SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 7 - Page 109

Originally posted by: intruderfast

@ Umaji. Sid is equally affected and in love . Its just he is more mature and has a better grip over emotions .

The way he handles sana ke tantrums on monday, thebslaps , abuses . He wld not have taken it for anyone else . It takes spl guts to take all think on national television.

And wrt to sana , he also does immature things . Khud paras vishal kaa topic laayega to poke her.

Dono kaafi sanki, vulnerable ho Gaye hain ek doosre ke pyaar mein. Sana jyaada bas.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I too feel it was unjust to Aarti, but don’t you think she may have kept Aarti nominated to ensure that in case of a two person nomination, Mahira’s chances of leaving could be higher considering vote bank division? Just asking. I personally felt that as insensitive as it felt, it was a good strategizing.

I wish I could get into the frame of mind or not caring about their words for each other. My only prayer is that if Sid actually wants distance and space, she should be giving it to him whether it pains her or not.

Yes, him not speaking to her makes her wiring for kaput 😆, but then, I don’t feel she damaged anything for him really by being with the other team yesterday. Did you feel so?

Th same wasnt done cos abhi HM are scared to talk anything bad abt sid shukla. Thrashing nahi chahiye wkw mein

But I cld see that they were trying very hard indirectly.

Wo sana ko praise kare hi jaa rahe they.

Umaji ye likh ke le lo, sana cant strategize much.

I think we agreed ki sid sana se baat nahi karta to uska dimaag poora kharab ho jaata hai.

So there was no strategy , it was just bhadaas😆

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Maaro, koi mujhe maaro. Sid and his teasing! But, yes. Highlighting the love bite was teasing for sure. Lekin kya mila in return. Unpredictable total royal teasing in the form of the saving Vishal suggestion from Sana 🙄

Ofcourse Sid needs Sana in his life. The way he shows his needs are just well, in extremes.

Aap bahut pyaari baatein karte ho. Thats how Sid is and thats how Sana is. They are extremes themselves. And we have seen extremes working. They will have to learn about each other. And we have seen growth in their relationship. We just have to wait and see how they deal with each others trigger point and weaknesses.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Th same wasnt done cos abhi HM are scared to talk anything bad abt sid shukla. Thrashing nahi chahiye wkw mein

But I cld see that they were trying very hard indirectly.

Wo sana ko praise kare hi jaa rahe they.

Umaji ye likh ke le lo, sana cant strategize much.

I think we agreed ki sid sana se baat nahi karta to uska dimaag poora kharab ho jaata hai.

So there was no strategy , it was just bhadaas😆

You are right. Sana is heart and Sid is brain. They just have to work together.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Th same wasnt done cos abhi HM are scared to talk anything bad abt sid shukla. Thrashing nahi chahiye wkw mein

But I cld see that they were trying very hard indirectly.

Wo sana ko praise kare hi jaa rahe they.

Umaji ye likh ke le lo, sana cant strategize much.

I think we agreed ki sid sana se baat nahi karta to uska dimaag poora kharab ho jaata hai.

So there was no strategy , it was just bhadaas😆

I agree that now the HMs are scared of how they are seeming in the Sidnaaz equation. The fact that Sana unko muh pe bol diya about Sidnaaz will only make them more defensive that they had better play helper roles to romance. And ofcourse they fear Sid and Salman. All of them are actors and know how public sentiment works when it comes to jodis and they wouldn’t want to be villains in this movie 😆

I am not sure about whether it was strategy or bhadaas- I think it was both 😆. If we note Sana speaking to Vishal earlier, she clearly tells Vishal to be very careful speaking to Rashmi and to tell the same to Madhurima too for the sake of their relationship. I felt that was very mature from her. Again she gives a low key subtle warning to Rashmi to not bring Sid’s name into everything.

So Sana actually knows Rashmi and her games in and out is what I feel. She uses Rashmi beautifully for her gain is what I still feel. To me, her talking about Sid to Rashmi and Rashmi’s normal reactions makes me feel like it exposes Rashmi’s game blatantly that she really has nothing much against Sid and her allegations are really crap. Coz this is not how a woman who has been used by a guy really behaves. Sid’s anger is justified coz he’s the victim and Rashmi looks like the fool who built a fake story to gain footage.

I also personally felt that what Sana has achieved via her bhadaas or strategy, however we call it is getting her own team thrown under the bus with nominations while making it seem like it was her going against the other team. She just equaled the playing field for all and left each contestant to their own fans herself included. She also told Sid to the effect that see- I got everybody including Rashmi to keep you in... I think we are undermining her intelligence in all this. It’s not just headless chicken play. Just my opinion.

But yeah, when it comes to Sid and his teasing or his words or whatever, she’s a lost case.

Originally posted by: Ritzie

Aap bahut pyaari baatein karte ho. Thats how Sid is and thats how Sana is. They are extremes themselves. And we have seen extremes working. They will have to learn about each other. And we have seen growth in their relationship. We just have to wait and see how they deal with each others trigger point and weaknesses.

To all, anybody can respond

Noticed at last page that sana again talked to aarti abt sid and said muhe neecha dikha raha hai, niklvana chahta hai. Did she say so? If she did, what do you opine?

And sana talking to rashmi about Sid is definitely not js any insane move, it is very sochi smjhi chaal😆, sana told her agr sidharth k baare mein kuch boli to muh tod dungi. She has something going on in her head, either she wants to know how much Rashmi knows sidharth, if they were in a relationship, then defo rashmi shall know him inside out. Sana is not a fool, i agree she loses her sanity when it comes to Sid but i js deny to believe that she is talking with rashmi about Sud without a reason.

Guys just tell me something

In the precap was Sana sitting next to Sid during the captaincy task ?

I hope they made up !

Originally posted by: Uma2010

That is sort of how I felt today, Rabi. I did not take him checking her outside as something extraordinary. He would have surely done the same for Mahira or Aarti. Sana is coming out grossly self-destructive in her love- makes the depth feel one-sided. Also, the fact remains that he really thinks her panic attacks were drama and intended to put him on a spot and if he does feel so, I can’t blame him completely. Many people who aren’t familiar with panic attacks tend to imagine them as tantrums, especially on a person like Sana.

It feels heartbreaking as nobody can mention it to Sana that people love her whatever the way she portrays herself (minus yesterday's). Her mind is only stuck to the point that Sid understands her the most and if he calls me jealous then the world outside is already concluding it as well. She indicates this thousand times 'meri game sid se shuru aur us pe khatam hai'. And frankly, sana's game is all about entertaining the audience, the most harmless one. Since now her words and actions many a times don't match so Sid isn't able to comprehend Sana and hence he is searching ways to stay focused at game. Hence, he wants to keep a thora distance with her as its ruining his game as well. Sid is playing with mind, Sana does through heart. Her insecurities are attached to her heart and so is Sid but Sid doesn't know this so all his thoughts that somehow run in his sub-conscious are taking the shape of words and frustration does speak some truth, at least. Sana needs to understand if she is now there in game for Sid only then she can be a doormat (as in not picking up any fights with him, just be shush with whatever he does), but if she wants to add a little but of her mind in her game then she will have to bear the outcomes of it. Its has never been smooth in any relationship, kt depends on needs and expectations of both. Sid clearly needs space, and he is absolutely right in that. Again I'll say the only thing she needs to work at is her self-respect, if she has got that, she will solve all kinda problems that come her way.

Agreed about the tantrum thing.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Thankyou and I agree that never before have we seen such extremes trying to make it together! It just doesn’t stop. The constant pushing and pulling will make our skins wear off their flesh 😆

Haan hamein pagal banaya hua hai inn dono ne🤣