convo and yes, they made fun of that word.

Originally posted by: anshvi

I agree if Rashmi is cool with it and they are still friends then I don't know why here people are overreacting

If Rashmi had an issue I am sure she would have let Asim know and Asim would have apologised instantly!

I don't think we created an issue when Rashmi was listening to Arti bitching about Asim infront of her

Rashmi is not very confrontational. I doubt she will tell Asim how she feels Im sure she assumes that he already knows the extent of hurt the aisi ladki incident caused her .

The Aarti ranting and aisi ladki arnt the same. The latter was a much larger issue involving character shaming . The whitewashing of it and turning into a joke is just pathetic whether its by HMs or by guests.

Where was Rashmi here ?

As for you creating an issue... maybe you didnt do it... but a few did... and its okay.

Im.just very uncomfortable right now... maybe because hes sitting wuth those losers and the "joke" sounds awful !

Originally posted by: -PoisonIvy-

Are you actually calling this a small thing and comparing it to the Aarti ranting incident ?

Its not the same buddy. Everyone knows the context of aisi kaisi. And just because the task involving Deepika happened and Rashmi took it sportingly because sbe had no choice does not mean ots okay to keep excusing everyone else who is doing it. That task was wrong and so was this. You said so yourself whee n the task happened. Why call this a small thing ?

Rashmi hearing this entire convo means nothing. People are literally throwing dirt at her face and sbes taking it, does not make it okay let alone her own friend being a part of this.

I would have said the same had Rashmi sat witb this group and laughed along with them on Asim getting bullied and his family getting abused.

The aisi ladki has become a national joke and thats bad enough. For someone so close to be a part of the joke is unfathomable.

PS - Where can i see the entire convo? Maybe il get a better idea.

firstly where did I call it a small thing? I said the deepika skit has sort of made Rashmi internalise this and because she has and laughed over it, all these people now think it’s something they can joke over! Obviously not a good thing to do- but then they have. Also for all the goodness in the world, the whole house including Rashmi and Asim have a lot of times said Ladkiyon jaisi harkatein, Janani to the males in the house. So believe me these two are better than most others but aren’t the very progressive types!

Asim never participated in this joke before that deepika weekend. Yeah I don’t think he’s completely right to even laugh at it- but cut him some slack, he’s 26- he clearly thinks Rashmi is over the joke now! Asim himself talks to both paras and Sid nicely thesedays and these guys have abused Asim’s family to the core. So people who stay in the house tend to move on faster on issues then we can as an audience. They live together.

I didn’t compare it to Arti incident in the same vein. I’m just saying they can’t always defend each other or stand for each other at every thing. But that shouldn’t be hampering their over all friendship!

Anyway! You can watch the whole clip on Voot, or even in that other thread. Someone has posted the whole video I think. Sid also talks to Rashmi within the same video btw.

Originally posted by: thehell567

On voot. Search for 'Asim's question for Shehnaz'.

Just did. He clearly laughed...and asked "aisi kaisi aisi kaisi" a few times...

I think Shefali been successful in her mission of creating differences between Asim and Rashmi by saying Rashmi ne Asim ko uksaya. And Rashmi getting close to Shukla after forgetting everything. Next few days are important for this thread. We will see whether this RaSim topic survive or not.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

Nahi jayega toh Asim will be made them jealous one in this SidRa nonsense!