Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer
I don't think Sid is being a man-child.. it's natural to be worried about falling in someone much younger than you.. not to forget that Sana's first option was indeed someone who was in her age bracket.. and then everyone keeps harping on about the age thing.. so his insecurity is indeed natural.. I would have been more surprised if he did not show any apprehension regarding the age Gap
As for bringing up Paras, Sid is jealous of him.. period.. he cannot stand Sana taking Paras's side even if it's right.. that's his insecurity. This is kind of similar to how Shahrukh wouldnt let Gauri wear certain kind of clothes when they were secretly dating.. When you are in love with someone but cannot claim it, you tend to get even more possessive due to lack of ownership.. the Same is happening with Sid.. he is not sure he is right for Sana.. he is not sure if he will be Sana's choice in the long run. And all this is making him really insecure
He wants to give it all sometime but at the same time cannot stay away from her.. not the best position to be in
you put it so nicely about Sid’s feelings and insecurities! Yes it’s a fact that you cannot take your gf or the one whom you have feelings for takes ex’s name when she isn’t completely yours yet! I have gone thru it, but once he knows he owns you, he won’t be insecure but will be very understanding