Originally posted by: Uma2010
As I have been writing yesterday all over, Sana does and did go overboard. It would be tough for any man to stand by her with the words she spoke! Coz they make no sense at face value! But do we really have a good idea of how far the eviction drama and the SR nomination have affected her? Why does she now feel the desperate need
to ask immunity from Asim? How deep has she lost trust in her own that she feels Sid will not save her when she needs it? Let me choose three random situations.
Sid opted to have her face blackened in public over Asim’s in front of her idol. He choose Aarti over Paras, knowing she has issues with Aarti (whether legitimate or not). The same Aarti’s nominates her. Sid then opts to save Mahira over herself from the SR. In short, she may be feeling she is “game” to him inspite of all of Sid’s attention because she still feels she is off league somewhere. And there have been no real confessions.
So, she feels the need to socialize and keep everyone in her good books because a) Salman told her to mix and mingle b) Keeping to just Sid+ PaHira gives her no gaming advantage c) Kya pata who will be charitable towards her if she behaves well with all? 😕
Her shouting at Mahira that Paras would meet her outside is not a Sana is in love with Paras thing. It’s her telling Mahira you are gaming with Paras like you are gaming with my Sid. You are using both and making me look like shit from the very beginning. I was serious about Paras once. You played. Now, yet again with Sid. Paras will meet me outside as a friend coz he knows I am one. But will he meet you? No, coz both of you are just game for one another. So stop faking things and stop hurting my relationship with Sid by being coy with him.
That she had to make a “deal” with Asim is a loud unsaid cry that she is deeply insecure. And now Mahira is choosing to be coy, calling Sid Ammi and what not and she feels the ground slipping from beneath her. She might be wondering if Sid is using her. She goes out of her way and tell him she is loyal to him alone and he says loyalty nahi chahiye. Big ouch.
Sana may say nothing matters to her. Every single thing matters to her. She needs her man to say I will save you before Aarti. I will stay by you in every circumstance. You may have a fan following outside, but inside and outside I am yours. I believe that is what she wants to hear, feel and know.
The only reason I haven’t presented Sid’s pov is coz it’s been done well by many before me and as I said earlier, he cannot read everything that runs in Sana’s mind until she communicates! He is not god! He is the god of BB 13 though :)
Relationships are not a series of games. Games don’t help learning one another. Communication alone helps. Let’s see where they go from here, if at all.