Originally posted by: sandy786
Guys, Do you really think Sidnaaz can stay away from each other? Like seriously!
Anyways imagine if Sidnaaz don't speak each other as before, let's see consequences of that thing -
1. They both will go Insane. And this is true. They both are Sanity to each other's insanity. You can see their behaviour in separation week.
2. They both have communication problems between them. They can talk to other people about each other, but why not talk between themselves and sort things out. This is the biggest weakness of their bond.
I mean why can't Sana say to Sid that I want to be your first priority?Why can't she question him, why he usually doesn't chose her over arti or any one when it comes to game? Why can't sid say to Sana that He doesn't like her Paras jaap? Why can't he say to her that he wants to be her first and only priority?
Why?
People have taken advantage of their lack of communication before, are taking advantage of it now, will take advantage of it in future, if they don't sort it out.
3. They both will loose a genuine person who is not playing game with them in the house. And I don't want to happen for both of them. Because in that house, you need somebody, with whom you can say anything and that person will not judge on that. They are each other's THAT person. I hope they stay together, because if they break apart, it will not be good for their Mental / emotional health.
4. In this whole matter, I feel Sid has clarity that what does HIS DIFFERENT feelings for Sana means? He knows that he likes /loves her in the way a boy loves a girl. But Sana doesn't have that Clarity. She doesn't exactly know what Her ALAG WALI feeling for sid means or she doesn't want to know, because somewhere she has an inferiority complex, so Might she's able to come up with term's that How can a guy like Sid fall for her?
And For Once and all I want to say woh paras se pyaar nahi karti hai. Logon ki zindagi beet jaati hai saath mein but fir bhi kayi baar pyaar nahi hota aur log bol rahe hai Sana ko 2 week's mein paras se pyaar ho gaya. Like seriously? Whatever she had for paras is crush/ infatuation / maybe Like BUT definitely is not Love. The problem is that there's nobody in the house to tell her the difference between the same.
On the other hand, The way Sidnaaz relationship has developed is very organic. They have taken their time. Their relationship is like Slow Burn Romance, where Reader's are dying that when will the leads Confess / kiss or whatever! But trust me this kind of romance is long lasting one and my personal fav genre of romance.
5. Now Sid is saying to Sana to go somewhere else and talk, but will he be able to bear it. First of all I want her to cut paras completely out. He isn't good for any girl ,Period .
OK So now imagine Sana start's talking to Vishal, Asim or other guys except sid, Paras. Will Sid be able to bear it? And that too for Two months?
Are you Keeding me...?
Spare Vishal, Asim, He got jealous when Vikas was lying on Sana's lap in Task. And He thinks he can watch her with any other guy
So Sidnaaz will be back together eventually, because Sid has that Vibe with him. Woh Meri Bandi hai. He got jealous of khesari ji, who was a married man, And then do you think he will be able to see Sana with guys, who actually is ready to give her attention?
No way, they will be back together.
6. Let's put ourselves in Sid and Sana's shoes one by one.
Sid - He is hurt from Sana. OK. But why? Let's decode that. ILY toh Sana ne paras ko pehle bhi bola tha, Then why this thing hadn't happened at that time. Because I feel at that time Sid was unsure of his feelings /didn't wanted to accept them / was having doubt regarding Sana's loyalty towards him. Then he Went to Secret room and He saw that Sana actually is the only person in house who genuinely cares for him and is loyal to him. So yes Finally he had accepted himself that He likes / loves Sana the way a boy loves a girl and Now he wants his girl all to himself. He doesn't want her taking names of Paras, Vishal etc.. He wants to be her first and Only priority. And he got hurt because Sana said Ab se Vishal tu mera sab kuj (BTW Vishal ne kya pained look diya iss baat par like he wants it, but knows will not get it wala look) and her telling Paras tere se feeling aati hai and shareaam bolti hu ki pyaar karti hoon. So finally Sid has let it all out and is angry from her. Which is right on his part.
Sana - This girl! Oh God! She says so many things which she doesn't even know what they mean? And She's getting lots of hatred for the same thing too. People aren't able to understand her. OK let's see her POV.
She has been told through out the Season that Sid always chooses arti over her, she is never their priority, but she hadn't acted on those things initially, but she also never talked About it to her group. Paras never had her as his priority. And Now when she sees paras, Sid giving mahira importance in nomination, Captaincy task, So finally all the things that have been pent up inside her, Has finally come out in open. And in between those, she said some word's that hurt Sid, which she doesn't know . The bottom line of whole thing was She just wants to be Someone's first priority. She knows mahira is paras's, but see she's isn't even sure about sid as he is saving arti, mahira. She felt bad that even though sid is with her ,he is agreeing to mahira Captaincy thing. And She doesn't know about sid's newly realised feelings. So she isn't getting what has she done that has hurt him that much, because ILY thing toh pehle bhi hyui hai, tab toh aisa kuch nahi hua.
So it's good she's trying to manao him.
I think she's confused about her feelings towards sid.
Thing is that Sana doesn't know how to Express properly with Words and Sid doesn't want to express.
7. Pahira is taking advantage of Whole Sidnaaz misunderstanding. They are coming out as genuine friend's and Bla bla.... Here in all scenario, Mahira is coming out sensible by constantly saying she's looking negative and people feel paras is Sidnaaz shipper.he isn't guys. Just check after he came from SR ,he told Sana things in Circles which he could have told directly!
Why doesn't Paras clarify to Sana in straight words that He have zero feelings for her and nothing can happen between them. But he always talks in circles, He wants too keep Sana by his side too as his play card . He is playing very dirty game!
He is trying to take out focus off Sidnaaz, so is doing whole Pahira thing, they sometimes copy Sidnaaz, just notice them.
He's with sid because Sid is strong player and he knows it. That's it.
I feel sidnaaz should not let Pahira interfere between them.
Bottom line is that All people inside house except Of VG wants Sidnaaz to separate, but they can't stay away from each other for long. So chill! They will be back together and stronger than ever !
P .S. sorry yaar maine toh essay hi likh diya