Are only women allowed to show their emotion? - Page 7

Originally posted by: The_incredible

See I'm also here for Sha only..u seem to think so much..I have put in the AT if u really think pushing away as manhandling then just watch any of Gul shows..mmore defined meanng is available there🤗🤗

I had watched most of GUL serial.. I am well aware of manhandling in her serials.

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Exactly, they actually need a very good mature beautiful scene before ending this track,without kuhu kunal and nannu interruption.Trp bhi is mindless track ki wajahse down Ho rahi hai ,upar se sp ki ignorance

this Vaishu no interruption just mishbir needs to have a direct conversation alone.. 👍🏼

yaar just like baba track trp is going down bcoz of this track yaar they like it when mishbir together did things like mishbir confession n kuku shaadi got highest trp after that too trp was high as it was awesome phase both couple handing their issue well on own after baba track trp went down...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Didnt mishti slap kunal....wasnt that going physical...she could have also used words na ?? Why was she being violent ...(Though I agree kunal needed the that slap) but no one took an offence then ..

Don't take me wrong dear but I do feel that push thing is being blown out of proportion now, yes it was better if he had avoided it but he also dosent deserve such harsh judgements because of the push

I am saying makers should avoid such things and both characters ruined post leap so not justifying any characters as Misti becomes so stupid.

Going to drop in my two cents here. Abir and Mishti are both making mistkes because they are not in the correct head space. The situation they currently are in, is a result of their own doings, none to be blamed more than the other. Mishti chose to not tell Abir she was investigating Baba because she thought Abir was not too strong to handle it and it might affect their relationship. Abir didn't try to work around Meenakshi's blackmail because he couldn't think of a way to. He was put in a spot, he had little to no time. He has known Kunal for all his life and Kunal took great pride in being Meenu's son. So yes, the truth is going to shake him. So Abir decided he had to protect his brother. At the cost of his relationship with Mishti. They were both wrong and they are both suffering.

Currently, I don't know about Abir not deserving Mishti but I do know Mishti should stop pining for Abir. Bringing in a third character was cute for the first two seconds but out of character. Abir's jealousy has always been in a cutesy shade, Mishti decided to 'weaponize' it. Which was... Wrong? She constantly tried doing it when not necessary and that was a mistake. Mishti needs to stop fighting for them when Abir doesn't want her to. We know that he does, he isn't telling her. She is assuming and being happy and then she again needs to 'test' it. Stupid moves. But, he is taking his time, when he tells her she should move away, she should. It is not only for Abir's sake. Meenakshi gets yet another chance to taunt Bade Papa which is terrible. Mishtu should think of the family who is so concerned for her. They are so tensed for her well-being, hoping she moves on. BP wanted her to be a strong lady who is capable in and of herself. That is what Abir admired about her, not she isn't behvaing that way. She loves him. I know. We all know but I hate to see what they do to her character when they let her be crazy behind him.

Also, Mishti asking "Did Abir ask you to do it?" was a pretty natural reaction. The guy who has been super supportive of her belief that Abir still loves her, who has been living in the guilt of hurting his family, striving for a better life for the last ten years was given alcohol, literally poision for him. It pu ten years of his life to trash, also put his life in danger. Mishti didn't know Meenakshi knew she was back. Mishti only knee that she has tried to make Abir jealous. Mishti only knew that if Abir (being the person that he is) wanted to make a move on her he would want to know she was available. She doesn't know Abir thought "She took my name as soon as she woke up." she doesn't know anything about his side of the story except that he broke up with her first publicly, then privately, both being very hurtful. It was a moment of pani, of almost losing a friend, of ruining his life for her love. It was okay that it slipped from her mouth. We all say things that we regret later.

And all of this that is happening just goes on to prove that Abir and Mishti really needed a break from each other. Their story is beautiful but they were ready to get married too soon. There was no 'knowing' each other. There was just knowing what they other was feeling. They didn't share secrets, they didn't share trust. Mishti has always feared being left alone. Abir promised to never do that. When she finally believed him, (we could see that when she reassured him that she'd fight for their love always) he left her. Which is terrible in and of itself. Abir was never loved unconditionally, Mishti did that but Abir's selfless love for Kunal proved to him, again, that he couldn't have unconditional love. These two have a long way to go. They need to work around a lot of extwrnal issues but that can only happen when they take care of the internal issues. They are not irredeemable or ruined as characters. It is not surprising that they are doing things that they are. Him saying that he hates the fact that he loves her, valid. Because he currently does. If Kunal tried to kill himself, Abir is going to be upset about it. Expecting blind trust is expecting him to be God. He will come around, he is still the same man. He'll think it through when he is not surrounded by panic. They need room to grow and I would love to watch that. Expecting a flowery fluff is stupid, we are watching a real relationship (as real as they come on ITV). I want the growth and the development and I know that they'll come out stronger that ever. You don't automatically 'deserve' people by doing a few things. It's a constant process.

So yes, Abir will deserve Mishti as long as he gives her reason to trust himself and Mishti will deserve Abir as long as she loves him unconditionally. That is what their entire relationship is based on and removing any of those messes things up. Sometimes, it's in excess and that messes it up to but as long as they want to be together, as long as they are willing to, it's all good.

“If soulmates do exist, they are not found, they're made. People meet, they get a good feeling, then they get to work building a relationship.”

Maybe the post got just too heavy. I have a lot of thoughts about the leap, sometimes I get angry at Abir, sometimes at Mishti but I guess that's just the process of loving them, I want them happy. That doesn't mean I won't let them make mistakes and grow.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

this Vaishu no interruption just mishbir needs to have a direct conversation alone.. 👍🏼

yaar just like baba track trp is going down bcoz of this track yaar they like it when mishbir together did things like mishbir confession n kuku shaadi got highest trp after that too trp was high as it was awesome phase both couple handing their issue well on own after baba track trp went down...

Exactly, and the channel and makers still not getting it ki leap ke Baad waala 2.0s kisi ko nahi chahiye tha, sabko purane MishBir hi saath chahiye the, atleast 1 saal to unko bina koi itvgiri kiye saath rehne dete, ek shaadi unki dekh Kar fir show chodti main, but nahi ye faltugiri karna zaruri tha

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

this Vaishu no interruption just mishbir needs to have a direct conversation alone.. 👍🏼

yaar just like baba track trp is going down bcoz of this track yaar they like it when mishbir together did things like mishbir confession n kuku shaadi got highest trp after that too trp was high as it was awesome phase both couple handing their issue well on own after baba track trp went down...

The baba track is like, the downfall of the show. Whatever did they do when they were writing that one.

Originally posted by: ingenuity

Going to drop in my two cents here. Abir and Mishti are both making mistkes because they are not in the correct head space. The situation they currently are in, is a result of their own doings, none to be blamed more than the other. Mishti chose to not tell Abir she was investigating Baba because she thought Abir was not too strong to handle it and it might affect their relationship. Abir didn't try to work around Meenakshi's blackmail because he couldn't think of a way to. He was put in a spot, he had little to no time. He has known Kunal for all his life and Kunal took great pride in being Meenu's son. So yes, the truth is going to shake him. So Abir decided he had to protect his brother. At the cost of his relationship with Mishti. They were both wrong and they are both suffering.

Currently, I don't know about Abir not deserving Mishti but I do know Mishti should stop pining for Abir. Bringing in a third character was cute for the first two seconds but out of character. Abir's jealousy has always been in a cutesy shade, Mishti decided to 'weaponize' it. Which was... Wrong? She constantly tried doing it when not necessary and that was a mistake. Mishti needs to stop fighting for them when Abir doesn't want her to. We know that he does, he isn't telling her. She is assuming and being happy and then she again needs to 'test' it. Stupid moves. But, he is taking his time, when he tells her she should move away, she should. It is not only for Abir's sake. Meenakshi gets yet another chance to taunt Bade Papa which is terrible. Mishtu should think of the family who is so concerned for her. They are so tensed for her well-being, hoping she moves on. BP wanted her to be a strong lady who is capable in and of herself. That is what Abir admired about her, not she isn't behvaing that way. She loves him. I know. We all know but I hate to see what they do to her character when they let her be crazy behind him.

Also, Mishti asking "Did Abir ask you to do it?" was a pretty natural reaction. The guy who has been super supportive of her belief that Abir still loves her, who has been living in the guilt of hurting his family, striving for a better life for the last ten years was given alcohol, literally poision for him. It pu ten years of his life to trash, also put his life in danger. Mishti didn't know Meenakshi knew she was back. Mishti only knee that she has tried to make Abir jealous. Mishti only knew that if Abir (being the person that he is) wanted to make a move on her he would want to know she was available. She doesn't know Abir thought "She took my name as soon as she woke up." she doesn't know anything about his side of the story except that he broke up with her first publicly, then privately, both being very hurtful. It was a moment of pani, of almost losing a friend, of ruining his life for her love. It was okay that it slipped from her mouth. We all say things that we regret later.

And all of this that is happening just goes on to prove that Abir and Mishti really needed a break from each other. Their story is beautiful but they were ready to get married too soon. There was no 'knowing' each other. There was just knowing what they other was feeling. They didn't share secrets, they didn't share trust. Mishti has always feared being left alone. Abir promised to never do that. When she finally believed him, (we could see that when she reassured him that she'd fight for their love always) he left her. Which is terrible in and of itself. Abir was never loved unconditionally, Mishti did that but Abir's selfless love for Kunal proved to him, again, that he couldn't have unconditional love. These two have a long way to go. They need to work around a lot of extwrnal issues but that can only happen when they take care of the internal issues. They are not irredeemable or ruined as characters. It is not surprising that they are doing things that they are. Him saying that he hates the fact that he loves her, valid. Because he currently does. If Kunal tried to kill himself, Abir is going to be upset about it. Expecting blind trust is expecting him to be God. He will come around, he is still the same man. He'll think it through when he is not surrounded by panic. They need room to grow and I would love to watch that. Expecting a flowery fluff is stupid, we are watching a real relationship (as real as they come on ITV). I want the growth and the development and I know that they'll come out stronger that ever. You don't automatically 'deserve' people by doing a few things. It's a constant process.

So yes, Abir will deserve Mishti as long as he gives her reason to trust himself and Mishti will deserve Abir as long as she loves him unconditionally. That is what their entire relationship is based on and removing any of those messes things up. Sometimes, it's in excess and that messes it up to but as long as they want to be together, as long as they are willing to, it's all good.

“If soulmates do exist, they are not found, they're made. People meet, they get a good feeling, then they get to work building a relationship.”

Maybe the post got just too heavy. I have a lot of thoughts about the leap, sometimes I get angry at Abir, sometimes at Mishti but I guess that's just the process of loving them, I want them happy. That doesn't mean I won't let them make mistakes and grow.

@bold please explain this,before breaking what Abir "didn't do"to make Mishti trust him?And yes Mishti loves him unconditionally but but there is a twist the line which abir said(even though faking) jahan bharosa na wahan pyaar ni ho skta...Vo bharosa Mishti Abir pe ni krti..and that is what as a viewer I want to know why.

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Exactly, and the channel and makers still not getting it ki leap ke Baad waala 2.0s kisi ko nahi chahiye tha, sabko purane MishBir hi saath chahiye the, atleast 1 saal to unko bina koi itvgiri kiye saath rehne dete, ek shaadi unki dekh Kar fir show chodti main, but nahi ye faltugiri karna zaruri tha

@bold This line cracked me up🤣🤣🤣ITV me itni shadi hoti hai ki fans ek shadi k baad khshi khushi show chor dete.How many shadis are you expecting for Mishbir?

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

@bold This line cracked me up🤣🤣🤣ITV me itni shadi hoti hai ki fans ek shadi k baad khshi khushi show chor dete.How many shadis are you expecting for Mishbir?

🤣🤣🤣ha na Yaar, they love to do shaadi all the time ,kuch nahi hua to Chalo break up Karte hai, Kyuki 6 mahine Baad waapas shaadi karni hai

Ummmmm🤔🤔🤔🤔 for mishbir I am betting for atleast 5, minimum, Max to jab tak show chalega Tab tak hoti rahegi, unke bacche bhi unki shaadi karayenge

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

@bold please explain this,before breaking what Abir "didn't do"to make Mishti trust him?And yes Mishti loves him unconditionally but but there is a twist the line which abir said(even though faking) jahan bharosa na wahan pyaar ni ho skta...Vo bharosa Mishti Abir pe ni krti..and that is what as a viewer I want to know why.

Mishti has abandonment issues. She will always fear that people will leave her. When she was finally beginning to accept that Abir is always going to be by her side, he chose to protect Kunal, that is, he chose Kunal. That is, even after he promised Bade Papa that he will never choose. Mishti was ready to run away with him because she trusted him but he left her all of a sudden. He could have simply told her he was choosing Kunal but here she doesn't have a single idea about why he left her. Null, nada, except the fact that Meenu is behind it but then again, Meenakshi is behind everything. This is what happened during the haldi, Abir didn't know why Mishti did what she did but he knew she didn't actually want to do it. Except, they were only in love with each other, didn't actually confess, so there was a 'what if'. Now, they were ready to move into a new phase of their established relationship and he abruptly left her and his excuse was "I don't trust you". After constantly trusting her, he suddenly declares he doesn't. Mishti has issues so yes, she will not be easily able to trust him again. Her parents loved her but her father is a criminal, her mother left her. Her family loved her but they sent her to Rajkot without even telling her why. So, yeah, Abir repeated a pattern.

Also, the statement you emboldened was a general statement. For all of their future, Abir will have to make sure. I know Abir is super-trustable and I don't mean to say he has to constantly do things for her. But he has to maintain a certain balance, always. Same goes with Mishti. You can't suddenly stop putting efforts into a relationship. They'll crash.